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Am I Weird For Not Wanting To Date A Stunningly Attractive Woman

What is it like to date an extremely attractive woman?

It’s great, but definitely has its issues. Here are some of the pros and cons based on looks alone.Pros:Sex life can be really greatLots of extra attentionPeople/businesses treat you betterSocial proof (if you date one hot girl, other hot girls will be more interested in you).Boosts confidenceCons:Lots of extra attention. Guys literally flock to her ALL OF THE TIME, doesn’t even matter where. Almost every day I’m told of some random guy that approached her at work or at the store or anywhere really. When I’m with her I literally need to work to keep them off of her.Ex boyfriends tend to linger around forever. The single ones still try to get back with her even though it’s been years and she isn’t interested at all.Incredible amount of attention on social media. Even if she isn’t active, she gets a ton of likes / comments / messages every day. We’ll be sitting there hanging out with each other and be interrupted by a notification that some random guy is liking her pictures from 2 months ago or sent her a ridiculous message.You know that there are literally hundreds of guys patiently waiting for you to have a fight so they can try to squeeze their way into the mix.They can expect a lot of you. They can be difficult at times to test you. An attractive women is likely an experienced dater and looking for a man who can handle her. If you can’t, you aren’t enough of a man for her. It’s okay, though because you’ll be better prepared for the next woman.You are replaceable. Logically speaking, it’s very easy for a beautiful woman to leave you and go get another boyfriend. You need to be comfortable with this. Here’s the thing though, she is dating you now for a reason. You are likely attractive as well for whatever reasons. Know that you can also replace her. It’s not a reflection of either of your worth though so don’t think you’re better or worse than one another if it doesn’t work out. It just didn’t work out.These are just some of the pros and cons but hopefully it paints a pretty good picture for you. Dating a beautiful woman is an incredible experience. I believe it’s one of, if not the greatest reward life can offer and I wouldn’t have it any other way. It definitely has its challenges, though, and can be really stressful at times.

Have you ever seen a woman so stunningly beautiful that it makes you want to stop masturbating?

I'm entirely serious. And i'm talking to the single men out there. I say "stop masturbating" meaning stop wasting precious time because instead of "masturbating" or wasting time doing nothing, you could be talking to the most beautiful girl you have just seen.

Has a similar thought ever occurred to you?

Are girls "afraid" of good looking attractive guys?

i ask because i know this guy, he did a bit of modeling in florida, only a little bit but he hated it after a while and didnt do it anymore. anyway, hes obviously considered "attractive" but hes not exactly what you would call "popular". just in his looks, but hes so different from everyone else. he likes classical music ALOT and is one of those old fashioned romantic type ppl. however, despite his looks, he cant seem to find a nice girl to date. he says to me that when he tries to talk to girls, he just never is very successful, despite how he looks. they dont know he was a model, lol. but hes pretty lonley, and i feel bad for him cuz i know how it feels. i dont consider myself bad looking as well, so im just curious: are girls afraid of attrctive guys? maybe they want to date someone who is ugly so that the she can be the "better looking" one? idk, but its so frustrating! any help or advice would be much appreciated here!

I find drag queens extremely attractive?

For the most part I'm straight. I'm probably attracted to females more than the "typical" straight woman, but I wouldn't actually want to date another woman. I guess someone might say I'm bi but I'm not really into labels. Anyways, I think drag queens are attractive. Maybe because they have the beauty of a woman but yet they're a man.

Is this normal for a woman who generally prefers men to be so attracted to drag queens? I'm just in my 20's, do you think I might actually be a lesbian, and that this attraction to drags is a way of easing into the realization?

I saw this when it first aired, absolutely stunning! It's not like I'm in love with Britney Spears or a fan of her either. In fact, I thought this man looked better than the real one!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcE1kVKoyks&feature=related

Why Don't Attractive Guys Like Me?

I never get approached by any good looking or handsome men. The only guys that approach me are average, which isn't a bad thing, but how come no attractive guys ever take interest me?

I'm not a model or anything, and I don't have a "perfect body" like most guys drool over, but why does that even matter? I know not ALL hot guys are shallow, but it seems like most are. I have a friend who's really attractive, and she had like 3 super hot boy friends just in the past year!

It makes me feel like I'm not worth it. :(

I'm only attracted to really pretty girls?

I'm only attracted to goodlooking guys. But just like you I thought that maybe I should give a guy with a good personality & average looks a chance, I ended up breaking his heart & cancelling the wedding 2 weeks to the date. Now I know myself better, so I stick to what I like. Trying to compromise and force what I don't like down my throat will only lead me to hurt a lot of people. Any way, who says there are not a lot of pretty girls with great personalties out there? Having a beautiful heart has nothing to do with looks, she cld either be pretty or ugly. But the reason why there appears to be more homely girls with great personalities is because they are overcompensating for their lack of prettiness, the way older men lavish young girls with money cos they know that's all they really have to offer, it doesn't make them generous but more like desparate. Now these kind of girls with "great personalities" are the ones u should look out for, cos this is not who they really are inside and they tend to revert to their real selves in a marriage. Pretty girls are easily misunderstood, they deliberately put on a cold & distant attitude because they don't want to encourage men, because it is easy for every man to be attracted to them and they don't want to attract the wrong man. it hurts a pretty woman when someone likes them for their looks and not for the person they are. They feel like they can be easily replaced by another beautiful woman, because a man is not in love with HER but with her looks. It's good that you are seeking a woman that is naturally beautiful inside & outside, so that you can be attracted to her and love her for the person she is. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for what you desire, this is who you are and you have duty to strive for what you want.

Do even married men get nervous around stunningly beautiful women?

I’ve been in a relationship longer than the Afghan War. I married the woman of my dreams and, despite the reality of two complex and flawed people running a life and raising four kids, it is amazing.That was my disclaimer.I was attending a convention a few years ago, discussing the practicalities of surviving the zombie apocalypse alongside several other zombie horror authors and survivalists. A friend of one of the panelists is a cosplayer I’d seen online. She’s about my age wore a steampunk-style outfit based on The Baroness from GI Joe. It was in red, I remember, which really brought out her porcelain skin, dark hair and bright eyes. While she was objectively the most beautiful creature in the room, part of that was in the way she held herself. She sat in the front row with such poise and grace, eyes fixed on whichever of us spoke with rapt attention.It was intimidating as hell.About zombie horror and fake survival situations, that’s my jam. I can rap forever about that stuff with the kind of confidence usually found at a sports bar by some wags debating stats right after the game.But when her eyes fell on me, I felt I needed to be funnier, smarter, and more informative than that. I felt I needed to earn that attention. She sat about ten feet in front of me, slightly to the left so she was ALWAYS in my field of view as I addressed a room of about fifty people. And there isn’t a single person in that room I can remember. I’m sure I had friends there. But The Baroness was the only person in the room.It wasn’t that I had some inappropriate lust in my heart or schoolboy infatuation, it was just that this woman, in character, made me feel like I would in front of my idols or “betters” for that entire hour.Those eyes, with a simple, subtle change, could show her disagreement or dissatisfaction, her amusement or excitement about a statement. And I responded to it. I was captivated.Would I run off with her or ask for her number if I knew I’d never be caught (or even if my wife gave me notarized permission)? No. That’s not the point of this.Hell, yes. Some people create a psycho-chemical reaction in proximity to one another. And it can be potent.

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