Are my parents allowed to do this?
I’m a sixteen year old girl and I’m tired of my parents treating me like they do. My parents don’t allow me to have go out, have friends or do anything I like. I quit drawing because they wouldn’t stop telling me drew too much and they won’t even let me read! I can’t have friends online or offline, when I go to school I have to come straight back home, if I go to the other side I get beat up.I have anxiety and I’m forced to go to a psychologist I hate because my parents told her “their side of the story” where they tell her that I don’t *want* to go out and that I shout at them and spend all day on my computer, which is all true except I shout at them when they hit me, I spend all day on my computer because I have nothing else to do because they won’t let me and I don’t want to go out because I can only go shopping with my mum and she’ll buy me clothes she likes and not anything I want and also scold me for how my hair looks, how I walk or anything bad I did ages ago and I can’t tell this to anyone because my psychologist will make me cry before I ever get the chance. Now they even take away my keyboard and mouse so I don’t even have the only good thing in my life anymore. And what do I do instead? I have to just sit there all day because computers are bad and I shouldn’t be playing games online because I’m a girl and girls shouldn’t be like this, girls are not even human in their eyes, girls have to look perfect and never get angry and be able to cook everything. And if I clean she’ll always find imperfections and say I’m worthless.We’ve also had the police at my house a couple of times and they just tell me I’m ill-mannered and my parents can do anything they want to me until I’m eighteen.I’m not saying I’m the best child, I get very angry at my parents. But they don’t show any respect for me as a human being… Today my mum took away my mouse and we fought and she broke all three of the ones I had and I’m here typing this with an old keyboard… I know physical and verbal abuse is wrong but I can’t tell anyone about it, I don’t want to ruin my life and lose my parents because they at least give me food, even though they tell me I eat too much when I’m eating cereal all day because my mum won’t cook for me because I don’t do anything for for her.Apart from hitting me and calling me names and shouting at me, is this right? Are my parents allowed to do this because I’m underage and their child?
Are parents allowed to look through your phone?
He is your dad and pay for everything you have, I bet even for your phone. So yes he is allow to do it but it is not the right thing to do. He only wants to protect you. Delete the conversations which you feel is to private,. When you allow him a few peek previews and he sees that you just up to girly stuff, he will not bother you anymore. The curiosity is killing the old man! Explain to him the password is so that other mean people can not put stuff or ugly photos of you on your account because your friends and family will think it is you who posted it. Parents is not stupid and once you explain it to him, he will understand. You are still his little girl. My 23 year old son died a few weeks ago and now on his facebook, his friends revealed a pleasant, party side of him which was not known by me or his dad. Even at age 23 he was my baby angel. So let your dad see a side of you he longs for. He loves you and that is the only reason he is doing it.
Are my parents allowed to hit me?
Ok, so i get home i eat. I go to bed and i read a book (the books my friends not mine.. and i have ti read because no tv no vid games no internet..). My mom gets home...yelling as usual... shes like go wash your clothes. I keep reading. (my bad...) she takes my book and says your not geting it back till you clean the house. (wtf 1 min clothes 2min = whole house...) i tae the book back and she gets mad. She takes the book from my hand and hides it. she then says IMA CALL THE COPS (they are like 30 feet from our house) She comes back 30 min later while im in her room looking for the book . shes like get out. wait i need the bo- SLAP im like what the f is wrong with you- SLAP i get pissed off and make things worst i go back there with an ipod in my hand recording (she doesnt know) and record her slapping me again. (she slapped me like 10 times in all) somehow when im leaving with my cheeks swollen and red she notices the ipod and trys to take it from my hand. i hold on to it tightly she takes it away and i hear a crack ipod broke. Then my step dad went in and pushed me out. my mom then comes into my room.. aka the living room. and she yells at me to do god knows what and slaps me again and i do the stupidest thing i could.... i ask her to slap me again. BAD IDEA i knoe... so she slaps me like 10 more times and then goes to her room. So my face puffy and red who was being the B30!(h
Are parents allowed in the VIT hostel?
Yes parents are allowed to enter the building but they should only sit in the lobby and not roam in the corridors or check the rooms. This is the scenario during normal days, but at the time of admission in the hostel i.e first day of student joining the hostel, the parents aren't allowed to enter the building premises.
Are parents allowed to hit their children?
A spanking or a smack on the hand and such is legal in the United States. The only time Child Protective Services will show concern is if the spankings leave bruises. I am told, but I have no proof that in Germany (where I am working) that they are not allowed to hit their children. So, it really depends on your location I suppose. So far I've never had to resort to it. A stern voice, taking away privileges, and such work for my kids. I have two ten year olds and a toddler. I have been beat by my parents as a child.. I know very well what abuse is. A pop on the butt is not abuse. It's a disciplinary thing that should only be used when NOTHING else works or the child was in some sort of danger.. like running into the street or something and the child already knows NOT to do it. I feel a lot of parents use spankings too willingly and too quickly when there were simpler options that work a lot better. The problem with doing spanking too soon is that it actually teaches the kid that violence is okay. If the parent does something the child doesn't like the child will actually hit the parent.. and then what? The parent hits back? That doesn't work it just reinforces the whole it's okay to hit thing. That is why if it can be avoided it should be. Most kids go through the hitting phase... and when they do the best way to handle it is grab their hand tell them "We don't hit." They continue remove the child briefly from any people. Lesson will be much more effective and easier to receive than to hit the child because the child hit you.
Are my parents allowed to take my stuff legally?
Well the money that they gave you (if its not a gift ) is theirs. If it was a gift it's yours now. For the laptop it is yours since it was a gift from your mother. The other game systems you bought with personally money is yours as well and you can take her to court with the reciepts if she decides to take them from you. Just because you are under 18 does not mean all of your belongings belong to her.
Are parents allowed to take away their kids money?
yes they can. Since you are not an adult you have no legal rights to it. sorry.
Are parents allowed in SRM hostels?
Yes, parents are allowed in boys hostel.In girls hostel, only the female family members can visit the hostel. Male family members are not allowed in girls hostel (They can only stay at the reception).
Are parents allowed to charge their kids rent?
What legal responsibilities do I have as a parent? As a parent you have two major responsibilities. They are: to support your child by providing him or her with the necessities of life; and to supervise and control your child. What are the necessities of life? The necessities of life are more than just food, shelter, and clothing. They also include medical care, an education, and legal help when required. NOTE: Your failure to provide the necessities of life for your child may lead to your criminal prosecution for neglect. 1. The right to custody and control over your child essentially means that as a parent you can make the important decisions about your child's life. That is you, as a parent, can decide: where your child will live, with whom he or she will live, what he or she will do from day to day, what school he or she will attend, when he or she needs medical care, and what, if any, religion he or she will practice. Sources - http://www.teenparents.org/prr.html
Are parents allowed to stay at IITM hostels?
A2AYes, father can stay in boys hostel and mother in girls hostel. There's a guest room in all the hostels. With permission from hostel office they can stay with a charge of Rs.300 per day.Other option is to stay in taramani guest house. But they get fillled really soon, so book room atleast 2 months before coming. You can check availability of rooms online beforehand online.