If me and my girlfriend had a baby and we are only 15, can her dad take the right away from me to see her and my child and could he force her to get an abortion?
Her father has no rights over the child, unborn or born. The choice to abortion or birth is entirely the choice of the parents, irrelevant of their age. grandparents can not govern the rights of their grandchild unless they have been given guardianship by the parents or a legal entity.In most Western nations the father can not be denied rights to his child unless he is deemed a danger to the children. if the child’s grandfather does this then you (or your own parents on your behalf) can easily challenge it in court.If your girlfriend is being forced to have an abortion then it becomes a child welfare issue and police or welfare agencies can get involved.I recommend approaching your local family planning centre for advice on how to proceed, they do not just provide abortion facilities, they also provide facilities to help those not wanting an abortion. If you do not have access to such, then also approach legal authorities such as the police, who should react by sending someone such as an officer or psychologist to investigate the situation. At the very least they can direct you to someone who can help.make sure to get your parents involved… hopefully they can act as an intermediary for you with your girlfriend’s father.
What Do You Do If Your Sons Girlfriends Dad Threatens Him?
My son is 12 years old and he is a wonderful little boy but is at a curious age where he is starting to have girlfriends with kids at school. He came home upset tonight saying his girlfriends dad threatened him because he was 'holding her hand' her dad said that if he saw my son touch his daughter again there will be trouble. I understand parents cant let go but she is only 13 and he is only 12 it was just innoncent holding hands. I did not loose my temper and go round I have just told my son he can do whatever he pleases and if he does start trouble he is to tell me or ask him to come round and see me. But its still making me feel like i should do something else but what?
When should dad's girlfriend get to meet baby?
I know it's a sticky situation, but if you will be leaving your baby with the father for any length of time you may want to meet this girlfriend because she will most likely be helping to take care of the child. You just have to put your feelings aside for a minute, I know it's hard meeting her and facing him, but you want to know who will be watching your child, right? My parents divorced when I was 6 years old (so it's a bit different), but my Dad remarried shortly there after (7 months!) and my mom wanted to meet my new step-mom since she would be a part of my life, my step-mom refused and it's been a whole big drama since then. I can understand all sides of the situation, but it would probably make you feel better to know who is there with your baby. :) Good luck!! **** edit **** Whoa, I just re-read your question. Is this the FIRST time the father is meeting your child? Is he going to have some sort of visitation or joing custody? Maybe you should take it one step at a time. Let HIM meet your baby, but hold off on the girlfriend for now until you find out if she will be a more permenant part of his life - no reason for you to have to go through all that stress if she isn't sticking around!
MY GIRLFRIEND still Texting Her baby Daddy ...?
My girlfriend has a kid and i ve been with her for like 4 months now ... an out of those four months she been texting/talking to her ex (baby daddy) ... Once her friend Sniched on her an told me that she was texting Him ... Then me being stupid i forgave her ... She promised me an all this **** that she doesnt Text him or what ever ... But this morning i checked her transaction history on her phone and she text him all night long ... so i broke up with her .. but now she begs me an promises me that it wont happen again just like the 1st time ... what do u guys think i should do>?? i like this girl we had plans on moving out ....
Should a child call dads girlfriend MOM.?
I have a 3 year old step son and i have been with his dad for almost 2 years. He doesnt see his mom very often and has been calling me mommy for a year now. we never made him call me it, he just chose to. his mom knows and she is ok with it. he calls me mommy and her mom. I think it depends on the child on weather or not they want to call the women by her name or not, dont force them. they will do what feels right to them
What should I do about my girlfriend and her baby's father arguing on the phone?
I am really concerned. I have never seen my girlfriend cry like that and arguing back and forth with her baby's father. Just looking at her and seeing her actually go through the motions of crying and being really sad afterwards made me feel weak because I didn't know whether to keep my mouth shut or say something. I wanted to comfort her and be there for her but I don't know what to do. I don't like to see her hurting because when she hurts I'm hurt too. When she's sad I am also sad. So that's one of my weaknesses for her. You understand. So what should I do? Should I just see back and let her handle everything and speak my voice? I really need mature answers. I don't want no youngins.....seriously
Im 16 and my girlfriend is pregnant?
I'm sorry to say but you have no right over what she does with her belly. Her body her choice you aren't carrying it. This is what sex brings if you're not ready for the responsibility maybe you shouldn't do that act. It's her choice and it is a hard one, DO NOT PRESSURE HER. She'll hate you later for it and she'll have emotional problems. If she's just talking to them than you have nothing to worry about. The one thing i hate about certain men is the minute they find out their girl is pregnant they are on it to say its not theirs. Don't do that unless you've got proof she was with other men. So in the end its her call not yours sorry.
My girlfriend was trying to make it work with her baby's father. She admitted she made a mistake. What do I do?
And this is the point in your life where you politely bow out of the whole thing.Let’s be frank about this, you were dating, then she decided to ditch you, as you were not obviously as important as her “trying” to be with her son’s father. Surely, an option that must have had you thrilled. Then after 5 weeks she is now asking to come back to you and your 3 month relationship?Furthermore, about them not touching or sleeping together, well, I would take that with a grain of salt. I mean, what is she supposed to tell you? “Oh, I am not into now him but we fucked a few times? Just to see if the attraction was still there.”I mean, that is included in the whole “making it work with her son’s father,” sentiment. Now, perhaps they have not been intimate but common wisdom is that most people would gloss over that fact when asking another man to take them back. Just sayin’Anyway, remember that you would be not just dating her. You would be dating her AGAIN after a short 3 month relationship with a woman, who left you, who has a kid AND has the baby’s daddy in the nearby peripheral.That is WAY too much drama for something that should be so simple. At this point, in the 4 month of a relationship you would be in the middle of the Honeymoon stage having a blast getting to know each other and being silly. Instead you are looking at this.I do not say this often, but for what you have written, I would suggest that you run, not walk out of that whole situation. For your sake.Good luck.
I don't want my ex boyfriend's girlfriend around my child.Am I wrong?
I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years while I was pregnant because I found out he was cheating on me with another girl.This girl is always around and I don't want her anywhere near my daughter. So now I don't leave my daughter alone with her dad simply because I want to make sure that his new girlfriend doesn't come around my baby.Am I being selfish?