What makes a person bi-sexual?
Right now your are bi. You like both men and women, however you would marry a man instead because you would only be able to have a normal family with your own children with a man. You never know--this might just be temporary if you are at a really young age. My friend is only a teenager. She used to be bi for three years, but girls suddenly stopped attracting her ever since her interests in several guys and her boyfriend. You're bisexual, not bi curious, because you know that you could have any sexual interaction with a girl or date a girl, at the same time, you like men. It's very simple. You absolutely know that girls and guys both attract you. You're not curious, but you are positive about your idea.
Why do I wanna talk my life out with someone?
You're not the only one. I do too! I'm at a very pivotal point in my life and would really like to get someone else's perspective before I make any decisions. I don't feel like I can talk to my parents or friends. I wish I could talk to my grandma but she passed away over 10 years ago. I've resorted to writing everything down. By everything I mean all that's happening and my thoughts about it. Every thought that comes in my head I write it down. I don't know if it's helping me with sorting everything out yet (I've only recently started doing this) but it's been really therapeutic.
Am I the only person who is too lazy to work every day?
I can certainly say without a doubt that people from all walks of Earth can, at times, be lazy to work. When you find yourself with all the basic needs already satisfied, your next need in life is to find purpose and self-fulfillment. Based on Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, finding the drive in our lives is a result of trial and error. If you find yourself too lazy to work every day, it’s evident it isn’t very interesting. Perhaps it’s a stable career and a safe path, but life is about living outside your comfort zone.I left my cushy corporate lifestyle a few years ago to pursue different interests that may evolve to careers. I taught English in Japan for a year and although I had a great experience, I wasn’t passionate about it. In Australia I spent some time working in the kitchen and found it far too stressful. I volunteered at an ashram to gain wisdom and experience the yogi life.It’s a bold route for some and I can’t quite say I’ve found an interest worth career building yet, but I’m working at it.In moments where I’m at a dilemma of going safe or taking a risk, I always say to myself, “Life is too short. You aren’t getting any younger so do it now.”Perhaps you can start finding what interests you. What little things do you enjoy. What hobbies do you have? If you want to open a bakery, I don’t recommend dropping everything and doing it. You might end up hating it. Instead it would be better to take up a part time bakery job to get a feel.I hope you find something that motivates you to wake up every morning.
I wanna die, I'm sick of life?
ok i know i wrote about that an hour ago but i wasn't planning on killing myself , i was just thinking about it but now im not sure "but i dont wanna do it" but maybe i should, u know i use to always wonder why ppl write sometimes these stuff on yahoo answers and that it was stupid, but now i know why, it actually makes u feel better writting everything u feel to strangers I hate my life i hate everything about my life and i believe that i should die and that the world is better off when I'm dead and that Im better of when im dead just for once in my life "sigh" i wanna ask for help im bored and sick of feeling like that all the time I NEED HELP i dunno why i feel this way but its killing me and i dunno if i can live any longer coz whatever this is it destroyed my life. I’m losing my friend coz im so depressed all the time. my mind can't stop thinking of " DEATH ,DEATH DEATH ,I SHOULD DIE ,KILL URSELF ,KILL URSELF ,DIE ,DIE ,DIE " and i actually feel like cutting my self alot .... and i wonder am i a psycho why cutting myself will make me feel better but many ppl do it all the time and its actually feels good!! why does it feel good?? isnt it weird...dont u all think its weird? that feeling pain and seeing blood rushing down ur skin feels good…i think its weird and hate that sth soo awful makes ppl and I feel good. I don’t think I can live with being unhappy for no reason anymore I wish I have the courage to kill myself but im scared of going to hell and i hate god for that. I hate him for making me so unhappy ,I hate god for letting me go to hell if I killed myself and not letting me be with him, I hate god and I hate everyone in this world I sometimes I wish something really awful happens to me so I can have a reason for my unhappiness I hate myself I hate everything about me I hate my personality I hate my face I hate my body I hate everything everything and I really wanna die im really thinking of ways to die and im really thinking of killing myself tomorrow or even now and I …I really dunno wat to do ,im really lost I have no one to turn to I cant go to therapy as much as I wish I can I cant go to my parents for help and my friends won’t understand as I said I don’t even understand how can they!
Is abortion wrong am i a bad person :(?
Listen, I am not a pro abortion person who really digs the idea but I do respect someone that weighed all their options before they went and terminated a life. I don't blame you. It's your body, it's your life, and it's YOUR decision. I'm pretty pro life but if you can't provide for that child, and you're not old enough to afford it or take care of it properly or even just don't want to have a baby right now... I can understand. Keep your chin up. People are going to be judgmental no matter where you go. Not everyone needs to know you had an abortion too sweetheart. Sometimes keeping that between really close friends and trusted loved one's is the best idea. Maybe seeing someone about the abortion itself and talking about it will ease some of the pain. I don't think the pain will fully ever go away though. I know when I lost a baby I had gone through some pretty horrific mental problems for quite a long time. If you ever need to talk please feel free to shoot me a message; jessicaxcaylee@yahoo.com I'm always here.
