I'm 13, but I act and look like I'm 17?
Hey! So I have a problem. I'm 13, going into 8th grade this August, but it's like I'm fricking 17. My sister is 17, and wherever we go people always think I'm the older one. One time my sister and I were on Omegle (a website where you video chat with random people) and people guessed my age as 21! So, yeah, clearly I look way older than I am. But not only that, I act way older than I am too. I think a lot of this is because I spend a lot of time with my sister (17) and my brother (20). But I listen to like hardcore rap like Tech N9ne and 2pac. And this sounds awful... I know. But you know how when you're 17, everyone smokes weed and it's not a big deal? Well that's what I think like. I went to the Wiz Khalifa concert with my friend (who's my age) and she was freaking out about how everyone was smoking but I just took a deep breath haahha. And I swear way more than I should too. And everyone in my grade is "in a relationship" which I think is so ******* stupid. Like they say "I love you" after an hour and they "go out" for like a week. It's so stupid and it makes the girls look like sluts because they have a new "boyfriend" every week. All I wanna do is party, but when you're in middle school there are no parties hahah. No one in my grade thinks like I do and would freak out if they saw someone drinking or smoking. And I fit in perfectly with high school kids, it's weird. Like I was hanging out with this 21 year old (he was teaching me how to long board. Nuthin creepy haahha) and he was so much more fun to hang out with. Plus my sister knows this freshman and she says he's like my long lost twin haha. We're not even friends on Facebook but we've had the same status like 5 times. So basically, I'm wondering what to do? I hate being friends with middle school kids! They're immature, annoying, and just plain stupid. No offense if you're in middle school, I just mean like 99% of them :) I can't chill with high school kids because I don't know where to meet them and what kind of high schooler would want to hang out with an 8th grader? How do I meet cool, chill kids to hang out with this summer? Thanks a bunch!! XOXO
How do I get a girlfriend? I'm 13 years old (pretty good looking kid) but I can't seem to get a girlfriend. I also am scared to be rejected if the person doesn't like me. How do I get over this?
Failure is its own reward. Rejection happened to your greatest heroes, and your greatest heroes’ heroes too.But I want to focus on something else, too. A relationship is not an objective.There is no such thing as a “relationship goal.” It’s a lie that tricks you into buying into whatever someone decides to sell with their “supplements.”Ask yourself why you want a girlfriend, first. Do I want to share the love that I was taught to, someone else? Do I want to fuck another girl silly and experience that pleasure? Do I believe it will bring me good fortune? Will people think I am a loser if I do not have a girlfriend?It is very difficult to truthfully answer these questions and feel conviction in your heart to dissuade your biological instinct to find a mate and date.So ask yourself this one, very important question, and you might have flocks of girls fighting each other to get YOUR attention.“Do I have a passion for things in life that are completely unrelated to girls?”Once girls see you pursuing something greater than what they have to offer, their curiosity will bring along their attention.Just don’t trick yourself into thinking that you have to prove anything to anyone. It will only harm you in doing so. Focus on your happiness first, and then you’ll have more than enough to share it with others too!
Before, I was told that I was good looking, but now I’m more outgoing and I’m told by everyone that I’m ugly and skinny. I’m just 13. Am I going to get uglier and uglier?
Who would be telling you something like this? Not a friend, that’s for sure.You are the age where everyone, everyone, thinks they are physically unsatisfactory, and for the next few years that illusion will haunt you. All your age-mates probably feel the same. But who admits this in middle school or high school? At that age, to admit those doubts can label you as a “loser,” at least in the minds of more aggressive kids who don’t actually know any more than you do.There’s a saying that seven compliments = one insult. It’s sad but true that false insults stick in our minds for decades while true compliments seem to slide right off. It’s not fair, but that seems to be how we work.I’d give you the usual advice that adults give youngsters, (be kind, be patient, enjoy your youth, be good to your knees) but those tend to slide off, too. Everything is so hard to do in your teens, emotions are so intense, and your body is changing so quickly and unevenly that its hard to settle down and think, much less absorb some grownup’s same old worn out advice. They just don’t understand!Instead, here is something might help: remind yourself that all those adults — all those parents, teachers, neighbours, relatives — were at one time where you are now. They all thought they were ugly, that their lives were hopeless, that they were alone in school, that they were stupid or clueless. When adults offer advice to you, they are really offering it to themselves, to their confused and unhappy younger selves, as well as to you.If you want to astonish and please the adults who love you, try to take their advice seriously, try to understand their advice even if you decide not to follow it.You want them to listen to you — they also want you to listen to them. They do understand. The country you are navigating for the first time is someplace they have been. You cannot imagine how much they want to help you navigate the swamps and potholes, and enjoy the forests and flowery meadows of your youth.
