I just found out my brother is actually my dad?
Hi guys this is a long story I just found out who I thought was my older brother is actually my father, and that my mother is actually my grandmother. I'm really in a shock state right now. When my parents were in 8th grade in high school, my real mom became pregnant with me. When I was born, my parents were both only 14, and my real mother did not really want me. Long story short, my dad's parents took me in. I know I have to forgive my mom(grand mom), but what i cant understand is why she, no... they kept this hidden from me!!!?!?!!?! I mean my dad is 32 but looks 25, and I am 18 but look 23, and now she wants me to acknowledge him as dad???!!!! What the heck!!?? He just feels like my older brother. . We do look identical. Please help
What does, i just want to be friends right now mean?
i'v been talking to this girl for a week or so and she just said well right now she is just looking for friendship, what does that mean should i just back off, leave her alone, or should i still persue but take it much slower, i feel as though i just dont want to do anything to lose her she means alot already and i know that she has alot going on with her life right now and so do i but does this means she is anot interested? should i just back away, but if she wasnt interested why would she talk to me in the first place, or even keep talking to me
I feel so sad right now, I really want to cry. But in fact, I can't. So what should I do?
I read this question and thought I don't have any answer for it because I am feeling sad and want to cry as well. So we both are on the same boat, at this very moment. So what do we do? Help each other. Let's see what I got.It happens at times that we feel sad, for no apparent reason. You feel gloomy, hopeless, lonely, and scared. It feels terrible. But you know what this kind of feeling takes me inside. Inside of myself. When I am happy or feel like 'just another day', I am distracted. Life goes by and I don't even pause to look around. When I feel gloomy, I sit with my feelings and close my eyes and feel the pain. The heart-ache, I mean. Then I cry. My eyes fill themselves with water as I am immersed in my pain. This is just you being sad because you might have seen someone you felt sorry for that day. Or may be you were deeply sympathized for someone. Or you picked up someone's emotion. I don't know. Whatever it is, it only means you have a heart that picks up sad energy because you may be a very sensitive person.I care less about what your persona is, what I care about is feeling sad doesn't have to be bad all the time. You might just want to go deep down within and feel what you are feeling without making judgments. Don't be overwhelmed. If you can't handle it, call someone. Call your loved one and share your feelings and thoughts. Talk it out or write it down. Whatever makes you release it. But make sure you release it. Do not carry it around or suppress it. I hope you feel better. Let me know if you feel any changes.After writing this, I surely released little bit of that energy into the universe.
If something feels right, does it mean that it is actually right?
[math]\qquad[/math] Sometimes. More often, things that ‘feel wrong’ are wrong, and thank goodness. This is, unfortunately, very particular; some people report having no conscience.Wouldn’t you rather figure out whether something is right than guess based on a heuristic?[math]\qquad[/math] Also important is that we use feelings to remember things; most likely, the feeling is based on a memory, and that memory may help you find out whether something is right. The greatest pitfall here is that feelings, despite acting a lot like semantic memory, can be recalled consciously; yet we choose to recall them consciously far less than we do with semantic memory. If you’re going to reason with feelings, then do it thoroughly, at least.
What is the right way to use the word "literally"?
“Literal” means “word for word”. It means, “please interpret this faithfully. I am not exaggerating.”“I am so hungry I could eat a Tyrannosaurus Rex” is an expression, hyperbole, not to be taken literally.One of the most beautiful things about language is that it is alive. The meaning of words can experience an evolution.“Literally” is most recently used for emphasis, to underline something, to put it in bold. It is not intended as “please interpret this faithfully” but rather, “I want to extra stress the point I am trying to make”.“I am so hungry I could eat a Tyrannosaurus Rex” no longer feels like it fully expresses the true state of my hunger, so now I add “I am so darn hungry I could literally eat a Tyrannosaurus Rex”.If you are a language purist, this second meaning might make you twitch. But the use of “literally” for emphasis is strong and bigger than us and has taken hold, so lovers of language should consider jumping on board.Now excuse me while I go get something to eat.
Just because someone flirts with you doesn't mean they like you, right?
Am I right? I mean, if a guy just starts major league flirting with you, does it mean he likes you, or is he just having fun? Idk, its so hard to understand... Help me out?
Why if feminism even a thing when women actually have more rights than men do anyway?
Women have all rights that men do. They also have the "right" to murder their unborn child while men have absolutely no say in what happens to their unborn child. As far as I'm concerned, women have more rights than men do. Literally.
What does "i'm not ready for a relationship right now" really mean?
This means that you rather not date the guy, you should know this