People think I'm ugly?
Hi Mia :) Dear, let the people talk what they want to. I know for sure that you are not ugly. First of all, there is no such thing as ''ugly'', and I am being totally honest with you. :) Boys at your age are relatively immature and they don't have manners as it seems. Very sad to hear that some people are like that, but as long as you are a nice and kind person and stay faithful to yourself then only this makes you beautiful :) You don't have to dye your hair or get contacts to look beautiful, girl :) As a matter of fact, I know many girls, but also boys who look very attractive in glasses and to be honest: The natural hair color is and always be the best one. It is a major fault of the society nowadays to convey the people that outer appearance is everything, but I am telling you: It is the inner character what counts, believe me ^_^ If you have more questions then you can always ask me :) I hope I could help you Take good care :)
Why do people say I'm ugly?
You are not ugly, my friend. Because you are not your body. You are your soul. The soul survives the body and never gets old, it is eternally young. And sometimes it is incarnated in a beautiful body, sometimes in a sick body, sometimes in an ugly body ... All bodies are destined to be ugly. When you get older, your body becomes increasingly ugly. But, if one has known how to play his cards, his soul will have become more and more wise, more sensitive and compassionate. In a word, at the end of that life, the soul will have become more beautiful. And that beauty, he will take it with him to his other life. Because human existence is a long succession of lives: we reincarnate to become each time (so that our soul become each time) more beautiful. And often an ugly body gives the soul more opportunities to evolve spiritually, that is, to become more beautiful. The body is like the dress of the soul. Some people wear great clothes and some people wear rags: it depends on the circumstances of their lives. But remember the story of Cinderella: it is a metaphor for the hidden dimension of human existence. The circumstances of Cinderella's life make her an ugly girl: her face covered with ashes, her rags ... But in reality Cinderella is the daughter of "other parents", she is a princess of unequaled beauty. That's how beautiful you are! And when you finally abandon this world after fulfilling what you came to do in it (which is to evolve), you will strip off your rags and your ashes and reestablish your primal beauty.Let me clarify that it's not me who says you're not ugly. It's not me who affirms everything I just told you. It was the ancient sages who said it in their books. I'm just the messenger, who offers you the message they transmitted to me through their books. It is they (Kabbalists, Gnostics, Hermeticists, Sufis, Buddhists ... in a word: the ancient sages) who taught me what I just told you.
Why do people say I'm ugly when I am not?
first of all people’s work is to say ..ur work is to ignore them..there can be many rrasons why they say so…1.may be they want to demotivate u..because u r better than them in some aspect…2.it may be jealousy..3.may be they r ugly thats why they say ugly to others just to satisfy their ego..this is a very small problem .there can be many more this due to which they say so.nobody is ugly in the world…and the main thing is external beauty never last ..internal does…so dont listen to these type of people..and stay away from them..they are not good for health..say motivated ..stay happy and enjoy ur life…and remember the most important thing is u r the most beautiful/handsome person in the world....!!thank you….
Why do people think I'm ugly?
I am 19 years old. This is a picture of me: http://i410.photobucket.com/albums/pp182/Varodan123/Mpic1.jpg Yes, yes I know I look a lot younger for my age and people make fun of that all the time, but I am 19. Girls have never ever found me attractive, and people say that I'm ugly and unnattractive. Why am I so ugly? What is wrong with me?
Why do people say I'm pretty when I'm ugly?
im 15 years old and I'm struggling to understand the way i view myself to the way others do. i think I'm ugly, really ugly. i get mixed comments from people like from boys calling me ugly, which is rare, but i get called 'stunning' or beautiful' etc all the time, yet i can't seem to see that. if anyone ever compliments me, i feel as if they're joking or something, i feel really offended when they say that, as stupid as it sounds its true because i know I'm ugly, i see myself in the mirror everyday, in photos i look even worse. I go to counselling to help my anxiety and confidence, which I've been doing for a year and nothing seems to be working. it doesn't help that all my friends are stunning, and i get really jealous when i go out with them and boys always are asking for their numbers and I'm always left out. so my point is, if I'm really that 'pretty' then why aren't i getting that attention? why don't boys like me? i haven't even had my first kiss yet, all my friends have, its really embarrassing. i also can't think of many ways to make myself come across as more attractive, i do try with my appearance, i wear make up, i wear nice clothes, i do my hair and it doesn't seem to work? im not bring big headed or anything but i am a nice person, but no ones interested, they just see the way i look and don't bother, i don't know what to do :(
Why do people keep me tell me I'm ugly?
I hear your pain. I used to deal with this issue when I was in myour pre-teens and early teens. I will tell you what worked: I stopped listening to that message of my being ugly and started to listening to acceptance messages. Listen and you will hear some.Over a longer period of time, I learned some things about my world: 1. I was living in a time before Brown was Beautiful. 2. I was dressed by my mother, bless her heart, who had not the fashion sense of a beetle. I learned somethings about myself: 1. I acted hurt/took on what others said as some type of truth or permanence or reality. When I acted liked I feared I were ugly, others picked up on it and reacted to my insecurities. 2. What I resist, persists. If I continue to act/feel/think fearful of other's hating on me, I will continue to suffer other peoples'so cruelty. 3. I can do something to change my reality. Now we have great self-help bolks. The best one for general life problems, such as this: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. The beginning part is not for everyone. Focus on the chapter about the agreements, such as "Never Take Anything Personally". He books are available at online retailers. Check out thrifbooks.com, my favorite place to buy books. Please do yourself this favor.You can ask me further questions. Good luck.