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Am I Crazy For Being Scared Of My Brother

I'm scared of my brother in law?

So here's the deal... My soon to be ex bro in law is a crazy gay prostitute (I kid you not). My sis and him are seperated and she's gonna be filing a divorce soon.. They lived in state A but she recently moved out and took her baby and moved back to state B. So bro in law wants custody of the baby and hates my sis now.. We just found out that he's in state B which he has family I'm state B but he never goes to see them. He is crazy (like seriously mentally crazy if ya know what I mean) and owns guns and has friends that own guns... Well, he's in the army.. Anyway, I'm scared that he might hunt my sis down and maybe kill us or something. See, He has it out for my mom too... Do you think I should be worried or am I overreacting? What should I do?! :x

What if I am scared of being around my brother?

If you’re scared of being around your brother then you need to respect this feeling. What I mean is don’t try to ignore this feeling or suppress it.Ask yourself what are some things that you’ve witnessed or experienced with your brother that might have originated this fear of him. Perhaps you saw him doing things intentionally that harmed others or he’s spoken or treated you cruelly. Your fear could take on a wide spectrum of causes for concern. From a brother just being an obnoxious brother that picks fights to one that’s demonstrating psychotic behavior, you need to determine where your fear lies on the spectrum.If you fear that your brother may intentionally hurt you then please tell a trusted adult and keep your distance from your brother to stay safe.

I'm scared of my younger brother?

I'm 17 and he's 14. We've never really got along but since getting violent games on his Xbox it's become worse... I'm not 100% sure if it's the games though but that's the only thing I can link it back to. When I was around 8 and he was 5 I remember him chasing after me with a kitchen knife, why? I don't remember. Three years ago he lost his temper and attacked me and I still have scars on my arm from his nails that got me into trouble with a school counsellor once. A few months ago he punched me in the eye because I was 'in the way' and I ended up in hospital because I couldn't see and they thought the retina was detached. Today he chucked an apple at my head but I ducked and it smashed against the wall. Those are only the 'major' things I can remember but I don't know why he's like this? My parents never beat us or anything and we were never allowed violent games as kids. I'm not violent towards him, it's a one-way thing. Yes I tease him and wind him up sometimes but when he seems angry I avoid it because he doesn't seem himself. My parents know about some of this but not all of it because they always say I'm the oldest so it's my fault

I'm scared my step brother will rape me?

My dad has a girlfriend who currently lives with us. She has two kids. A 17 year old girl and a 19 almost 20 year old son. I am 13-15 age group (not telling real age). My step brother is a very sketchy guy. He does drugs, drinks, smokes, and hangs out with some bad people. I always worry for my safety at this house. I have to lock my door all the time because I feel unsafe. When my sister (whom I share a room with, she just stops by for 5 minutes a couple of times a day) comes to the door, she always gets angry at me because I lock the door. No one except my mom knows of this fear of getting raped at my dad's house.

In one incident, my dad found my sister's panties under my step brother's bed. My step brother has a bunch of pictures of exposed women in his room too.

For these reasons I worry that my step brother will rape me. I mean, I worry that every guy I see will rape me, but I am very scared of my step brother.

What should I do? Any precautions to take?

My brother touched me when i was 11?

Well it all started when I was 11 (13 now) and my brother was 13 (15 now) and my brother and I wanted to play truth and dare during the summer. So being crazy kiddy brother dared me to get naked. (Parents weren't home till 2 In the afternoon) so I laughed and went along. Then nothing else happened and a few days passed. He calls me into my room and says "Do you know what cunning is?" and I shook my head no. Then he pulls of his pants and I se his hard penis. I'm pretty sure I got turned on a bit, but then I almost barfed when it all came out and spilled on his carpet. We cleaned it up and I didnt think much of it not knowing what REALLY happened. Then he wanted to play truth or dare again. I had to touch his penis and he would get mad that is was stroking it fast enough because I was really scared. Then he touched my vagina a dare that lasted for a minute and I swear that clock was not fast enough. This went on and he asked me to suck his penis with my mouth and I was like HELL NO. We even laid on eachother naked. The only reason I kept doing it was because I didnt know it was a bad thing and I was scared he wouldn't like me if I stopped. But then I started refusing and whenever he asked me to play truth or dare id say I was tired. So days I even prayed that I wouldn't have to play in the morning. It has stopped and its been two years and I haven't told anyone.
I seriously think im depressed because in my family im the "brat" and get yelled at everyday and everyone thinks my brother is the responsible, organized, sweet child. So i hate how i feel. Cause i haven't been sleeping well and i cry alot about not being the good one when really I am. And it sucks soo much no one even understands. Like me dad called me a ***** yesterday. I literally get mad at anything they yell me about. also hate how my brother has no respect for me, he never talks to me or says anything nice. One time he even pulled my hair for getting in a fight with mom at a gas station. What to do ????

