Help me- My dad is kicking my mom out into the street, what do i do?
I believe that your father legally can't kick your mother out if both their names are on the mortgage. If he tries to forcibly make her leave, call the police. Once the divorce is settled (and this can take a LONG time), they will have to divide assets and he might even have to pay her alimony. Note this: If she leaves the household, your father can divorce her on means of abandonment, and will not have to pay her anything. Also: during the divorce, they should be able to figure out custody and visitation, since you and your sister are technically both minors. You, being the older sibling, will have more of a say in where you live. The courts will look into where will be best for your sister. Unless there is a SERIOUS problem (drugs, violence, abuse, etc.) you will, at the very least, have visitation with the non-custodial parent, so none of it means you will 'never' see your mother again. Finally, if there is absolutely nothing that can be done, and by whatever means your mother DOES leave the household, advise her to go to a women's shelter. It is safe and clean there, and they will try to help her get on her feet. She will need to find a job, and show she is trying to support you and your sister. You have a RIGHT to see both your parents. Your father can certainly make it difficult, but you can always find a way. Involve the law if you have to. I'm not sure, but you might even be old enough to petition family court if you want to push visitation. I'm so terribly sorry you are going through this, and especially at such a young age. Please, email me if you need to talk, vent, etc. It's such a hard thing to deal with on your own.
How do I not feel bad about kicking my mom out of the house? My mom has lived with me in my house for a couple years; she constantly disrespects me and we just don’t get along anymore. I finally lost it and told her she has 30 days to get out.
You should feel bad about letting her into your house, not kicking her out of your house.Your mother is a user.You were hoping that if you healed your mother she would in turn heal you. Somewhat normal for a 23 year old, especially one who has been used by his/her mother all his /her life.You are right to ask for support as you draw a firm boundary with your mother. And don't be surprised if you have to get a lawyer to evict her. Have you given her the notice in writing, dated and signed, adressed to her? Mailed registered mail? You will need all this in court. I would be surprised if she leaves voluntarily.If she didn't wear the label “mother" this would be an easy decision. Remove the label and look at what she has done for you and against you throughout your life. But either way, get her out of your apartment.
My dad is threatening to kick my sister out. Is this wrong?
In my opinion, that is MAJOR overboard action to take. Your dad needs to go get some professional counseling on how deal with situations like that. He needs to learn how to be a good father and kicking his daughter out for that reason is not a good route to take. If he does not have a volcanic anger, he needs to have a pleasant conversation with her and find out why she doesn't want to do this. You may want to find out if he was treated this way as a child by his father. Does he go to church? if he wants to get free and solid counseling tell him to call Focus on the Family, in Colorado, Springs, Colorado, at 1-800-A -FAMILY, and ask for a family counselor. This doesn't mean that he will get one immediately but within a day or so he will be called back with help.
Can my mom kick my dad out of her house?
I imagine so.My grandma could hold her own against any man in a fair fight and she wasn’t particular about fighting fair. When she kicked grandpa out, he was out. And he stayed out, until he figured out how to fix it. He was a good fixer.After 20 years, your mom and dad have probably been here before. Long time wedded couples always find ways to make up. Until one of them stops caring. Then it is over. And there will be nothing anyone can do about it.Don’t spend too much time worrying about avoiding the wreck. That’s up to them. You should make yourself ready to survive in the aftermath.LeecherOne who leeches; a physician.(Internet, file sharing) One who downloads a torrent.Lechera man given to excessive sexual indulgence; a lascivious or licentious man.
My dad kicked my mom out of the house/?
my dad got mad at my mom because my mom started yelling at me for not doing my homework. my dad doesn't want my mom to yell at me. they had a big fight. then they went in the car and went somewhere( i dont know) and when they came back, my mom was drunk and she was hiding from my dad because he kicked her out of the house. it was 12:30 at night so my mom could not go anywhere so she decided to sneak back into the house. now, my mom is hiding in my closet because she's afraid that if my dad sees my mom in the house, he will beat her. what should i do. this whole thing just happened a couple of minutes ago. please help!!!!!!!!!!!
My stepdad is trying to kick me out because im an atheist?
He has no right to walk into your life and demand things you can't possibly give without losing yourself to him. Tell your mom you think she's scared if him. If she denies it then ask her why she won't do anything about the matter. If it's some nonsense like " i'm too busy or I can't, I love him too much" then ask her how she could choose someone she's only been with for a little while over her own daughter. Get her to really think deep about the matter, how it affects you, and yor feelings towards it. Tell your step dad to hive your books back. If he doesn't, take it back when he's away and hide it somewhere. Tell friends and teachers you think might help. Parents feel more threatened when other people are involved because try can't have it their way when someone else is around, that I'd an adult and smart. This is because their reasoning behind everything will be, I have no doubt, unjustified. Make sure it's not one meeting several, consider counciling or talk to your teachers about family counciling. If their mad. Say that I also have a reason to be mad.
My mom kicked me out at 14 to live with my dad. My parents are divorced please help. Read info below.?
I have 2 friends (they're sisters) that have had rough situations with their step-father. One even had to stay with me for 3 weeks because things got so bad. But anyways, I'm sorry that this all happened to you. What I have to say is is that its a good thing you got out of a hostile environment and moved somewhere safer and nurturing. I'm going to start listing off here: What you were wrong in: Always threatening your mom that you would move out to your Dad's. You would always use that as a defense and its gotten back at you, but for the better. Your mom seems to be always taking sides with your step-dad and not listening to you and you're younger sister. My advice would be to let some more time pass by since you said that you and your mom as starting to improve upon your relationship. Just let things fall into place and be patient. You said you want to move back....but what if this situation happens again? You have to realize that you need to know whats best for yourself first. Put yourself first and see where moving back with your mom would take you. Is there anyway you and your mom and your stepdad could talk things out civily? Try that. Try asking her what you need to apologize for? What SPECIFICALLY ticked her off? If her answer is to general, then I would talk things out or let things freeze over for a little bit. Best of luck :). Liz.
How do I deal with my stepdad making me uncomfortable?
So just yesterday I told me mom that my stepdad has been making me feel uncomfortable for years. They were together for 10 years... I finally got the courage to tell her everything about how he has grabbed my butt one time and has said really inappropriate stuff to my sister also and my mom kicked him out. My mom is really sad and so am I and now we re living all alone together just me and her. I don t want my mom to be lonely or be alone forever. She s already in her 50 s and I feel terrible for barely telling her about my stepdad now... I love her so much and I just want her to be happy but I just don t know what to do or say... please help...