What am I doing wrong with girls?
In your question, you are pointing the reason of your problem, of your insatisfaction : the lack of confidence.But before, I would just say that having one girlfriend and having sex once at the age of 19, is not that bad.TrainingYou lack confidence, so we are going to work it to make it better. But you have to know that you aren't going to get confidence immediately. You have to build it little bit by little bit. The first step is to realize that you can talk to other person. Try to engage a conversation and make it last at least two minutes everyday.Second, you have to understand that your fear, your reluctance to talk with girls is irrational. Go and speak with one girl that you are not interested in. Just ask him some random information about how to find a restaurant, a bar, how to go one place. You will understand that they are just normal people and you don't have to stress about it.Last step, try to speak to someone you are interested in. Yes, I know it's difficult. If you feel uncomfortable with it, you can try to insert yourself during a conversation, this way you will have a little time to prepare what you are going to say. Other advicesIt seems you have opportunities but you don't know how to use them in your favor. You are probably overthinking, overthinking is going to freeze you and you won't be able to do anything. In order to avoid "overthinking", try to make your move as fast as possible, when you feel the opportunity, count to 3 and go.If a girl sleep with you, it is a very good sign, you need to be more patient and work it in the long run. A lot of girl don't want to have sex the first night. Just be cool with it, get the girl's phone number and engage conversation. By text message, you should be able to answer easierly.
Am I doing something wrong?
well age and time is something that we cant stop it hold it in our control.It is time for you to decide you life apart from goal. No matter you can achieve your goal with your hard work,dedication and commitment . but at the same time you must need some one who can support you , understand you motivate you. guide you share your feelings, happiness, sorrows and also look after your needs, dreams and health .SO you must need to get married. getting girlfriend, enjoying a date is something which is like instant way to fulfill lust and desire for a least time. but in the true way you must find a perfect partner who can trust,love and understand you.So my friend its time to pull your socks and find a partner for you. have a word with family and search for a girl.Am 30 years old and I my self in a dilemma whether I will get married or not .at the same time i am in a relationship with a girl who is 6 years younger than me. we both want to marry each other. but there is a lot of consequence, But still am hoping that I will get married with my beloved
What am I doing wrong bass fishing?
You could be using the right lures in the right place but that doesn't matter if you aren't retrieving it properly. I would suggest slowing down your presentation, try using jigs, flukes, 6in worms and suspending jerkbaits on a steady stop & pause. Try fishin earlier in the afternoon when its warmer and fish in the shallow waters.
I feel stuck in life, what am I doing wrong?
You’re most probably focusing on the lack of what you want.That’s what 99% of humanity does, because it’s easier to see and get caught up on what’s missing in your life than focusing on how you would really want it to be.It’s easier to see that you don’t like your job, your car, your life, than focusing on what would a new car, house or a new life feel like.The moment you start giving attention to how it feels to have what you really, truly, deeply desire, and you start being more positive about everything around you, that’s the moment you release resistance for the things you want to come into your own experience.So, instead of thinking, saying and writing “I’m not living the life that I want”, say, repeat every day, write and feel how the life you truly desire would look like.How is the house you are living in?How does your new car look and feel?How does it feel to have that job you always wanted or that man/woman by your side?What do you look like?How would your perfect life would look like?Imagine that, create the best version of your life. Create in you mind the life of your dreams.And every single day, in your spare time, before going to bed, in a traffic jam, walking down the street… just picture it and imagine yourself living it.It’s not magic. It won’t happen over night.It’s quantum physics, it’s universal law.We are what you think about, the beliefs we have, the mood, the attitude of our daily life, are what shape up our own reality.Think your life is better, believe it, picture it, feel it, and you’ll start to see manifestations of it improving every day.Stop the negativity, it’s shaping your world in the form that you do not want.Start being in charge of your thoughts, make them positive and good-feeling and everything will start to shape up the way you want it to be.The problem in this world is that people won’t believe they have full control, since they gave it up a long time ago, so they think it’s just some guru-like bullshit.It’s up to you to believe it and start changing your life for the better.Just focus on how you want your life to be and start enjoying it, even if it’s not there yet. IF you act like it’s already a reality for you, it will eventually be.Enjoy! ;)-Israel.
What am i doing wrong to her please i need help?
Please help me. What am I doing wrong she's 9 weeks 1 week in flowering, turning a bit yellow in places the top bent and was dangling but I have it straight on a stick hopefully it heals its starting to darken in areas I think its due to misting in direct sun I am not so sure also what's a better and brighter light that produces heat for a plant and enough lighting, i have a 14 Watt lumens 900 120v 60 hz bulb or 60 watts 130 volts 600 lumens at 130 volts bulb or would led lighting be better. ? Thank you so much for your time.
What am I doing wrong in my relationship?
You are not doing anything wrong.She could just want some space. But also, it is technically still kind of early in the relationship. Let me tell you a quick experience I had:In the beginning of my relationship, I was told I was clingy. After I dropped contact, I was asked where we stood. It fluctuated like that for a while. I didn’t know how to be in a relationship because this one is still very new to me. It’s my first real one ever.I thought I was doing something wrong wanting to spend time with him when I had free time. I over thought, felt hurt, felt the need to reach out even more; it was a never ending cycle because I wanted it to work and wouldn’t take no for an answer.Flash forward 3 years together, he’s a little clingy. I’m a little clingy. It goes back and forth. However, it’s 3 years. I love the hell out of him because he’s amazing and mine and my yin to my yang.When it’s 9 months, and she’s saying she’s busy, think about the last time you saw her and how long ago that was. Was it last week? Two weeks ago? Three? A month? Take it easy. Drop a little contact. Do you. And most importantly, communication. Ask her kindly, not pressing too much because you don’t want an argument, what is she thinking? Ask her generally, “How are we?” Get on her level. Be on the same page. Otherwise, 9 months is early, and if all of a sudden she’s always busy and never texting you or not wanting to see you yet, it’s time to make a decision. But remember, COMMUNICATE. And be understanding. I want down time now that I work full time and night shifts. My boyfriend works day shifts. So on my days off, I usually want to relax and not talk to anyone because that’s all I do at work. However, we have one night a week. It doesn’t matter what our day is like, we have one night a week where we just hangout and sleep and wake up and go home. Literally sleep after playing video games or watching Black Mirror.With 3 years, we see each other twice a week. Soon it’ll be everyday because I’m moving in with him but 9 months, it was every tuesday and thursday and saturday and then died down to..about once a week to once every other week (our rough patch) and then back up again where we finally communicated and got on the same page and now we have a set schedule.Just communicate. You literally can’t go wrong with communicating.
What am I doing wrong? (college algebra)?
You need to take the ln of both sides, not the log
Prostate Massage. What am I doing wrong?
My husband and I in hopes of spicing up our sex life were looking into prostate stimulation as we heard that it can be very pleasurable for a man. I watched a couple videos and looked at a couple diagrams, and I felt like I had it down, but it hasn't worked out both times that we tried it. He says that he only gets the sensation that he has to "use the bathroom" ; that he doesn't feel any sort of intense pleasure. I tried stimulation his penis at the same time, but he feels so awkward that he says flaccid... We both really want him to feel the pleasure that we have been hearing about, but I don't think I am doing it right. What could I be doing wrong? Is there anyone who is experienced in this that can give me some pointers or anything that might help? I know that this is a delicate issue and one that is easily laughable, but I am really hoping to find a solution. Only serious responses please.