Am I Going To Be Ok I

Is it okay that I am not going out?

I personally think that it is awesome that you are doing this. Leading a healthy lifestyle is not only a good practice but a healthy body leads to a healthy mind, and with a healthy mind you would be able to focus more on your business and soon enough would be doing wonders with it.If you think that hanging out with them would make you want to drink/smoke/eat unhealthy then you need to work a bit on your self control. You need to put your health and your business goals first before any of this. Your friends wont force you when they discover what you are aiming to pursue. If they do, and are too rigid/selfish to understand that, then you are better off without them.

I am inevitably going through a divorce. Is this Ok?

It is obvious from your question, that you are a womaniser. I am afraid, what you want is only a temporary relationship to fulfill Your petty desires. What are the reasons for divorce?.instead of maintaining a relationship on strong base, generally we break on silly reasons, in turn we loose all types of relationship with our near and dear ones.not able to withstand the pressure of loneliness, we start acquiring bad habits. So think impartially about yourself, your ambitions, your goals from where you are now.

Is my mom going to be ok when I leave for college?

Yes, she'll be ok. Remember that 18 years ago, she had an identity that did not include you. She will slowly start to regain some of that identity. Mothers tend to sacrifice many of their own needs for those of their children, and willingly so. There is nothing more satisfying than raising happy children into adulthood. But it is an exhausting process of almost nonstop attention on others.Yes, she will miss you and yes, she'll be sad. But over time she will begin to fill the hours that she spent on you with things she wants to do for herself. This will lead her to a more balanced life and allow you to develop greater independence. After all, our goal as parents is ultimately to teach our children how to stand on their own.Call her weekly, text her regularly, and make sure you are not doing so only when you need something. In addition, don't cry for help for every little adversity; she will feel helpless that she can't save you in your challenge/illness and cause her undue stress. Instead give her the assurance that you are beginning to manage your adult life. Nothing will make her feel more confident that she has done a wonderful job in raising you than for you to blossom in your independence.

I am going to visit Kenya, would it seem ok to meet some FB friends?

Just use common sense and caution as you would in any “"virtual going real” friendship or relationship. Use, for example, the same strategies used by people meeting someone via online dating or to make a purchase/ sale exchange via Craig's list or e- Bay. ( search the websites of such sites for their advice on this topic, e.g., always meet in a public place, etc., let others know who/ where/ photo and name of person you are meeting, find someone to accompany you, etc.Extra caution is likely important as I am not sure the police there ( or even here in the US), are going to be willing or capable of tracking your whereabouts via cell phone or other means should you go missing. Do you have any real life old friends in common that can vouch for them? Is this purely friendship or romantic?I'm sure others have much more to suggest.I also wouldn't suggest not making any plans to meet them initially for more than a simple coffee or tea, as that way you can easily bow out with any awkwardness if you feel in any way uncomfortable. Not wanting to say something impolite can often lead one into serious danger, as can ignoring ones instincts. Take your time to get to know someone, no need to go to their house or leave in a car with them first time you've met. You can always re- convene if all goes well!Bon voyage!