Should I return an engagement ring to my ex narcissist?
My first question is: Why are you returning the ring?If you really must return it, and increase the risk of contact when no contact is the best action, then mail the ring back via courier or postal service in whatever way gets his signature on the delivery docket. Not anyone else’s, especially if they’re (potentially/actually) one of his enablers/flying monkeys.When you send the ring back, take date/time-stamped photos of the postal store, the package, the contents, the delivery docket, insurance receipt, send receipt, etc: Every.single.aspect of the transaction. Make sure you somehow include photos of signatures or names or identifying features of the personnel involved in sending this package (including selling you the service) whom you do not know. Tell them the story if it gets their cooperation. You can’t go overboard with this.I’m suggesting all of this for your benefit, not his. He won’t believe any of it, if he chooses not to. Taking all these photos/videos of every.single.aspect of the transaction to return this engagement ring is only to provide proof to the police, insurance investigators, etc your ex-fiancé may call on if he chooses to accuse you of theft.Good luck! I have been through similar; I totally feel for you. Think positively but prepare for the worst.
Can you return an engagement ring if she says no?
I managed 2 Jewelry stores for 18yrs and have a good amount of experience with this issue. Our business model allowed the customer to pick a loose diamond and then set it in the ring of their choosing. So depending on the work involved, would depend on how much of a refund I could give if she said no. I also appreciated knowing that this might be an issue up front so I could work out the right plan with my customers needs. For example, if he wasn't sure she would say yes, then I would not suggest a custom made ring that would take 4 weeks to design, manufacture and assemble. Plus if he didn't know if she would say yes, he usually didn't know the exact ring she style would want. I would often times tell him to pick a beautiful diamond, put it in a solitaire ring (or pick a pre-made setting in a standard ring size from the hundreds I stocked) and then if she said no, we would refund all the money or just keep $50 - $100 for the cost of the prongs and labor depending on the situation). In other words - find a jeweler who will work with you, the good ones will.
What should I do with my engagement ring since me and my psycho fiancé broke up?
Give back to them. Your obviously upset. That is understandable. If it is this tumultuous right now? It's not going to get any better once you're married. It just won't. Marriage doesn't solve the issues people assume it will.. It's unfortunate. So, this is just a suggestion obviously. Take it as you will but how about you try this, be the better person in a bad situation and be greatful for whatever you loved about them. Tell them you love them, and always will but your differences are to vast for you to cohabitate. Kiss them, and after this keep the fond memories. Be grateful for the little moments that no one else was there for.. the moments that made them special to you. The things that caused your heart to flutter when you were alone together. Only, speak well of them, even if they are out there talking negatively about you. Because if they are, and you don't? Eventually no one is going to listen to it. And they will think better of you. And you will be. Take the love the two of you shared and place it in your heart. Keep it their for the bad days when you need to be reminded of why you fight through life. Of why people search for love and acceptance. Your heart is an honest place. The world is not.
Moody girlfriend returns engagement ring for second time. What to do?
My gf has always had ups and downs and gets mad often. Not to get too into it but basically, she gave me back my ring right b4 she went to work and told me she needed "a break". this is the 2nd time she does this. The first time i talked to her and we talked things out, now I just can't believe she would do it again. It hurts to have put urself out there and then the person ur love give u back your "promise" to them. Am I supposed to act normal in a couple of days when she starts askingme how im doing and wants to talk? Or is it enough and I should break it off? Is it acceptable if I giver her the ring back AGAIN and act all sweet like I did last time?
Do we pick out engagement ring together?
I have a friend in the jewelry business that says her store is plagued by returned engagement rings that the guy picked out....but the girl didn't like. She says the guy should NEVER propose with the ring. It can put the girl in the awkward position of telling the guy she loves him, but hates the ring he picked. The ring should be picked out by BOTH of you. After all, she's the one that will be wearing it. Take her to the store with you. That shows that you respect her input too. Don't gamble on what she might like-Take her with you to shop for the ring. Shopping for the ring together can be a joyous romantic experience that she will treasure. Either propose without the ring then take her shopping, or take her shopping and buy it, but wait until a special moment later on to propose. I have even seen proposals at the mall in front of a jewelry store-but you might want to pick a more romantic location!