I am in love with a girl. How should I tell her this?
If you both have spent considerable time in getting to know each other and find out your feelings. Then you should tell her you love her, once you know it is love and not lust or loneliness etc. If it is a crush or infatuation with a colleague or classmate or a person who shares the same bus etc, then better not tell anything besides, hey, I'd like to get to know you better. If it is love, love. Mature love, say it the way you feel about it. Say exactly what you feel about it. If it is butterflies you feel in her company tell her that. If it is church bells, tell her that. If it is like hot maple syrup on waffles, tell her that (as Howie said)If it is the relief one gets by massaging a sore muscle after a long walk/run/day of work. Say that. Be genuine rather than trying to impress her or going out of your way. A simple 'I love you' will also be enough, if it is genuine. Not a lot depends on how and when you say it. A lot depends on why you say it. But hey, that's just me.
Am I in love with her?
So I asked this question awhile ago, but I want more opinions. I'm young, but I'm pretty sure what I feel for her is love. To me, she is the most beautiful woman in the world. I have yet to see someone who can even hold a candle to her. Every single thing about her is perfect. I dream about her constantly. At least a couple times a week. She is ALWAYS on my mind. Seriously, she is all I can ever thing about her. Whenever I see her, I have to remind myself how to breath. When we talk, nobody else matters. It's just her and me. After we have a conversation, I replay every word of it in my head for days after. When I see her, I don't think. My whole brain and body go into autopilot, and it's like I have no control over the things I do or say. If I ended up with her, I wouldn't need anything else. I would be all set. The sound of her saying my name is the most beautiful thing I've ever heard. Anything she says is beautiful, because her voice is just...amazing. I see her everywhere I go, except it's never her (actually it was once). Sometimes these feelings are so strong I want to cry. I always think about the times we've shared together, and wish nothing more than to go back and relive them. I love learning things about her. No matter what mood I was in before, talking to her absolutely makes my day. The thought of her with someone else makes me feel physically sick. And if it's possible, knowing that we'll never be together makes me feel even more so. I can't even begin to describe how I feel, how much my life has changed because of her. Sorry it's so long...I guess I just needed to let it out somehow. I'd like to know what you all think.
How to tell my aunt that I am in love with her.....?
Husband! She is 40 and he is 20 (i know she is a cougar) anyways when we met heres what happened. meeting day- she walks in I say " theres my favorite aunt!" And hug her and then say hi to him (since they just got married I introduced myself to him) and my aunt went.to go find my grandfather (her brother she is my great aunt) on the farm with my twin brother jackson. Anyways.i am sitting at the table and he sits across from me and says " so how old are you?" I say "14" he says "oh you wanna take a drive down to the creme cup?" I say "yeah" btw the creme cup is a ice creme place. So we go there and we hit it off. We joked around and talked. That was two months ago here are some important things that took place in those two months • I got in a fight with my grandfather and ran to (nick is my aunts husband) nicks house and told him about it he wiped my tears hugged me in told me everything was ok. So we talked and he made me laugh as usual and I was ok. • We had a fair in my county and nick and my aunt and the rest of.my family always sit in the same place every year and.well heres what went down. Nick said he was going to.find me so we could hang out. He left and found me and my.family witnessed us hanging out and stuff.and nick was making me laugh soo hard and.then he knows I am scared of heights but I go on the farris wheel with.him and he.says " come on lou (my nick name) it will be fun I'll hold your hand" and I.go on and we got to the very top and he says " grab my.hand" I ask "why?" He says just do it I grab his hand and he starts.shaking the little seat we are in I scream. And hide my.face by putting my head on his.shoulder. he laughs and starts brushing my hair of ny forehead and.kisses me on my.forehead. Then we get off and he goes to get something from his car and.i over hear my family saying things like this " nick is showing lou more attention than you helen (my aunt)" and " I.would keep her away from him" And then we were in.his car chilling by.the river and he is telling me I am easier to talk to than helen and I am telling him my dreams and he is telling me his. And over the two months I fell in love with him. And I want to tell my aunt. does he like me? Ps: my android keyboard is putting alot of pointless periods sorry
Am I obsessed with her? Am I in love?
Woww.... That's tough. I know how it feels, but trust me, there's a lot more ways around this. I've been in a similair situation, but the girl was actually taken. Anyway, you have 2 choices here. You can stand up, and secretly fight your friend for this girl. Or, you can lay back, and let him date her. Don't talk to your friend about it. Don't tell him to back off, because there is no reason for him to. You can get her number dude, trust me. You have to show that you like her, girls love that. Also, getting a phone number can mean nothing. I'm not saying it is, I'm just saying it can be. Go after her, she seems like a sweet girl. Good luck!
I am in love with a girl but have no chance with her what do I do?
