What was the worst thing that you done wrong, and got spanked for?
Did it make you a better person? Did you learn something? If you never got spanked for that would you do it again? How hard would you say you got hit, and do you approve of that now? Or would you say it was to hard? As an adult what would you do in the same thing now if it was your child? As a child if we got it, we would get marks on us! are parents were (christian strict) . We fell to the floor and it didn't matter were the belt hit, are arms, legs, back, etc. We preferred the padlle over the belt. I do agree with spanking, but some people take it to far. I would say that marks is to far, and that would fall into beating. I think it should be the butt, not anywhere els, with the hand. As being feamale, my hand wouldn't be affective, and I would use a small paddle. With many single mothers now, kids take avantage of that, mostly boys. I'm not bashing single mothers now, and I know many keep there kids in line. It's mostly welfare ones that have a problem (different fathers ones)
Can i put child support on myself and able to see my daughter?
my daughter is just 7 months and me and her mother just broke up, i know for a fact that she wont put child support on me because she will do anything possible in order for me not to see my baby, so can i put it on myself and can i see my daugther if i do so? where can i start? I LIVE IN TEXAS by the way. thanks for any help
I'm a 30-something year old woman and I don't want children. I have never desired children. People always make me feel like I'm supposed to want them. I just never have. Is something wrong with me?
No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It is your choice and so it will be and should be at all times. Do NOT allow anyone to tell you how you SHOULD feel about anything.But what I will also say is - right now you feel that way, so let it be that way. Understand that life changes every minute, your mind/body change all the time, the universe changes all the time. Allow yourself the opportunity to live life at its fullest - one moment at a time. Allow yourself the freedom to change your mind as well. Accept that however strongly you feel about not having a baby now, it is possible that at a later time you may actually want one. Not just “want”, perhaps even yearn for a baby.I am saying this out of experience. I have personally seen a close relative go from “I will never never have a child” to “I want a baby NOW” just like that - as if a switch flicked in their head. And that happened in the 30s.Why is this point important? Do not make any life impacting decisions based on an assumption that “I do not ever plan on having a child anyway, so this is fine”. Live a full life with all possibilities open.And yes, it is your choice at all times.
Is it wrong to take a child to an adult movie? Is it ever okay?
No. Never. If you have a starring role, then you can afford to get some clips or posters or whatever that are age appropriate and share those. But, Debbie did Dallas only for the people that were over eighteen. Period. And, trust me, just about the time you are certain that that little one is going to sleep through the entire movie, they will have insomnia. Do not take your child to adult movies. Period. A couple of reasons. One. Movies are make believe. Depending upon their age, it is hard for a child, even a very very smart child, to differentiate between the reality of life versus the fantasy of movies. Sure, maybe the gorgeous rich guy does fall in love with the woman working the streets and rescue her from her miserable life, but to a kid that becomes the reality, the norm and they don’t ever have an opportunity to fill in the back story of what life was like for her before that. Two. Movies are just one of the age appropriate boundaries you and your child will have to deal with . Movies set an example for other ‘age appropriate limits.” If Mommy and Daddy let me go to that R or X movie when I was ten, well they won’t mind if I get drunk or even just start drinking with my friends at fourteen. Other patrons have the right to not be disturbed by your child. If I plunk down twelve bucks to see a G rated movie, I can understand that there will be kids in there and come to accept that to some degree. If I plunk down twelve bucks to see an adult movie, then sorry, your kid’s whining, tantrum, fidgeting, whatever, is going to really yank my chain. And while this may be my ‘problem,’ not yours, I will be that person who throughout the movies notices your kid and will be thinking that this is not right. Finally, adult movies are hardly the way to spend ‘quality time’ with your child. Even friends and I who go to movies together agree that while we may enjoy the movie, it is not really a great way to be social together. Sorry. I know that sitters are expensive (I think those kids are starting their 410K’s at 12.), but maybe you can work something out with friends or somehow find anotehr way to have fun.
Am I wrong to be annoyed by parents popping in my classroom unannounced to observe?
I'm a first year second grade teacher. I did not major in education, rather I took a certification program for career changers, so I'm learning as I go. I find it really annoying that the parent of one of my TAG students just pops in whenever he feels like it. It's not excessive, but I feel like I have to be on my toes because you never know when he's going to just show up. He signs in at the office first, then he just opens the door and comes in and sits down. He walks around the back of the room looking at stuff, then he goes back to watching. WTF? I'm already nervous and learning a job as I go. :-(
My father's name is printed wrong in the 10th certificate. Will there be any problem while taking a passport or not? What are the steps to take to make the correction? If the name is changed in the 10th certificate then do I have to make corrections in the Inter and BTech?
You will have to change name not only in 10th but all Certificate which is a long process.If you father name is appearing as ‘ zxxxx’ in all the documents instead of ‘zzxxx’ the real name, I would still advise you to mention zxxxx because you have documentary evidence and you will have no problem. I suppose your Aadhaar Card will also be carrying zxxxx as your father’s name. If yes , please go ahead as changing name is very cumbersome and time consuming process . If Aadhaar is carrying correct name then still I would advise to get the name changed in Aadhaar as per certificate.I am writing this out my own experience as my wife’s father name was spelled wrong in all certificates and we took expert advise and mentioned the name as per certificate in PP application . I had also talked to school / college authorities and as the matter was old they simply showed helplessness but at the same time stated that even if matter is more than two years old , it is very cumbersome and authorities take lot of time.However you can seek professional advise from advocate but his advise will be no differentthan what I have stated above but there is a way in the sense that your father can file an affidavit which the advocate will prepare stating that his correct name is zzxxx instead of zxxxx and his name appearing in his son’s marksheets ( details of all marksheets with name of son) is wrong . The affidavit will be got notarised by the advocate . There after your father will have to give advertisement in local news paper about the same ; draft of which your advocate will prepare. This was one of the options given to me also but we had no time and were living in a different city far away from her father’s place so we went ahead with the misspelt name.
Why would Islam say everyone is born a muslim....is it supposed to make feel better being muslim?
Making a claim like this elevates Islam above all other religions. It's one more example of how intellectual honesty is used to reinforce the notion that Islam is somehow superior and true. Babies know nothing of Allah, or Mohammad, or Islamic law. Those are learned concepts. The closest idea I've seen to explaining how a newborn could POSSIBLY be a Muslim is "babies are born pure, without corruption or sin"...however, it neglects the CLEAR CONDITIONS which define whether a person is a Muslim or not. This is a case of Muslims lying by way of omission. The more they struggle to legitimize Mohammad's religion, the deeper they sink into a pit of lies and intellectual dishonesty. Islam is good for ONE THING: bringing relative order to a society by way of the fear of eternal punishment in "hell fire".
How many godparents should a child have? And how many godchildren should one person have?
How many godparents should a child have? I know that I've seen a lot of people lately giving their children multiple sets of godparents. Recently two neighbors had children and both gave their children 8 godparents total. Is that too much? Is it okay to have more than one set? And additionally how many godchildren should one person have? If you already have one godchild and someone asks you to be the godparent to their newborn should you turn down their request because you already have one?