My boyfriend has a lot of female friends. They text him as often as I do, and it makes me jealous. They even send him selfies and want him to send selfies back. It feels like they're waiting for us to break up. How do I let go of this frustration?
In a way, this is completely normal and a scenario that happens all the time. As a guy, I can attest to the fact that, regarding attention from women, "when it rains, it pours." Basically, whenever I've been in a relationship, a ton of other women come out of the woodwork all of a sudden, and are flirtatious with me. This causes a point of friction with my girlfriend, who hates the "competition". I'll tell you a version of what I tell my girl.They aren't popping up because I woke up today and suddenly found myself richer and hotter; they only want me now because they see that someone else has me. People want what they can't have, this seemingly goes double for attraction. Any smart man understands this, and doesn't let it phase him. Moreover, being in a relationship must mean that I'm dateable and date-worthy - that is, someone finds me attractive, thus I must be! So, my social "stock" (for lack of a better term) goes up, raising my perceived "value," which raises demand even further (which raises my value even more, and on and on).What does all this nonsense mean for you? That as a smart "investor," you picked a winning stock early on, and are reaping the rewards. Does Warren Buffet get jealous when he makes a stock pick, and everyone and their dog tries to buy in as well? No, he kicks back, satisfied with his investing acumen, and (in my mind's eye) says "suck it bandwagoners!" As should you: you made a good pick, and now everyone else is trying to say "ooh I want in too!" But he's yours, and you should be a little smug instead of jealous. Confidence in your boyfriend and his fidelity is key. If you act neurotic and jealous, he'll either a) eventually get frustrated and wonder why you're so insecure (ie are you worried he'll find someone better? maybe he should?); or b) understand your insecurity, and leverage it to get his way. Either option isn't good, to put it mildly. So outflank his friends, be confident because it's sexy and self-assuredness is self-perpetuating. (It's a fine balance between arrogance and confidence, so be mindful!) His friends will smell you being the confident alpha, and know that your bond is unshakeable by those who occupy the cheap seats in the stadium. And remember: just as much as you picked him, HE picked YOU as well - not any of those other girls! So shoulders back, chest out, and eyes up…you're the alpha in the room, and never forget it.
How can i stop being such a psycho jealous girlfriend?
i can relate to you and its really not our faults that we r overlly jealous. its just that we love our others so much that it drives us crazy to think of them being with someone else. what i did to get over this was letting things slide i stopped being so paranoid and i rememberd the reason i fell in love with him in the first place was bcus i could trust him bcus i know he won't screw me over and bcus im with him for the respect he has for me. you just need to remember that your the one in his head yes he might talk to another girl maybe even check out another girl but you just have to keep it in ur head that hes with you bcus your the one he thinks is hott 'and your the one he loves. relationships go bad without trust.
Are Leo women typically jealous of other prettier/smarter girls?
So it's been breaking my heart that my long time highschool best friend stabbed me in the back, I knew she was jealous of me growing up -she would flat out say it 'Riya, ugh! Your so smart I'm so effing jealous of you!' everytime I got a better grade than her. I could tell she didn't like the fact that I was confident or popular either.....anyways whatever,...that was HS right...so we should be past that drama anyways....never had a fight ....but we met in college......this Leo that was once my best friend became my worst enemy.....she's going around telling random ppl not to be friends with me bc I'm bad news..... I stil have no idea why she would do this to me when I have not done her wrong despite her negativity jealous behavior all through growing up. In fact it seems like she wanted popularity which she got my friending me in HS. And now she got herself some implants....shes cute...has a bf .....why is she being this way? Should I remove her from facebook? Is this a jealousy act like childhood? What's her deal?
How can I tell if someone is jealous of me?
I had a colleague who was very jealous of me, at least that is what people told me when I complained of her behavior. Here is what I experienced:She would copy me. If I got a new piece of jewelry then she would get something very similar shortly afterward. If I traveled somewhere, she would go on a trip also to some place similar.She would be very nice to me to my face but them put me down behind my back. People would tell me about some of the things she said I was doing. Not of it was true.She was constantly complaining about others. No one was very competent in her opinion. I was one of them when my back was turned.We were friends outside the work place. But she would like to purposefully exclude me and tell me about where she went and what she did.She would never compliment me or ask about a trip.I always had the feeling that she was trying to “ put me in my place”.These things went on for quite a few years. I tolerated it because I worked with her and wanted to keep my work environment as peaceful as possible. She must have taken this as permission to keep doing it. Finally, the last straw came. I had golfed with her and a couple other ladies for about 8 years on Wednesday afternoons in the summer. She had recently been particularly difficult to work with and had alienated several other people with her negativity and complaining. She was going to schedule a tee time for the following week. I asked her to just let me know. She never told me and I found out that our group had gone without me. I finally confronted her about it and told the entire group that I would never do anything with them again. They were not “friends” if they were going to treat me like that. At work I had asked to be reassigned to a different area so I wouldn’t have to work with her again.After breaking it off with her I realized a few things… Her negativity had unconsciously rubbed off on me. I had to work on not criticizing and complaining about others. She really had been toxic. I developed better friendships with other, more positive people. I was so much happier!
Why are Scorpio women so jealous of Virgo women?
I kid you not, every Scorpio woman I have ever met always are envious if Virgo women. And I don't mean "Scorpios get jealous of all signs, not just Virgo" I mean EVERY SCORPIO FEMALE IVE COME ACROSS IS JEALOUS OF A VIRGO...nothing else that I've heard, just Virgo girls. I'm not trying to say anything bad about either star sign (I'm a Taurus btw) it's just for some reason when I bring up Virgos girls around Scorpio women they start getting ridiculously jealous of their looks, personality, or the attention Virgo girls get. Like for example, I'm friends with two best friends, of course ones a Virgo girl and the other is a Scorpio girl, both are extremely close like sisters yet when the Virgo girl isn't around Scorpio girl still loves her...but talks about how jealous she is of her and how she wishes she could be like her. Another thing that seems to really bother my Scorpio girlfriends is how my Virgo girlfriends don't even try to receive attention so it seems, yet alas apparently a lot of people fall for them. What's weird is that all the Scorpio men seem to LOVE virgos so much and kinda obsess over them lol not like there's anything wrong with that. Scorpio men love Virgos and Scorpio women are envious of them. What sucks is that I wish Scorpio women knew how amazing they are so that they wouldn't need to feel jealous. If anything, I wish I was a Scorpio because these women are awesome! Why are Scorpio women jealous of Virgo women? Why do Scorpio men adore Virgos so much?