Am I the only person who thinks PDA is disgusting?
Well no its more than just a petty smooch i mean like sucking face off on top of each other on the stairs while im trying to get to class, or a couple pretty much getting it on at the park (with children around) and no im not sad for affection i have a great boyfriend who shows me affection when we are not around others. im sorry but if these kids cant find other places to do it then at the park or in school maybe they shouldn't be doing it at all. lol. part of me just wants to whack them on the head with a rolled up news paper.
I feel pity on myself. Am I the only person to feel so on the earth?
No, you are not only one to feel so.Anyone one earth who posses a sense to recall any action, decision which went abortive can feel pity. Do I feel pity on me? Yes sometimes. Having said that, is it a natural thing which everyone feels and should be taken for granted? No, not at all.One can beget pity for itty-bitty stuffs but neither for such nor for any enormous issues it brings solution. So what's next? Its your understanding to work up the mess in whichever best possible you can.If there is a problem there is a solution, it's just discerning capacity to unveil it in any which form it is.
How do you stay alive, when all you wanna do is die and be free from depression?
Whenever I go through the depression or having problems, I just compare my life with other people.Just look at this pictures.Mother handles the heavy load bricks on her head while carrying her baby on her back. She would do anything for her family.The 20-year old construction labourer Sita was kidnapped, gang-raped and thrown on a railway track to die by a co-worker she had a small fight with. She became physically disabled and was abandoned by her own mother because she was no longer of any “use” to her in earning money.To give a new shape to her life, she joined a bridge school run by Prayas NGO, and with the help of her immense passion and will power, she managed to secure admission in class eight at the government-run Kasturba Gandhi Balika Vidyalaya (KGBV). Sita is an inspiration to all of us and proves that nothing can beat a strong. There are many women like her. I found about her from here :-https://www.thebetterindia.com/1...Everyone knows who is he. He is Marshal Mathers III a.k.a Eminem.His Father walked out on him when he was only 18 months.Raised by a drug addicted mother.Spent his childhood moving between cities. Dropped out of school for failing the 9th grade three times.Struggled with money, drugs, alcohol and almost committed suicide.His own mother and wife filed a lawsuit against him.Best friend, Proof was shot and killed. Bullied severely just for being the new kid.His uncle, the only person he could turn to, committed suicide.Fell into depression, became addicted to pills and nearly died.Now, He is one of the best selling rap artists in the world after going through everything.The child has a right to education, play, study, have friends and enjoy free time – and not to do this kind of work. Those little hands were not meant to do this.He doesn't have one leg but he is still doing his job. He didn't give up on his life.There are many people like this who don't give up on life. They are my true motivation.Yeah, I feel bad for them. My problems are nothing compared to them and I'm living the better life.Then, why should I waste it?Now, imagine what you can do with your life.Imagine how far you can go.The possibilities are truly endless.Don’t let the bad days ruin you. ;)Image source:- Google
What do you do when you want to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you anymore?
Hi,I had friend, very close friend, with whom I had an argument and he straight away told me to maintain some distance. To answer your question how you talk to someone who doesn’t want to talk to you, the answer is you simply go and try to talk. Be persistent. If you really wants to make things okay and you know the other person is childlike and stubborn and is waiting for a pampering, you persist without letting your ego take a lead. If the person matters so much to you that you do not want him to stop talking to you then self respect rather pride should be out of the way. Let him or her shout at you , publicly humiliate you or just plain ignore you be persistent to win back that friendship which is so important to you. The relationship will take it course. Just remember be persistent not irritating. Read the room and know when to end the efforts for the day.The bigger question is when to stop and what to do next? I am now only on a civilized hi - hello basis with that friend now. I stopped when I realized that me making efforts or not making efforts is same to him. I stopped when I saw that he has other relationships and friendship he is investing him while I am wearing all my mental, physical and emotional health on a friendship which may or may not exist in future. I stopped when I realized that I have become dependent on that friend and that my whole world is confined to that person where as he has whole world to explore and I finally stopped when I realized that my work , my life and my relationship with others are getting seriously affected by this and I do not want this kind of drama and negativity in life.The recovery started with usual five stages of loss 1) Denial 2) Anger 3)Bargain 4) Depression and 5) Acceptance. The process is painful but I usually dwell myself inj my work and hobbies and surround myself with books and other close friends. Many a times you will find yourself grovelling and feeling little and less, cry through that phase but grow stronger day by day and then one day you will realize your life is not dependent on a person or place or things and then your friendships will be without expectations and full of security and independence and fun.Wish you good luck!!!