I like my best friend's crush?
Okay so my best friend has had a crush on this 18 year old guy like forever. They message each other every day. They talk about sex and stuff like that sometimes but he hasn't admitted to liking her, even though she's told him she likes him. I went to my friend's acting audition because her and her crush are both actors and they were auditioning for a play. She introduced us and he is sooooo beautiful. I never thought I'd like him. Later that night my best friend and her crush were talking and he said, "By the way. Anna should be a model. She's stunning." And I had never been called stunning before so. And then she replied saying "Ana. And right? I've told her that more than once." And he said, "Well sorry I didn't know how to spell her name. Her beauty made me dumb." Later it was apparent that my friend was mad at her crush for thinking I was attractive and he said it wasn't like he expected anything to happen. I cannot get him out of my mind and I feel like such a ****** up person for liking my best friend's crush. I would never want to hurt my friend but I've been having a lot of sexual and relationship type thoughts about him. What if he did expect something to happen between us? I'm not sure I would turn him down and that really scares me. He's like my ideal man. I don't want a love triangle. I just wish I could be open about my crush with him and her. What should I do?
All I did was text my best friend's crush, help!?
I'm a freshman and one of my really good friends is a junior. She liked this junior for 8 months. However, at a football game I was third wheeling with them because I thought he liked her and they were being flirty. Then he dm'd me on twitter and got my snapchat name. We then began to snapchat and she found out. She told me to just not respond and I was like okay, but really I didn't think I was doing anything wrong so I still did it. We weren't that flirty with each other but we were. Then he kept asking for my number but I had to keep saying no because that wouldn't be right. Then, he got it from his friend and started texting me for not even 24 hours. We went out for lunch so that I could tell her but when she read between our messages she flipped out. I apologized and told her I was going to tell her today but she got really upset and mad. I texted her saying I'm sorry but never got a response. What should I do? Did I really do anything wrong? Helppppp!
I like my best friend's crush...help!?
my best friend likes this guy, and i was always like "aww...how cute!" she never talks to him and i don't either. he's in my homeroom (gym) and well here's the story. we get to pick where we sit on the benches, and we were all sitting, (he was sitting across the room) and then, he gets up and squishes next to me! i was like "uh..." and scooted over to the other side. he scooted closer. i kept scooting, then i fell off. but anyway, he's done that a couple times before. he also does this "pass it on thing" where he squeezes my thy. it tickles and i always jump, and he laughs, but i turn bright red. he'd then smile. my friend's convinced he likes me...and she's really sad. i keep telling her he doesn't, but she doesn't believe it. and the weird thing is... i've started kinda liking him too. i'm doing everything i can not to, i don't want to hurt my best friend, but i can't help it. i didn't tell her, and i'm not planning to either. what should i do!?!?
My crush likes my ex-best friend. Help!?
So my crush is like the shy type, and my ex friend (drama and other things went on. We're not fighting but were not really friends) is the type to flirt anyone. And I thought she was still dating her boyfriend but I guess not anyways, she and my other friend (she still my friend. We're pretty close) started hanging out with him and his friends. Now their close and they tease each other. I mean I'm not that jealous. I really aren't but still. She won't tell us (my best friend is still her friend and me and my ex friend still talk on text) since she close to him and she gained his trust. She would tell us anything. She's sorta a gossiper so this surprises us, so I'm pretty sure they like each other.... Help...
I have a crush on my best friend. What should I do?
You’ve caught feelings for your best friend. Now what? Do you ignore it to preserve the fridship? Or do you take a chance and tell them? Growing romantic feelings often become hard to ignore if not addressed head-on, and when a friendship is involved, a crush can feel like nothing but an inconvenience. Telling your long-time friend that you have feelings for them is risky business, so here are some questions to consider:If you do tell him/her, do you have legitimate reason to believe that your long standing friendship will be ruined?Will not telling him/her continue to eat you alive?If you tell him/her and you’re rejected, will you be able to accept it and move on with the friendship as is? Will they?If you tell him/her, hey admit mutual feelings and want to start a relationship, are you both willing to accept the risk that if something goes wrong, your friendship will likely face permanent damage?If you and your friend have a long history, you probably have very little to lose by telling them, even if the outcome is not what you hope for. After many years, you both probably value the friendship enough to not let a little crush ruin it. However, be prepared for anything. If you know the risks and decide to spill the beans, remember that they are first and foremost your best friend. Don’t back them into a corner. Don’t pressure them. Don’t give ultimatums. If they don’t share your feelings, respect it, and accept that there is little to nothing you can do to change their mind. Make sure they know that no matter what, you will still value their companionship just as it is.
My Crush asked my best friend out. Help!!?
Well stay his friend whether he knows you like him or not, thats just not something you should let get in the way of friendship, If I were you I'd go back to the old times and hang out more become really close agian, and drop a few hints here or there dont atomatically come out and say it, if he likes you give it time and he'll come around expecially if he starts picking up on your hints, from what I've heard he does like you...give it time if its meant to be...it will happen let fate take it into its own hands. Hope it helps :)
I have a crush on my best friend, but he's asked me to help him ask out my other best friend. What should I do?
I've been through this. I had a crush on my best friend but he liked my other best friend. I decided not to help him, and, instead, tell him how I felt. He was okay with my feelings and we stayed friends. He ended up liking me and we went out for a short time. Now, while it is not important now, months ago, my 13 year old self was proud of this achievement. Now 14, I have other achievements I am proud of. What I am saying is, if you really like him, you should tell him, because you could be missing out on something. Later on, it won't be so important, but it is right now, and you need to live for now, and don't dwell so much on the future.
Should I talk to my crush’s best friend?
What do you want to talk to the friend about?Because if you want to find out if the girl has a boyfriend or crush tread carefully.If you wanted to ask how she has been doing then do it.I always like it when boys go out of their way to see how I'm doing. When they take a step out of their comfort zone to talk to me. Or to my friend.But I can easily find it creepy. Think about key points you want to talk to the friend about. Don't write out a script because that can backfire very easily. Start with small talk and then inquire about your crush. Stop when you feel like the direction the conversation is going is bad.Like if the friend starts being cold or rude. Salty dare I say.I hope I helped. I might go more into detail if you ask for more info on other stuff but I need to do something right now. Feel free to ask of me anytime. I will try to help out.
How do I help my friend to move on her crush?
Short answer is if you want to keep being her friend you shouldn't do anything.Crushes are a natural part of life- everyone has ‘em. And the last thing you should do is something bad that could ruin your relationship just to get over a crush.Just tell her that you're not interested. And she should respect that.As bad as you feel, you need to remember that unrequited feels for another person is that way is also a part of life.