I was led on and he broke my heart... any advice?
He led me on to the point where I am completely heart broken and breaking down. I did NOT sleep with him or do anything sexually, I'm smarter than that. I am 21 and he's 22. He's been single forever (never had a gf). He completely hurt me though and led me on and dumped me with NO explanation - he just dropped all contact. Should I ask him what the heck I did wrong or just forget about it? I'd really like to know what made him turn away from me so suddenly.
Good advice for a broken heart?
I went thru the same thing, I know how you feel, I still love my ex because he was my first love when I was 14 years old.. If this guy worth it, if he truly loves you, he will come back to you, If not, then he's not worth your tears. Be strong, do something different which it won't make you think of him a lot, enjoy life, spend time with some friends, don't listen to songs that makes you think of him, listen to something songs or music. I wish you the be$t of luck.
I broke a girl's heart, need advice.?
Ok so we've been going thru a rough week. We went on a "break" during the beginning of the week, in order for me to think about what I want. I was questioning the relationship the previous week, I got really quiet and was non responsive to everything. Anyways the girl was amazing, she had so much a love a guy could ask for. I just don't know if I wanted to be in a relationship because I felt I was losing myself as a person? I'm still confused as to why I got really quiet. We dated for a year and a half, I'm 18. Anyways friday; I told her I wanted to be with her. I convinced her but then on sunday, I could not sleep, so i called her up and told her that I am being a unfair person and that you have given me so much and I haven't done the same in return. I told her I have to find myself as a person. On friday I told her those things because I cared about her happiness. I love her very much and will always have a place in my heart for her Anyways she said I broke her heart because I lied to her from what I had said on friday and within 24 hours i had changed my mind. I feel like a total jerk; she wants to give me all the stuff I ever gave her back, she said our relationship was a lie. She said I broke her heart. Do you think she will forever hate me. I am a sucker for making people happy, even if I don't take care of myself first.
Best advice to give someone with a broken heart?
You have so much to offer the world. This was just another person. I'm almost done healing and time is your best friend so hang in there.