My friend treats me like crap?
I've been through what you are going through. I think nearly everybody has been through it. There's always a person that's "supposedly" your friend, but you just hate how they treat you and even when you confront them about it they think you are joking. Look. The thing you need to do is put your foot down and say to her.. " I need to talk to you. I am being serious i hate the way you treat me. I feel like **** when you do .... whatever it is that you hate. Tell her straight up that if she does not change you are going to leave her and make sure you mean it. If after all this she still does not change you can leave her without regrets, because you are the one that made the effort. You are probably young and the thought of being alone scares the crap out of you but trust me in the end its better to have maybe even one real friend than a bunch of "friends" that you feel like crap with. Trust me. Maybe this was just a misunderstanding. Really putting your foot down telling her YOU ARE NOT JOKING and confronting her will put all this into perspective, for both of yous. Lol.. you just added more details so.. more advice.. haha If after telling her all this she's still immature stop speaking to her altogether until she really straightens up her act and proves that she's worth being your friend again. Oh and since no-one likes her and you obviously don't care if you're her friend or not then it should be easy for you to get her out of your life. It's good that you aern't just following everyone. Good luck!!
My ex boyfriend and i are friends, but he still treats me like his girlfriend.I still in love with him?
We dated for about a year, we broke up because we always fought. He told me that he wants to be my friend because he misses me, but he coud never be in love with me again. After six months of the break up ,we ran into each other and he talk to me and I can still feel the conection between us. We are physically attracted to each other to the max! After that night,I send him an email about catching up and he accepted. We had a blast to the point that he kissed me and told me how much he loved me but we fought to much. We didn't sleep that night, but eventually we did. After that he was calling and we where hanging out and everything was going well until his friends found out about us hanging out too much, he became that cold person again and told me that I needed to realize that we were not getting back together and that we just needed to be friends and apologize for hooking up.That I needed to move on. I am mad because everything was going well. I don't feel like I want to be his friend
My friend is very rude to me and treats me like an idiot but he’s connected to a lot of my other friends. What should I do?
Let me tell you a little story.Some years ago, my husband made a new group of friends. I met them all and liked them, but one friend disliked me intensely. He was often mocking and rude to me whenever I tagged along. (They got together regularly, and I went with them every once in a while just to be nice.)Was I annoyed? Hell yes. But I made sure not to let it show.I treated him with courtesy. I ignored his gibes, or laughed politely as if I thought it was supposed to be a joke. I let it go.Fast forward to now.I’m close friends with more than half of the group and hang out with them myself, with or without my husband. The group doesn’t get together very often so I don’t join them anymore.So my advice is to maintain your dignity. Don’t stoop to his level. Treat him with basic good manners and let time take care of the rest.
My Ex and I are best friends, but we still hold hands and tell each other that we love each other.?
If he makes you happy and you are fine with the situation that you are in, then thats all that matters. You have probably heard this before but if your friends are giving you guff about something that really make you happy then you need to talk to them about your choice to be in this kind of relationship. All that really matters is your happiness. and if you ever get tired of your friend ex-boyfried treating you in such a fashion, you have to love yourself enough to tell him what you want. I hope that I have helped.
Getting over an ex , who treated you bad?
How do you get over someone who was not great to you in the first place . He was horrible to me , very emotional draining relationship, He always said he was my friend , but how do you treat your friend like a prostitute and the get worked up when they dont want to be with you or be your friend. I truelly cared about him and deep down thought he was a good person . But i am very hurt and very angry and hate him and myself even more for have wasted time on some who so me just as a booty call. He friend s where not the most positive people either, they into drugs and all claim they just want to sleep around and have fun . He tries to get me to hang out but i wont do it , i just cant seem to get over him
If someone treat u so cruel would u even want to be a friend of there any longer?
if the treat u cruel then they r not ur friends 2 begin with.
My ex has treated me horribly ever since she dumped me, yet in my mind I’ve forgiven her and I still want to be her friend, why is this?
You’re a big person with a mature heart. All the good qualities that made you fall in love with her haven’t gone away because you split up and you can still appreciate them. It takes so much effort to hold a grudge, letting go and moving on is the healthiest way. There may also be an element of wanting her to remain in your life because you want her back someday but only you would know that. I don’t understand people who think “ex” means “enemy.” It doesn’t have to be that way. Props to you.
Why does my boyfriend treat me like this?
Well, my boyfriend have been dating for nearly 8 months, which I know isn't a long time, but that's besides the point. He never does anything special for me, unless it's to keep me from complaining. He's not especially nice to me, and he tells people to hit me, jokingly of course, but still. A week ago, I asked him if he wanted to go to a movie, and he said yes, but then, after an hour of me getting ready, he calls me and tells me he can't go, because he was supposed to hang with with his friend yesterday, so he has to hang out with him. So, for the past week, we have been planning to go to a movie, but hadn't had time. Tonight, we were both free, but he tells me he made plans to hang out with his friend (that day). So I asked him why he just doesn't call his friend and tell him what he told me when we couldn't go to the movie, that we'd been planning to go to the movie for a week so he didn't want to ditch me, but he wouldn't. Also, he never shows me affection in front of people. He doesn't sit by me on the couch unless I ask him to. He doesn't stick up for me and picks on me with his brother. He treats me more like a sister than a girlfriend. He also seems to not care if we'd break up. He also doesn't get jealous. My ex and I hang out sometimes, because we are good friends. (I am not at all interested in him like that anymore) and he doesn't even care. And I realize that it's good that he doesn't get jealous, but even his brother gets mad for hanging out with my ex. He's really inconsiderate too. And he treats his friend better than me. He always asks his friend if he wants anything and is really considerate and nice to him but not me. Why doesn't he act like he cares? Please and thank you.