Why do men/ women stray from a good marriage?
and stay in a dead end marriage * this is only applicable to a small percentage of cheating idiots I note that many people havent ever been cheated on and are in happy marriages
Is this affair worth risking my marriage?
A guy I dated before I started dating my husband, contacted me. In the past there was an immediate connection with this man but an age difference (3 years) complicated things. I ended up falling for a friend in High Scholl and we have been together for 8 years now. We have two children, are married and experience the usual problems. We have a great sex life, can talk, etc. This other person who contacted me is the most amazing person though and he thinks the same of me. We convey our love to each other and have been in contact for 3 years now..(we dont live near each other) When I feel strong enough to let him go, his affections toward me get more intense. Sometimes he is hot n cold though...is he stringing me along? He has never insisted I leave and start a life with him yet he talks about how perfect we are for each other? I believe everyone has the right to be happy and take chances. I guess my two questions are: How do I approach the other man? Do I persue it and be forward? Or how do I move forward? I NEVER would have imagined myself falling into this position and normally would have avoided it at all cost but I completely surrendored to him. I believe it's possible to love two people because I am certain that I love both of these men and am pretty confident they both love me. Confused!!
Is getting married at 25 a good idea?
You want to avoid making mistake, right?Then here’s my take.The only mistake I see right now is that you seek other people’s approval for your plans.If I tell you it’s a mistake should you give a damn? Why the hell should my opinion matter or be relevant? Who the hell am I to tell you whether you’re making a mistake or not?Who the hell other Quora users are to tell you this?It’s your life. The only way you can screw it up is by seeking other people’s approval.Rely on your gut feeling. Do what you think is right for you.Don’t be crippled by other people’s POV or opinions.You should always cherish your right to make your own mistakes in life.Being deprived of this right by other people (who want to tell you what is and what isn’t a mistake) is the worst, and it will make you suffer more than you would due to your own mistakes.How many YESes do you need from us?What if you end up getting equal amount of YESes and NOs?Say you’ll get all NOs. Would it be enough to stop you?Do you really need a permission (“green light”) from Quora users?What if all those who will answer this question for you are wrong (including myself)?Does the fact that someone else failed mean that you will fail too?Does the fact that someone else succeeded mean that you will succeed too?Why do people get married? is a much better question.Why?Marriage as a union recognized by law, custom or religious tradition (as something official) is not at all necessary to form a family.Marriage as a simple union between two persons, on the other hand, is necessary.And yet most people get married nonetheless, because that’s what they parents did, and their parents got married because earlier their parents got married. And so the official marriage (the institutionalized marriage) has become the default option.And thus two people living together without a marriage (the institutionalized marriage) seem weird to the majority of people who are officially married (although they, the majority never bothered to ask themselves why would they need it).
How important is lust in a marriage? Is friendship more important?
I'd like to marry my boyfriend, but I feel that we are very good friends and enjoy many of the same things, but I dont feel like we lust after each other all the time like in the movies. We have good sex when we have it but it's not all the time, maybe once or twice a week . . . is this not enough? Or is this a good thing? I find him attractive and he finds me attractive we just aren't going at it all the time. People are always shocked when I say that we dont have sex everynight. Are we suppossed to be tearing each others clothes off? We make each other laugh and hang out . . . is this a good foundation for marriage? or are we going to someday want some big lustful relationship???
Is 250k enough to have a decent wedding?
I guess that would depend on your social strata but for 250K I could have a stupendously wonderful wedding. If you have more than 300 guests in mind though it might be a little thin.
What causes a decent, well meaning woman to stray?
Nothing can make someone stray we are all in control of our own decisions and actions. She probably is a very nice person and although she may of strayed that does not make her less of a person. There would be underlining problems in there relationship that know one may be aware of unless you lived with them or they informed you of them themselves. Sometimes as we all know from experience when you are in the middle of a situation we tend not to be clear headed and this is when we may tend to make mistakes. A person does not have to be wild to make a mistake like this and being confused or blind does not make you a weak person. If this was true then it would be fair to say everyone is weak. The most common answer you hear for a person straying is that the person they strayed with had qualities that were missing in their relationship with their current partner. Personally I think that to stray it obviously does mean that there are problems in the relationship and that she is no longer in love with her husband. She may love him in someone but it is no longer true love or this would not have happened. You could even say she may care for him in different ways. But she does not care about their mariage and relationship. By all means I am not making excuses for her. At the end of the day honestly unless you were to talk to her you would not understand why she has done this. To keep a happy relationship/marriage there must be open communication, love, trust and respect.
At what age should a girl get married?
I think it is different for each person. A lot of people just rush off to get married and have kids but some people have different goals and motivation than others. I definitely feel that when you are ready you will know and when you meet that special someone you will definitely be ready. It's not that uncommon to be older and unwed, a lot of people are starting to wait until they are older to get married or have children.