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Am i reading too much into this?

ok. my sons father and i have been broken up for two yrs. but, we've been strong friends & still messed around once. but we both live in diffferent states. he lives in ohio and i live in georgia. well, in october im taking our son to see him for two weeks in ohio. his oldest son lives with him now..and i don't know if it means something that he is introducing us to his son. he is a serious man who doesn't fool around-and introduce his son to women. besides his mom, hes meeting me and his brother. does this mean anything special at all? his son is 16 now and i've known my babys father since his other son was 10. any help would help

Am I reading too much into this?

My gf broke up with me a bit over a week ago, said she wasn't happy and didn't see a future with me.

We exchanged stuff and I told her it was the best 2 years of my life and I'm glad we met. Afterwards she sent me 5 text messages saying how we had amazing times, she's sorry things have to be like this, I was her best friend and she will cherish our memories.

We haven't talked since Tuesday when we exchanged stuff. A day ago on Facebook and Instagram she posted a picture that said "what screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it is supposed to be"
And under the picture she wrote "Truth. Now I just have to deal with it."

Yesterday on Facebook her status said feeling down
"Every night I try my best to dream tomorrow makes it better. I wake up to the cold reality that not a thing has changed"
She doesn't usually post that kind of stuff

Am I reading too much into it? It makes me feel like there is a chance we can get back together and she still has feelings for me

Am i reading too much into this?

i've been lulling this over with my husband. he thinks my ex is just being friendly, but i worry that it might be more.

what do you think?

he texts me most days to have a quick text catch up.
he calls me when drunk or when he's down and needs cheering up. (we live hours drive apart).
when i planned to visit a friend of mine, he found out, took the day off work and turned up there.
whenever i was alone, he approached me.
he confided in me some things which were emotional and private (not about me or a girl or anything - family stuff).
when my friend went to bed, he stayed up and talked and laughed with me until 3 in the morning.
he told me that he felt like he could be himself around me, and that that is special to him. he said i'm the only one who sees through the wall he puts around himself.
he wasn't flirting so to speak, but was very curteous - put his hand out to me when i was walking up a stair, etc

am i reading too much into his friendly ways?

When I was in 7th grade, I didn’t have much to do at home.I was one of those nerdy kids who would finish all their homework in school. If I couldn’t finish it at school, I’d finish it on the journey back home or within an hour of reaching home.My social life resembled that of an oasis in the middle of the Sahara— merely an illusion.As a result, I used to borrow a book from the school library on a daily basis.The interesting thing is, I used to finish every book I borrowed on the day I borrowed it.I’d forget sleep, food, and the fact that staying up until 2 a.m. on a school night could get me grounded.The next morning, I’d promptly go up to the library, return the book and borrow a new one the next day.This happened day after day.The librarians were always surprised at my regularity. After a point, I suspect they realized I probably had no commitments in my life.They were wrong.I had commitments, all of which I chose to ignore.Sometimes, reading much is actually reading too much when you start ignoring your commitments towards yourself and others.How much reading is too much?

Am I reading too much into this?

When my husband told me he loved me I was suprised too. But it was long after he told me he loved me that he finally asked me to marry him. I think he does really love you but who knows if you guys are to the point to getting married yet. Not to be rude but yeah he might of felt like that towards his ex but he might of also been farther into the relationship with her than he is with you right now. Just because someone loves you doesnt mean they want to marry you. But it could also mean that now that he has told you he loves you it has broken the ice for something much bigger he wants to tell you like he wants to marry you. I hope for your sake you get what you want.

Am I reading too much into this?

I was spending a weekend with my friend, Lynn, and on Sunday I went to church with her. Another one of our friends, Daniel, attends that church and while we were waiting for service to start he was playing with his camera phone. He took a pic of me making a face at him and Lynn told me I was weird. After she said that I said "I know, but you love me anyway" and Daniel said "I like weird girls... actually I like crazy girls, but weird works."
Then, today, we were all hanging out during lunch at school and I asked Lynn if it was alright if I spent the night at her place this weekend because my mom and sister are both going out of town and she doesn't trust me to be home alone, she gave me her usual answer "Sure, I don't care" and Daniel chimed in with a "Sweet! I'm gonna come over too." which brought to my memory the time we all three spent a weekend together, there was a lot of flirting between he and I and one of the nights I was over there I unintentionally fell asleep on his shoulder until Lynn moved and he took the spot by the arm rest on the couch [where we were] and I fell back asleep but this time on his lap.

So does what he said mean anything significant or am I just overanalyzing?

Am I reading too much into this?

Met a guy a couple months ago in a bar. He and his friends were in town for work. We all started hanging out. I told him I was interested in him, he stopped talking to me. He had a girl he was kind of seeing, flew her out to visit, then they got in a fight and then he took me on a date after she left and we all started hanging out again. All the guys were talking about how cool their hometown was (Vegas) and kept saying I should come visit. When they left, I text the guy and told him I was looking into plane tickets. He totally ignored me for a few weeks. I could tell he and the girl were still hanging out. Then i found him on facebook and we started talking again and I told him I was coming out to visit after all. He said I could stay with him at his house if I wanted and he'd show me around.

From his facebook, I can tell he and this girl are hanging out a lot again. She says stuff like, thanks for making me dinner last night! and I had fun yesterday, stuff like that. Is he just being friendly or is he trying to start something with me? He's been nice and he's letting me stay at his house so i can't tell if he's just being nice, he's into me, he's getting back with his girl, or what. (I'm in Illinois, he's in vegas) And I don't know why he talks to me on and off like that...he ignores me for weeks then says sure come visit? I am afraid now I read too much into the guys telling me to come visit.

Am I reading too much into the situation?

I was at a bar one night & one of my good friends, to whom I am attracted to, was there. I was standing behind her, she in a bar stool, when she tells me she's about to leave. Before she leaves she reaches around my neck & pulls me to her, rests her head on my shoulders and nuzzles, tightly, into my neck. Just before she lets go, she gives me a kiss on my neck, right below my jawline. Is she trying to tell me something? We are very huggy w/ each other. She hugged me tightly twice before when I first entered the bar, a kiss on the cheek each time, which she's never, ever done before.

Does he like me...or am I reading way too much into the situation?

I met a guy about a month ago while in another city, and ever since then, we've talked every night for a minimum of three hours by telephone. He calls me when he gets off of work, and each time we hang up he promises to call me the next day, which he does.

Well, I decided to come visit some friends in the same city he lives in and asked him if he wanted to get together; however, because he works nights during the week, he said he couldn't get together but would like to spend this entire weekend with me.

The thing is that he's always making comments like he doesn't think he'll ever get married because he's "too demanding," or "they don't make women the way they used to," or "I am too loyal and would be deeply hurt if a woman ever did something to me especially after I was completely loyal to her." Then he'll say something like, "but, maybe the right woman will come along and change my mind." Is he playing games? Or, is that my que to ask more questions about the type of woman he's looking for? (I never take the bait and ask this question, by the way. I just say, "I see" and leave it at that.)

So I guess my question is why is he talking to me every night for almost a month? Does he just think I am an interesting person? And why did he go out of his way to look up some information for me on the net and ask me to follow up with him afterwards? Maybe I am just making a big deal out of nothing?

I really like him is the thing. He makes me laugh, and for the first time in a long time I am having FUN! I just don't want to get attached and/or read too much into a situation that may not be all it's cracked up to be.

Should a man be judged on what he says or by his actions?

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