Anyone Else Have No Friends

Is anyone else unwillingly lonely with no friends?

Well I don't know if I am experienced enough to answer this question or not. I am 18 years old, just completed my 12, right now I have about 3 or 4 close friends by close I don't mean that kind of 'calling or chatting every time sharing everything sort of friendship' . Since vacation started we don't see each other often and I am not active on social media, so most of the time I am alone. And soon we all are gonna go separate ways, and I don't know if we will be able to keep our friendships.  Coming back to your question, yes I do feel lonely very often and how to deal with this? I am not sure but I deal with this by doing what I enjoy doing. I don't know about you but I love stories , reading, writing, I make up stories and when I feel really down, I sit down to write down about my life and my feelings. This might sound stupid but that's me, anyways I am sure you will be a completely different person and your likes and dislikes would be different. So just do what you love to do. and you won't feel lonely. And about making friends, I see that in your question you said you have tried harder than anyone else, let me give you a little advice, don't 'try to make friends', it just won't work. I made these friend during these last two years and trust me it just happened on its own. Till then LONELY was the word I used most often in my writings, I would sit in a corner of my classroom and study, study, study . I never took part in happy chit chats in classrooms or played all those cool games with others, no fun only me and my books. Friendship just happens slowly on its own. I don't know what you are doing right now maybe studying or working, try making conversations to people you like, help them if you can, if it is meant to be you will make friends without even knowing it. Other wise you can make friends in social networking sites where you can find like minded people. Very soon I will going to college, new place, new people, don't know what's in store for me, Loneliness or Friendship??? Best of Luck to both me and you...Hope this helps at least a tiny bit:)

Did anyone else have no friends in law school?

Yes. Initially, when I joined Law School, I had a group of amazing people whom I used to spend most of my time with. Two of them were hostelers, (since I was a hosteler myself, I would be with them more often) and the rest were day-scholars. Later on, towards the end of the semester, I realised, that there was something wrong. I could not connect to them, not even the ones staying in hostel. It so happened, that I was more inclined towards other activities and would start going back to my room, early. As the members of the group increased, the legitimacy decreased, and I felt more detached. I no longer spend time with them and usually stay alone, especially in the hostel. More often than not, my parents have asked me to make at least one friend here, but I prefer staying alone. I am more comfortable this way and I also feel that this is how I am going to be. In the college, although I talk to a few people, that's only for a limited hours. Back in hostel, I have my solitary life. I think, it is better this way. Opinions may vary, though.

I have no friends at all. Everyone else at college does and I feel like a freak. Why do people dislike me?

In college, you’ll meet people of two kinds. One whom you want to be with and the other who’d want to be with you. As humans, a lot of us fall in the former category because of the association and novelty it brings to us. In order to impress this group of individual(s), we drop our core strengths and run towards looking and becoming one of them to become a part of the cool flock. Since a lot of people at college feel that they are disliked themselves, they usually use arrogance and hatred as a treatment to make themselves feel protected.Everyone is a freak if you place them among sane individuals and vice versa. Find your niche, work towards it and you’d find yourself evolving as an individual consistently. When you grow while developing a skill, you’d see yourself becoming confident and less of a so-called freak. If there’s something absurd in you, try and harness it towards productivity. Absurdity might be the steam you could use to run your locomotive.I realized a lot of people disliked me was because I got too friendly too easily and lost my respect along with it. Keep yourself at a higher stance and do what you feel is most suitable for you. Don’t go out of the way to make people like you, if they don’t, you can ignore and interact with others in the process.

Is being lonely sad? I have no friends. Am I a bad person?

Did you know that in Korea,people are recording themselves while having dinner? And people are actually paying to watch these videos! Is this another sign of loneliness creeping up on all of us?Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experience a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation.Being lonely doesn't mean you are bad person but yes the feeling of loneliness is quite sad when you don't have anyone to talk with.If you have no friends, it feels like you will be lonely for life.Of course, that's not true.You can still make new friends, even you find yourself in a situation with no friend in sight. This happens when you move to a new city,break up with someone that was your only friend and lover,or make important changes in your lifestyle.If you want to overcome loneliness ask yourself what is the number one important thing in your life.If you have been feeling lonely, the answer might be I want friends, or boyfriend girlfriend more than I want anything else.But I want to tell you that you don't actually want that.What you really want is mental peace and happiness more than anything else,and you happen to think that a friend or a lover will give you that happiness.Do you know when you were a child,why were you happy?. Not because you got everything you wanted,but because you didn't have the thoughts that creates suffering.Just because the people around you don't like you,it doesn't mean you are not the right fit.You are fine as you are until a story tries to convince you in your imagination that you are not.Go spend a few hours on your own right now.