What was wrong with the products of the age prior to carnegie's?
Materials used may have been inferior. Carnegie controlled all suppliers of raw materials through vertical integration. This system allowed Carnegie to make sure he was getting the highest quality materials.
Was I wrong to spank bf and why did I enjoy it?
Humm. Let me guess. You wear the pants in your relationship. If he was drunk i am sure it did nothing for him so that just comes under abuse. If you were both sober and decided to spank the crap out of each other then I guess that is Okey Dokey but you abusing a drunk doesn't say a whole lot for you punkin especially if you got turned on by watching a grown man cry. Whats it gonna be next week? You gonna dress him up in a diaper and cram a pacifier in his mouth and make him call you mama?
Is it better to do the right thing for the wrong reasons or to do the wrong thing for the right reasons? Why?
Have you heard the phrase: The road to hell is paved with good intentions?Reason doesn't matter. Actions and consequences are the only thing that matter at the end.And looking back history, we have so many examples of people doing the wrong thing, for what they believe to be the right reason. For example, during Spanish Inquisition, at least some priests genuinely believed that they were torturing the heathens for their own good, converting them to Christianity was the only salvation after all. Compare to eternal damnation, surely a little bit earthly pain was nothing.I'm pretty sure plenty of Japanese soldiers during WWII genuinely believed the Greater East Asia Co-Prosperity Sphere, that they're bringing prosperity to lesser people like us poor Chinese and them poor Koreans. So a few people died, a few women raped, so what? small price to pay for the greater good.No. Right reason almost never justify wrong doing.Murder is murder, rape is rape. Just because some asshole sincerely believe raping a lesbian would cure her of her “perversion", doesn't make rape any less heinous. Just because some sadistic priests really believe zapping Gay people would make them straight, so they'd going to heaven, doesn't make torturing any less criminal.Fuck reasons. Nobody give a shit about your sob stories and excuses or how you meant well. At the end of the day, everyone of us are defined by the choices we made, not the rationale behind it.
Am i wrong for keeping the Iphone that my friend got me?
Okay so 2 weeks ago my android phone broke and i went to the store to get another phone. My friend saw me in the store and said that she could just add me on her line since i have bad credit and i could get an iphone so i said this is great and i was very thankful. I had to pay her $350 for the down payment for the iphone 8 plus and i got the phone and im on her line. All of a sudden she calls me today and says she needs the iphone back because shes switching from At&t to Verizon and that she cant add me on her line, i asked her is there anyway i could keep that line and keep paying the monthly payments and she said no and that at&t said the line has to be open for 30 days. So basically i got into it with her and said HELL NO im not giving you back the phone because i just paid you $350 for the down payment for the phone 2 weeks ago and you all of a sudden are asking for the phone back, she ended up getting mad and pissed. We arent friends anymore. So now shes pissed with me because i took the phone and got it unlocked to another network. Am i wrong? Was i justified?? I feel like if she had given me my money back them i would have given her the phone back without an issue but its the fact that she just all of a sudden decided to switch phone lines and ask for the iphone back after i JUST PAID HER
Is it wrong to love one grandchild more than the other?
I have four daughters (One is deceased) and of those four came two grandchildren. My first grandchild was born in 1994 and from the day she was born, I have loved that child like she was my own. My daughter moved in with my husband and I after she gave birth, and for the five years they lived with us, I helped my daughter raise her. I would hold my granddaughter throughout the night, got up with her when she cried, slept beside her crib, nurtured her when she was sick, taught her how to read, put a piano in the house when she discovered an interest in music, helped teach her how to walk, talk, write...she loved me, and I loved her. Even after she and my daughter moved out and across state, I still saw my granddaughter throughout the year; always on her birthday, the summer months, and the holidays. We had a special bond no one could break. My other daughter (The second oldest) had my grandson in 2003, and honestly, I never really felt a connection with him. My husband did of course since he always grew up with women (Two sisters, four daughters, our granddaughter) so a boy was a nice change for him. I love my grandson, but I just never bonded with him like I did with my granddaughter. He didn't sleep over at the house much, and he was always a misbehaved child while my granddaughter was always behaved and well mannered.I don't see my grandson much these days, and when I do, he and I just don't hit it off. He'd rather go play with his grandfather, and hardly say a word to me. My question is, is it really wrong of me to care more for my granddaughter than my grandson? I'm basically like a second mother to her and she's been in my house and in my life for almost 18 years now. Granted, she's not as much of an angel as she used to be (Regular teenage rebellion) but I still love her dearly. I can't help but feel a little guilty, though.
Depressed with our living situation, am I wrong?
My husband and I have been married for over a year and half. Ever since we have been renting out the basement at his sister’s house. I was never comfortable and never felt at home. For example the laundry room is right in front of our bedroom, I can’t tell you how many times, his sister husband has walked down and saw me in underwear, to use the kitchen I have to wait for them to finish because they have kids and they need to get them to bed, I can’t buy a lot of food because we only get on shelve on the fridge, it’s many little things that after a year and half it’s driving me crazy. I always liked to have my space and my privacy that’s the person I am and I feel like being married and not having our own place it’s very frustrating. My husband understand but doesn’t seem too interested in moving out. There’s always something, we need more money, we need better credit, we need to wait for the market to go down. The last straw was his sister got an aupair, so now there’s 7 people living in this house, it’s one more person coming downstairs to do laundry and I’m at a point that it’s making me question my marriage because I’m so depressed at this house, I spent the entire day working and was happy and all, as soon as I walked through the door, I started to get depressed and negative and I feel that it’s hurting my mental health. Am I wrong here? Am I the only one that think that couples should have their own place and be by themselves in the beginning of their marriage?
The closer the exam, the more sleepier I am.Something wrong? How to fix it?
Lots of things could be wrong...I don't know which are bothering you.People sleep to avoid working on something that is scary (like being scared you won't complete your school assignments and study).When people spend a lot of time working very hard, without getting enough exercise, they can wear themselves out. It sounds backwards, but when you are using your brain so much, you need more exercise. Sitting all the time is very hard on the body.If you've stayed up late, to try to make up for not getting enough done during the day, you are not getting good rest, even if you are getting the same number of sleep hours. Try going to bed earlier, and waking earlier, to get better rest.So, make sure to exercise or at least run around for five minutes, a few times through the day. Don't sit for hours and hours.Don't do your work in bed, it leads to feeling sleepy when you are awake, and not sleeping well at bed time.Find a study group, so you will have other people around, to give you more confidence and feel better about working so hard.