What should a girl do if the she feels too ugly and fat for her skinny goodlooking boyfriend?
u should never feel that way at all your boyfriend should love u the way u are some people may say exercise but as for me ill say no u don’t u should love the way u look when u wake up in the morning u should look in the mirror and tell yourself i am beautiful i am a wonderfully made creation from God and can’t nobody tell me otherwise u should be confident in yourself. I was in your shoes once i thought i felt ugly too many times i had a boyfriend in high school i guess many boys were trying to get at me i couldnt say u have been through this but been rejected been played been disclaimed some even left but after i realized who i wanted to be with and who i became and how i felt about how i looked i was happy u dont have to worry about what someone thinks of u if they are not paying for u to do anything u shouldnt be changing how u look for someone else
I'm 15 and I feel very ugly :( What should I do?
Your hair sounds like mine! I used to hate it but now I embrace it because its so different and I love that! Once you start liking it you also learn how to make it work for what it is! Okay this is what my therapist told me: Just because you feel ugly doesn't mean you are it is the same with really skinny girls with eating disorders they feel fat but it definitely doesn't mean they are (they are normally really thin). And with people not telling you you are pretty just because people feel someway about you (which they probably don't think you are ugly anyway you can't read minds remember!) again doesn't mean you are, for example Obama is hated by many people that doesn't make him worthless or a horrible person! As for the guys they like girls with confidence and for that you need to like yourself!
Is 5'8 and 97 lbs too skinny?
I have an eating disorder too and yes you are grossly skinny, but i know what it feels like to be fat and never want to go back. But i do suggest you get help and try to get to a healthy weight.
Too skinny ? ugly ? help me?
omgg that is horrible, ur own mom callinig u that...by the way, its totally not true, and ur face IS NOT BONY. shes prob just jealous bc u look like a model (yess, u totally could) and u shouldnt have to change anything about urself. i think u look great just he way u are =) im 17 too, and i got a job, they are a lil hard to come by, bc they hire by seasons or something like that, idk....u gotta know someone to get in most of the times....also.... dont stress out. calm down... relax alil... and plz dont think ur ugly bc ur not, ur really handsome, and just be confident with who u are, and ppl will be like wow look at him, hes got everything...looks and confidence....dont feel down, and im real sorry about ur mom calling u ugly... i dont know any mother that would ever say that, even if their kid looked excactly like a rat or soemthing...but no, ur goodlooking, ur not boney, ur absolutely fine =) being skinny has its perks..ull never get fat-fat, sooo ull prob live a nice long life, and not have to worrry about obesity.....just plz try to be happy...find something that makes u happy...ik theres something....just plz dont i used to feeel the same way about myself, but i dont anymore bc i was done with feeling bad about myself. i wanted to feel happy again, all the time, and beleive me, its a great feeling....just keep ur head up,okay? and next time someone, like ur mom, says something bad about u, just be like uk, ur not helping my selfesteem or something, and if they say well, at least i tell u the truth just be like no, u dont its a lie...bc u have every right to feel handsome and perfect the way u are.... i hope i helped u some, try not to feel soo depresssed! =) put a smile on, itll help, watch something funny, it always works with me =) and dont worry about being thin, my boyfriend is on the thin side too for a guy, but its just how hes built,he cant help it just like u cant, and he is in veryy good shape..lets just sayy, skinny guys are hott too ;)
Boyfriend says I'm too skinny. I feel terrible?
i am naturally skinny because i have a really fast metabolism so its very hard for me to gain weight... while we were in the mall with my boyfriend's friends, he said "you're too skinny and you know it,you should really gain weight" in front of his friend. I felt horrible... Then a second time,after we had an argument in front of another one of his friends,he randomly said " Your legs are so skinny,u gotta put some meat on them". I felt really humiliated and i walked away from him,but then he ran to me and said sorry.. Then he did it AGAIN in front of one of his friends,when we were in a fast food restaurant. I was just sitting down and then he said " You really got to put some meat on those legs. eat some food" .That really made me upset. he could tell .. but 10 seconds after saying it,he prentended nothing happened. After all this,i feel really self consious and I feel ugly. I have been made fun of alot when i was younger because i was skinny,so im really sensitive about my weight. I always wear like 2 sweaters together to look less skinny and stuff..I hate him but i still act nice around him.. i feel disrespected. What should i do if he does this again?
Am I ugly?
I'm a 17 yr old girl and every guy thinks I'm ugly, they think I'm too skinny but I can't seem to put on any weight, I have a little bit of facial hair and I don't have the "cute" button nose. My bestfriend is really pretty, she's tall, smart, and really confident and she is the one that gets to on dates and the guys love talking and flirting wit her but they seem to completely ignore me
Why do people say I'm too skinny when I'm not?
People can be quite jealous. I've went through this for most of my life as well... Ever since I was in grade seven and people started growing breasts, I was the only one who didn't and was crazy skinny. I was diagnosed with Irritable Bowel Syndrome and lost 12lbs in 2 months (not good) but even before then I was under the average weight for my height and age. My mom said it's just a jealousy thing, and that's not incredibly wrong. My philosophy is, if u don't believe the words, they can't make that much of a toll on ur self confidence. Stay strong!