Options:1. Walk away - There is the obvious option of simply letting go of her if you feel you're not her level. If you feel as though there is no chance then its best to look elsewhere. Also, if she is currently in a relationship, then its best to leave her alone.2. Elevate Yourself - But let's say you cant get over this girl...then give it a shot, its that simple. The worst possible thing that can happen is her saying no. and I'm sure you've heard no before, so what's the big deal?So, how do you get her attention? You do what I call 'elevating yourself' Ask yourself a few questions: A) Why do I think I don't have a chance with her?B) What is it about her that I love so much?C) What type of relationship/friendship do I have with her now?Once you answer these and more basic questions, it will give you some insight on how you'll proceed.Next step is to Be the Best YOU, that you can be. Basically, become the guy that she thinks she doesn't have a chance with. And if you are in contact with her, then treat her amazingly (don't be a doormat but still be awesome). Show her what a great guy you are and how much happiness you add to her life.If you are curious on where to start on being the best version of you, its really quite simple:1. Start a workout regimen and stick to it.2. Play a sport you like, or learn one.3. Learn a new language4. Be great at your job5. Smile...yes, smile.6. Read more and broaden your intellectual horizons 7. Eat healthy8. Be a jovial guy. (if you're not very good at telling jokes, watch a few standup comedians)9. Learn a new skill/talent. Preferably something to exercise your creative side with: Drawing, singing, Painting, Sculpting, Playing an instrument, Dancing...etc10. Take pride in your appearance and the way you dress.The list goes on but those could be a good starting point. If you follow the steps listed above, she may end up being the one approaching you. But my best advice is to be confident, and best the best version of yourself. Good Luck
I am in love with my friend. Should I tell her?
I was once in love with one of my school mates since 7th standard (at-least i thought so ) , but never had the courage to tell her since she was the most sought after girl in my school and i was one of the most notorious and hated guy (by girls only) so i thought i stand no chance of impressing her hence slowly i changed my attitude and became more sensible. Years passed and i wrote something about her in somebodies slam book. Then one fine day to my surprise i received a text from her , we started chatting and became friends. On Dipawali 2010 i sent her a normal forwarded text about sharing an unknown secret about yourself. She took it seriously and told me that she liked a guy in our class and waited for him to approach her with a proposal for 3 years but he never said anything (by this time she was in a relationship with one of our seniors who was once my friend), after listening to this i thought "who might be that lucky guy?? people were fighting over her for years and this guy just had to say those magic words to beat them all" then she asked me about my secret. I told her that i had a crush on one of our class mates but since she was out of my league i never had the courage to say something to her. listening to this she started asking me who that girl was , i said it doesn't matter anymore she's with some one else now and she's happy but she kept pushing hard to listen to her own name. After an hour of her probing i finally yielded and said that it was YOU (which i guess she knew already) then i asked her who was that guy u liked????? to my horror she said its was ME. She said she knew from 7th standard that i liked her and she was waiting for me to say something which i never did.....Fast-forward to 2016 she's my best friend ( and i am her's) she knows that i am in love with her and i never deny it she's fine with it and we both are comfortable with the situation.So the answer is you should tell her....!!! Hope this helps you
How do I tell my sister that I'm in love with her?
I have nothing wrong with what goes on between consenting adults. As long as these feeling aren't keeping you from leading productive lives, I don't see a problem. A husband or wife will leave, but because you are bound by blood, yours sister's love is unconditional. if you want to pursue this, please be careful. If you have strong feelings for her, spend more time with her. Show her you care. If she's willing to spend more time with you her feelings might be mutual, but please don't rush into things. Communication is key. There are places where incest is legal between consenting adults. You may want to consider moving to one of these places, but that's putting the carriage before the horse. Focus more on other endeavors in life and everything else will fall into place. It takes two to make a relationship work. If things work out between you and your sister and should you decide to have children together I would strongly advise you to consult of physician; contrary to what many believe, It's still highly possible for sibling couple to have a healthy child. Good luck, and please be careful. It's a big decision.
Crush!: I need her!... I love her!.... BUT????
Hello friedns!... I am having a crush on a girl who is doping a different stream at my Uni. She may be knowing me as I have been always visible to her whenever she is waslking in the uni. she sometimes siles, but donno if those are fro me.... i really like this girls and hoping to talk to her very soon....... but i want a help in getting an approach........ plus i'm very much dark...... she's very much fair........ i am also bit shaken by this as well......... i donno if hse has a guy. but for my analysis she may not, caseu she's a bit low speaking (silent character) plus if she has one she would bring her to the uni. like other girls are doing........ i really like to talk to her... but most of the time she is with her frineds........... also that seems a point for privacy.. all i want is be a good friend of her........ then if later on if i'm luck be a good lover of her.. please help me on this.... i really like her, love her!....... thanks folks@