I am 13 years old and I love writing. What are some good tips and tricks to help me become a more interesting and engaging writer?
Write believable characters, which means studying people and everything about them: the way they talk, especially. Dialogue, the conversation, is the single most important thing you can learn as a writer. You MUST write good dialogue. A good writer can write an entire scene of nothing but dialogue and never have to describe the scene or the place or anything about where the scene takes place. It can all be done with the dialogue. Example:"Hey, Joe.""Hey, Fred! You're soaked to the skin!""Well, it's raining pretty hard out there. You're still in your jammies.""I goof off on Sundays. You should too, instead of working so hard. Want some coffee?""Yeah, thanks. It sure smells good. It's cold out there!"In five lines, I told you these things:1) The names of the two men.2) It's raining hard. (and cold outside)3) Joe is still in his pajamas.4) It's a Sunday.5) Coffee is brewing.6) Fred is a hard worker.7) Joe goofs off on Sundays.8) These two guys are friends and know each other pretty well.9) The scene is probably at Joe's house, else he wouldn't be in his jammies, drinking coffee on a Sunday.10) Joe thinks his friend Fred works too hard.Ten things! I told you ten things with only five short lines of dialogue and never did I have to say "It's raining." or: "Joe and Fred are friends." Or: "Joe likes to drink coffee and goof off on Sundays in his jammies."Dialogue. You can make magic with it. Now go and learn how to make magic, young writer.
Why are looks so important these days?
Im 13, and im fat, iv had 1 girlfriend ( on and off for about 2 years )so shes basically about it. I want to know why looks are so important! The girl i love ( yes, im 13, but i do actually love this person ) goes for looks, so those guys dont actually like her and treat her like crap! So once they break up she comes crying back to me and the rest of our friends and it reapetes. I know she ONLY like me as a friend because she made it clear many times. She has the greatest personality and she beautiful. WHY are looks SO important?! Its not fair.
Im 13 and weigh 100 lbs. I think i look really fat. If u have any advice on how to become skinny let me know.?
It sounds psychological to me. Unless you are under three feet tall 100 pounds isn't fat. At thirteen that sounds about right for your age. It depends on your height. But if you are about 5' or taller even being 4' 8" you are not fat in the least. Change your opinion of yourself because that seems like the problem. Is someone telling you that you are fat? That seems more likely as well. Relax. You are still growing and you seem to be at the right weight.
Im 13 why do girls my age like crazy outgoing retards?
Im a little shy but i talk alot more now and im good looking everyone says so.But im a little shy towards girls and it seems like girls in jh only like outgoing boys that are many of them are not so nice.And im nice and good looking.and i treat girls really well. why do girls at my age like boys like that? all girls that are in junior high or are older please answer
Im 13 and i want boobs. im absolutely flat . how do i grow boobs!?
is there anything i can do to make my boobs grow? and to get a little taller and gain weight? im only 73 pounds and i have no eating disorders but people have asked me if im anorexic and i eat soo much. well i dont eat healthy at all but im desperate i hate being teased about "the wall" which is reference to my chest. and i dont want to try breast enlarging pills cuz i dont want it to screw my growth up. AHHH im going into high school next year and i dont want to be flat then. and i wear padded bras already so i look ever so slightly bigger i wear AA cup and im screwed cuz now if i take it off people will know i have no boobs. and its hard to go swimming cuz im always scared the pads in my bathing suit will fold or something and show that im flat. HELP!!!!