Is it normal to get jealous/insecure over this?
i want to get massage for my stiff back so i told him i would go to get massage and he told me he wants female to massage me cause he's uncomfortable with that guy masseuse will touch my body. i felt like my bf is bit wierd at first but when he told me to think vice versa.. well yeah i think i wouldn't be ok with others girls touching my bf's body..lol but they're masseuse and they'll be just doing their job.. is it normal to feel jealous over this??
I'm jealous of my niece and nephew, is it normal?
I'm 15, and I have a older brother who is married and has a son and a daughter. My mom treats my niece and nephew like royalty! Me and my mom are really close, but when ever they are here, she treats me like poop it seems like! They are only 4 and 2, but still I feel jealous! I feel like they could get away with murder and my mon wouldnt care. The 4 year old girl always wants to come into my room and play with my jewelry, but I don't like her to because she breaks stuff- such as when she broke several figurines I've been collecting since birth (my mom didn't care) but my mom makes me let her in, or else she will throw this huge spoiled brat fit and i will get in trouble for Being "mean" ...And today me and my mom were supposed to have an mother daughter day- we rarely have those- and my brother called and wanted to know if she wanted to spend time with the kids and she said YES!! I cried for like an hour I got my feelings so hurt! Is this normal for me to be jealous like this!? What should I do?
Is it normal to feel jealous for your sibling?
I think it is normal to feel jealous of your siblings. I know I was very jealous of my siblings. I actually didn't like my younger sister for years because I was jealous of her. In my mind, I was supposed to be the youngest and then she came along and messed up my place in the household. I also had some deep belief that I had to compete for my parents attention and that my siblimgs were getting treated better than me. I had a lot of anger as a child and in my adulthood, I can see my perceptions were not always true. While I think some jealous may be normal and natural, I think it also should naturally disappate as you grow into yourself and become mature and self confident. I don't think the jealousies of childhood should be carried into adulthood.
Is it normal to feel jealous of my Adopted sister?
it's just since she came that my mom only gives the attention to her , i was always her girl im 17, i dont know if its immature , but its how i feel , she came as a suprise and the 1st day i didnt mind , it was cool, but when she started callin my mom by * mommy , n saying that she went out with my mom nd people said that they look similiar got me a lil mad, and asking her stuff. and more stuff , shes older just looks younger than me. for what ik iits possible to adopt even when they are adults, shes turned 20 not mAny time a go . ok since shes now my sister i have to get used to her and love her and respect her, but how? i get mad with small stuff like when she touches me or my stuff, is this the anger that i feel? how can i stop feeling like this and just live with it? can anyone help? Thank you
Is it normal to be jealous of my cousins pregnancy?
Hi. My cousin just found out she is pregnant and I'm feeling quite jealous for some reason. we're more like friends because we went to school together and are the same age(19) well anyways, I don't want to have a baby until I'm financially ready etc. She told she was pregnant today, and then I found out she told my other cousin that she was pregnant two months ago, which made me even more jealous because the cousin whom she told has just recently had a baby not too long ago and my now pregnant cousin nhelped her out alot through that by driving her places and soone... but I tried to aswell, but because I couldn't drive her places it didn't count. So is it normal for me to feel jealous? I can't help it... I just feel shut out if that makes sense most of the people I hang about with, have babies and I'm like the odd one out while they all share something I don't have.. :(
Is it normal if my girlfriend gets jealous of my cousin?
I have a special relationship with my cousin (a female) and we hang out a lot, because she lived with me for like 6 or 7 years when i was a kid. But my girlfriend hates this, she says that i get along better with my cousin than with her. And the other day she saw me going to the movies with her and she got really furious for this. What should i do? how can i explain my girlfriend that my cousin is MY COUSIN and not my girlfriend like she thinks. She says that "my cousin and i have chemistry"....
Is it ok to feel jealous?
One of the worst feelings ever has to be feeling jealous. Whether you’re envious of friends, family members or something your partner is doing, the green-eyed monsteris never fun to deal with. It would be nice if jealousy didn’t exist, but it does… and I think it’s time to stop shaming ourselves for feeling it.The fact is,jealousy is normal. Of course,that feeling can get out of control and destructive very easily, but as long as you know how to control and manage your jealousy, there’s no reason to feel badly about it. I hear a lot of people say they feel jealous and then immediately say something like,“I know it’s stupid”or “I feel so dumb for feeling jealous.” I’ve said and felt the same way! But it’s time to stop beating ourselves up for feeling that pang of envy when someone else gets something we want or when we watch people being successful . Jealousy is a part of life and the better you understand it, the more you can control it..No matter what anyone says, everyone feels jealous once in a while. It may happen more often for some people than for others, but trust me - everyone feels it at certain points in their life. Hope this Helps. Peace.
Is it normal for me to feel jealous of my girlfriends brother and how they are close?
I have been dating this incredibly wonderful girl for the last few months, she is soooooo sweet, kind, considerate and thoughtful in ever way~!! MUCH MORE THEN I EVER DREAMED OF FINDING! So I'll get to my point now, we are in our late 20's and she has a 18 year old brother who is so close to her (but he is mentally slow, and I'm not trying to say that to be mean but she has told me that he was born that way and I do notice it), she has raised him like a mother and that's why I think it's so silly for me to feel this way about him, especially when me and him get along so good, have fun together and have spent weekends together at arcades being "guys". But every once in a great while, when I hear her talk on the phone to him because he is calling asking what time she will be home so she can take him to the store or help with homework I hear her say "I'll be home in a little bit baby, don't worry".....and at that moment I feel in a way like she's more concerned about him then me.......which beilive me I know is so dumb because that's her baby brother. But I guess what I'm trying to say is how do I get rid of this feeling's that sometimes get in my head? This is the first time I have ever been with a girl who was so kind and caring to her brothers older and younger. My past ex's were kinda like "whatever".
Is it normal that I get jealous of people with better social skills?
I think most people get a twinge of jealousy now and then when considering those who appear to be more fortunate.A solution a lot of people find useful is a gratitude journal in which they write down daily, the things in their life they are grateful for. It's pretty well agreed upon that well-being is a psychological set-point that we gravitate toward regardless of misfortunes. We also become consciously aware of only a tiny fraction of the information streaming through our brains and coming in through our senses.Making oursrlves conscious of the positives through Mindfulness and writing them down is a powerful way to make them conscious.Maybe you have Asperger's. You aren't blind or deaf, or stuck in a wheelchair. Think of military folks who come back without a leg or mentally f*ked up. Or schizophrenics who lose it in their 20s and face a life of helpless terror in a body that won't die. Think how lucky you are.Even those people who you brush elbows with everyday and envy have their own demons, trust me. It is so much more productive to count the positives in your life instead of the areas where you are lacking.If you insist on keeping score, at least do it accurately. Life isn't fair but you can be -- especially when evaluating your situation.