What is the feeling of losing a best friend?
Love is not painful, but the unfulfilled expectations when you become too much attached and the pain that it creates is sometimes unbearable. It is painful especially if your feelings are genuine and you love her to the truest of your senses.It kills you everyday to realize that she isn’t with you anymore. But the thing about love is, it is always unconditional. You love her because you want to, not because you want her to love you back. That's what love is all about. Just be true to your feelings and carry on with your life.Getting over someone you love truly is an extremely difficult task. Someday your heart will learn to live with it. It may not completely move on, but it will try to heal and live with it. The problem is to just silence the mind.I lost her not because I cared less, but because I still love her way too much.I lost her because my love strangled her.I cut myself off from her life because I couldn’t see her sad/guilty.I moved away because I still love her when she doesn’t have any feelings.I regret ending the friendship, but if that is what makes her happy, then I am happy to give that to her.
You know that saying "You look like you just lost your best friend."?
Well, it's always been just a saying to me in the past but now it hits home. How long do you figure this is going to last...feeling ummmmm spectacularly unwell? Her father broke off communication between us. Going into the details of that is way to complex to get into but have any of you out there suddenly lost your best friend, how did you cope with it, and were you able to reunite with your friend at a later time? It's normal to feel crummy right now, don't you think?
How did you deal with losing a best friend?
Honestly? Crying. I cried, for days. It hurt, and my heart felt like it was crumbling into thousands of tiny pieces. It was not a good feeling. I’d never felt anything like it. I found an old friend that I’d lost through social connections and reached out to her. Of course, she had a friend group that was so supportive and understanding towards me. I felt loved again. One of the girls in that group had become and still remains my best friend today. She is all I could ask for in a friend and more. Time is the best remedy. It takes a long time to accept living life w/o someone that made life worth it. It took months after meeting new people to get over the fact that I was a monster in their eyes and that I was unwanted company to them. For me to stop caring about them was the hardest part. I care way too much about everyone in my life, and I can’t stop caring when I let them go. They could literally kill me, and I would still take that bullet for them before they did. Life is too short to sit and dwell on the past, including long friendships. They come and they go. There’s no guarantee you’ll have friends all of your life, so make the most of times spent with people whom you care about. I hope this helps!!
My best friend turned into a total ***** after losing weight.?
tell her that. be like: "dude i was afraid to teel you this before cus i was afraid of loosing you, but you are being a total ***** lately. you have changed so much and sometimes it is even hard for me to recognize you. you know i love you and i care about you, and i will always be there for you, but if you go on like this idk what i am going to do. you have changed towards others and that has made you change towards me. i hate the fact that you keep talking about others like if they were really ugly and stuff, so please do me a favor and stop." or something like that. good luck
Lose my best friend, because of solitude?
After being alone for a long time, I've basically decided to give up and settle. There is a woman who wants to be with me badly, but she lacks the one thing I look for in a lady, a good heart, she is kind of selfish and doesn't even think about her 9 year old daugther,(to me thats not good). Problem is, my best friend of 26 years doesn't care for her, and if I do decide to be with her, it will trouble him, not that he wouldn't try with every bit of his heart to get along with her, he would, just because of me, but I would know his true feelings about her, and I wouldn't want to bring her over to his place or hang out together, then the only time I'll see him is at work. Sooooo.... Do I lose my best friend/brother of 26 years and settle for someone I may never care for , or do I continue this solitude, which has been driving me insane for the past 16 years. This solitude must end, but waiting no longer seems to be an option.
I am afraid of losing my best friends due to to my depression, i tend to talk about it with them a lot and I don t want to lose them.?
I know it can be heavy stuff, and i feel like i might be pushing them away, even though they tell me that i'm not gonna lose them. I honestly have no idea what I would do without them and if I lost them it would tear me into pieces. Am i just overthinking things or am I putting too much stuff on my friends shoulders and slowly pushing them away?