Is making friends easy for you?
Friends are most important part of one’s life because they stays with us in every moment of our life, Friends brings more happiness into our life than virtually anything else.Developing and maintaining good friendship takes time as it’s all depend upon trust,Main thing is how much we understand each other. In today’s world we should not trust anyone easily in strive to make a good or best friends.Best friends or good friends become automatically and incidentally with time, It should not be like we are doing friendship with a motive to make him/her a best friends, there shouldn’t be any purpose behind a relationship. friendship should be pure and if there is any kind of purpose than it cannot be called as good friendship. There is difference between good friend & best friend.Good friend means the friend who will stay with you for some period of time nicely, being helpful , caring and after certain time and distance time they will not be in touch with you,etc but Best friends means friends who stay with you for life time even in bad situation, Distance and time doesn’t matter because you love your best friend, you know all his secrets, you’r connected to his family, and that’s it …!! only these lines are capable enough to describe a best friend .
Do you make friends easily?
I agree that online it's easier but I did make some friends eventually through work and school. When I first moved to another town in 7th grade I had no friends what so ever, A lot of the kids were stuck up but I found a few that weren't and I also now have plenty of friends from other places. Now that I'm in college I feel thankful and lucky of how much I accomplished in my life!
What should I do to make friends easily?
I am 26. I graduated 2 years back. In my entire college life, I had 0 friends, no gossips, no hangouts, no studying together, no talking, no watching movies together, no fun and what else do you want to hear?In class 12, in school, I had no friends again. I had a group, which was not kind of group, no sharing of personal or study life, no hanging out with friends, no talks over phone with friends or in school. I used to sit alone in the last bench.In class 10, in school, I had a group of 3 people including me. One girl was my so called best friend, I knew she was jealous of me, but, I had no other option but to remain her friend, because you need a friend after all. And the 2nd girl, was just a part of the group, nothing to say about her as we hardly spoke, and in the last days of our 10th class, we almost stopped talking.In my 1st job, I met few girls who were nice and going through same phase of life like me, e.g. not happy with job profile, family pressure, etc. But there was envy in the air, I don’t know why! They hardly shared personal things, but, now as I left my 1st job last year, I am connected to both of them, and they are the only good people I can relate to, as I talk to them and we share almost everything be it, life, marriage, career, anything. But I still don’t know the depth of our friendship, reason unknown to me.In my 2nd job, there was so much of politics that it seemed people would kill each other just to stay in the company.Last person, I can remember whom I can consider my friend is one guy who I met in my 1st job, but I hardly spoke to him in office, after I left office, he helped me a lot in finding jobs, and now we are very well connected with each other.I sometimes feel lonely to an extent that I become suicidal, but, obviously, I dont want to die. My mother is my best friend, but one should know, parents have some expectations from their children and hence, the boundary comes in between, because you cannot share everything with them, bcoz they might taunt you for few things, etc, not sure!I started with gym, continued for 1 month, could not make friends, as it always seems you need to have that great great skills of talking and impressing someone with your words which is not gifted to me by my god.So my advice for making new friends is to have the great great skills of talking and impressing someone with your words to survive the friendship!
Why am I not making friends in college?
Hey I've gone through a lot of the same issues, even more drastically actually. I'm in my fifth year, and I don't have an entourage to hang out with. I realized it's because I stayed in my dorm all day, and the few ppl I did try hanging with, I didn't act like myself. You WILL have ur time and chances to warm up to ppl, don't feel like u need to act a certain way, just be yourself. 1) Join clubs or organizations that you really like. This can be sports or games u like at ur rec center. Or a social sorority/fraternity or a business fraternity. Whatever it is YOU LIKE. 2) Actually, just go to the link I put in my source. It's great. And I've done research on different forums and sites as well as noticing thru some experience, taht exposing yourself, by say studying in a commons area, greatly increase your opportunity as opposed to staying locked up in your room. And don't give up. There's no magic too it, other people are people just like you. They have the same insecurities and self-consciousness. Realize there's no right or wrong, just be yourself and make yourself available. I wish you the best of luck, this was a serious hill for me to climb and i'm excited about what the future holds.
Do you find it easy to make friends?
I'd say a 7 (Aquarius on the 7th, Jupiter in the 11th) I easily meet people and have many casual acquaintances . but I find making REAL friends a challenge unless I'm in frequent contact with someone and we share a common bond or interest like work, clubs, organizations or projects. Those good friends I made back in the day were usually made because of close proximity while growing up together in the neighborhood or going to the same schools and college. It's my Capricorn moon I'm sure. but I will admit to being somewhat reserved or selective Thank God it's worked for me so far -NO DRAMA ! Things gets really interesting in the working world when you start to meet people of all ages and backgrounds. its then you can really put astrology to the test. Pisces- Sun Pisces -Merc Aqua- 7th house
I Am Worried About Making Friends in College?
I'm currently a senior in high school and next year I'll be going to college away from home. I'm really worried that in college I won't make any friends or fit in. I have very few friends in school and I'm not even close to them at all. It was so hard for me to adjust to high school as a freshman. I've never really had other classmates I actually talk to till this year, and I'm a senior. I'm scared that in college, no one will find me interesting or want to really be friends with me. I'm very shy and it's difficult for me to open up to people. I feel like college will just be so much more different and that it'll be even harder for me to make friends. I mean, I want to finally change in college and actually have a group of friends to feel comfortable around, but I feel like I'm going to just end up being alone, like I've been in high school. Any advice?