What should I do when my brother hits me?

My Indian brother is the same. He was verbally and physically abusive and has slapped, punched , kicked me; called me a 'bitch' and much much worse. I've cut him off from my life and my heart. I no longer speak to him or acknowledge that he is alive and do not consider him my sibling. Your parents are cowardly. The typical Indian parents who favor the son and indirectly shift the responsibility for his violent behavior on to your head. Mine were the same. It's NOT your fault. Your brother has mental issues and he is venting on you, using you as a punching bag. Your parents are NOT protecting you as they should. By blaming you and not rebuking your brother, they are reinforcing your brother's violent behavior. My advice is IGNORE and STAY AWAY from him. DO NOT let him hurt you physically. STOP talking to your brother. PRETEND that he does not exist. Keep your interactions with him minimal. If he tries to start an argument with you DO NOT engage him, ignore him, go to your room and lock the door. Study hard, get a job and move out.

Why am I so afraid to talk to my brother? I was raised with him, he's older than me and really quiet but I can't look him in the eye and I'm too shy to say hi.

What are you repressing? is there maybe some sort of guilt lingering from a past issue that you haven’t mentioned?Anyhow, I have a very strange relationship with my little brother (we were 5 at home), am 35 and he’s 19. He’s a very quite person and I am a quite outspoken fellow. As such, he tends to always end up at the end of the line. I have been trying to teach him leadership and street smarts but he often ends up “locking up” whenever I ask him to engage with me (either by questions or feedback). He obviously is trying not to end up as a fool in front of his bigger brother and nervousness take the better part of him.Still, the best course of action you can take is to start engaging with him in topics both of you have in common (my brother and I share a passion for baseball for example) and once you get used to talk to him; move from there.Good luck.

I had a dream that my brother killed me, What does it mean?

I honestly believe that you are blowing the whole thing with your brother out of proportion. And if you don’t get a grip then you are going to make yourself sick over this. I understand when you say that your brother is crazy and that you don’t know what he’s capable of doing but you need to make peace with him. Let your brother know that you would like to make peace with him. And ask him if you guys can start acting as brothers. If you don’t do this then you will always keep looking over your shoulder and eventually you are going to be afraid to leave the house because you will start thinking that he’s watching you night and day. I don’t know what you guys did to each other for it to come to this but you need to fix it a.s.a.p.. You also need to remind you that if your brother was that crazy then he would have done you harm a long time ago. Maybe your brother is not as crazy as you think that he is. So, you need to work things out with your brother. And you need to stop letting your mind run wild with you. The dream that you had that your brother killed you has nothing to do with your brother.

This is what you dream means:
To see your brother in your dream, may symbolize some aspect of your relationship with him. It can also serve to remind you that someone in your waking life has certain characteristics/behavior similar to your brother's.

To dream that you have been killed, suggests that your actions are disconnected from your emotions and conscience. Alternatively, the dream refers to drastic changes that are happening in your life. There is a characteristic that you want to get rid of or a habit that you want to end within yourself. Killing represents the killing off of old parts of yourself and old habits

To dream that you are scared, indicates that you are experiencing self-doubt and feelings of incompetence in your waking life. You may be feeling a lack of control. Perhaps you are having second thoughts about a decision you have made. Anger often masquerades as fear, so also consider issues about which you are angry about in your waking life.?

Every time my brothers dogs are over I have to keep my cats locked in my room so the one dog doesn’t go crazy. My one cat hides under my bed the whole time and doesn’t act himself. Why would he be acting like this?

It may be time to tell your brother he can’t bring his dogs over. You lock up your cats to protect them from his dog. One of your cats is so frightened that he hides under the bed to try to be safe from the dog.Be kind to your cats. They live there. You should protect them from the dogs that scare them. Tell your brother not to bring his dogs over. It is way too hard on your cats.Your cats. Keep them safe.

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