Am I overreacting?
I really do love my boyfriend. We keep on breaking up and getting back together. I always tell him stuff that bothers me, and he doesn t make an effort to change. For example, he would make plans with me and not follow through with them. He won t even call or text me to let me know. He just leaves me hanging. My friends are telling me that I should break up with him for good because they feel like he doesn t care about how I feel & If he did he wouldn t keep on doing it.
What should I do....Am I overreacting?
So I am a freshman with really good grades and I do sports and Im pretty good. So I have a friend we are really good friends.SO i have been wnating the Iphone since the first one came out. So my frend who get's C's and B's and got alot of D's last year bought her a new Iphone. Im kinda anyonned becuase I work really hard getting good grades and she gets low grades and just gets anything. I can't tell even tell you how much I want one. I even saved up money but my parents said no. What else kinda ayonnoys me is that she only wanted one when I asked my parents for one. I was on the phone with her before christmas and Im like I want Iphone shes like yeah I want one also. After she told me they were kinda lame. So then she got the Iphone and was like I got the Iphone and she kept asking me all theese questons about the phone. I couldn't answer them becuase don't have one and she kept saying how many people also had one and wanted to see something she had on it. I don't wanna be a brat but I feel like I deserve one. I feel realy bad when Im jealous. When I don't get something I usually get over it and don't care but I can't stop thinking about it. Idk has this ever happened to ayone? Thanks for answers.
Is this a bad friend? Or am I overreacting?
I have this friend I've known since grade school. I was his best man in his wedding. We've always been cool. Problem is, his wife deletes girls off his facebook page, including my girlfriend. I take offense to it, because I want to know what the deal is. I approached his wife about it and she said she didn't do it. So a year later it happens 2 more times. My friend admits that it is his wife that does it. Apparently shes on his facebook often. Keep in mind, there is nothing between my friend and my girlfriend. We barely ever talk to his wife, because she doesn't want to talk to us. I approach my friend and he just shakes it off and says, "Just let my wife be. It's all good. She gets like that sometimes." So I tell him, "you don't need to add her again if this is going to keep happening." Am I overreacting? Because I plan on marrying her one day, but I don't want to be around this drama they cause. She can't even apologize to us or explain to us that it's not a big deal.
Am I overreacting to my girlfriend?
Maybe she is used to this. Probably recreating some parental issues, usually those things can be solved. Perhaps when someone gets close she gets like this, and is not in complete control of it. She not be able to help herself in being like this.When you are in a relationship it can be often very difficult to find out if you are in a good relationship or a bad one.There is one thing though in a bad relationship. You will learn your faults and your bad habits quickly. Because in a bad relationship the emphasis is on eachothers bad traits.I would not ignore her when she hurts you. I would try to say in a calm way:"I really do not like it when you talk to me like this."And nothing more, no discussion. Just stay put. It is something that will be very beneficial to you, also in possible future relationships.Emphasize the good things in her and yourself.Try this, if it gets better you are in a good relationship. If it won't get any better. You are in a difficult one. Never call her difficult, think of the relationship being difficult. (it is better for both your piece of mind to make a difference between that.)Try it, but it is not easy. Not an easy path. Good luck.
What should I do about my girlfriend am I over reacting?
Right now me and my Girl Friend are having some problems, she says it's really just me worrying too much and not letting her love me. She says I make her feel like ****. She said sorry that me and her cannot hang out as much, and that she is really not affectionate. And that she needs time. She says her parents are strict, and that she has a full time job. She said if she could hang out with me 24/7 she would. And then starts saying I am blowing up on her when everything seems fine, and that she can't sacarfice things. ( She exergates thinks I want her to give up her job). However, I have caught like twice hanging out with her friends and stuff when she disses me, or ignores my ask to hang out. She also has straight up lied to me about guys in the past and stuff. And doesn't like it when hold things again'st her. And I understand she can't quit her job, or always hang out 24/7. I honestly do everything I can, I give up things, or hanging out with my friends to hang out with her, I give her flowers, and moments of affection randomly. She also says things like, " Sorry I can't love you the way you want " " Sorry I can't be the person you want" " You make me feel like ****" but then says she doesn't know why she said those things, and didn't mean them like that. Or in the past she said she can't garuntee that I will end up with her and stuff. We went out of two weeks back in Decemember and then she broke up with me, and then put me on a break, but we were still exlcusive to eachother, but still friends... This break lasted up until April 29th. When she asked me to wait for her again last night, she said I thought you were different you said you were patient. I then pointed out how most guys won't even be waiting like this, and you wouldn't do this to them ( Becuase they had the uper hand). I know she is a sweet girl, and I love her ( Love meaning: Dedication, Loving them more than youself, sacarfice) I am wanting to have a long conversation with my girlfriend this evening, and this time not over the computer. A lot of my friends say I need to just leave her, so she knows what it's like. We are both 19 and this is my first girlfriend and I am officially her first. What should I do? and I am overreacting?
How do you apologize to your crush for overreacting?
Firstly, it's normal. Normal, not good, to over-analyze whatever your crush says or do. I have done this numerous times. She might have given a simple answer to one of my questions but then I would spend the next four hours of my life analyzing her choice of words, tone, accent, pitch and what-not of the answer. This is such a horrible thing to do because it will not give you peace of mind.Secondly, you shouldn't have called her a bitch. It is fine if you snap and get angry at a person. You're human and humans get angry. But, according to my books, never call a woman "bitch". That's like the worst word you can call a woman.In this situation, I feel that you overreacted. But it's okay. Everyone makes mistakes. If you were angry at her attitude towards you that time, you should have kept quiet and stayed away from her. Let her come to you. You can be cold to her if you want to let her know how much she hurt you. Or you could tell her that she was being offensive by the way she talked to you. There were better ways to make her apologize if that was what you wanted.Anyways, it's over. The next thing you should do is definitely apologize for calling her a bitch. You can tell her that that was uncalled for and after that, you can keep a distance and make her feel sorry. Do NOT go back to her unless she apologizes. If she has hurt your feelings, she should know that and she must apologize.