My only best friend found her self a new best friend?
So about 2 years ago me and my friend lets call her F so F and I had our own little group we would always hang out with A,C,E, but later on when we got separated because of different teacher me and F we were bffs like always but in 5 grade she talked crap about them saying there so immature and in 6 th grade they were in our class she stillsaid bad things but one day she left me to be with them we moved desks and she sat with E she never told me if I wanted to be her partner Me and my new friend J sat in one table just us F loves them but in particular she is best friends with E. I told her my feelings but she didn't care she acts like she was always friends with them she changed she tries to make me jealous because she posts things about her new bestfriend saying thanks for always be there for me on pintrest. What do I do
My best friend found a new best friend?
ok well my best friend has recently found a new best friens (this new one is on of my friends) and they have been getting closer because my best friend and i tried to make our schedules match for scool but my BFF's got changed so she changed it to match her new best friends. ever since then she NEVER invites me anywhere and her and her new best friend are starting to hang out a lot more and leaving me out. my best friend use to sit by me in our classes and talk to me all the time but now-a-days, wherever her new BFF goes she just HAS to follow and leave me out. some other people in my group have came up to me and asked what happened between us like if we are in a fight and we arent! she also has been a LOT mean-er (haha idk how to spell) one time i was talkig to me friend C*** about a test and asking what she got cause i did good and wanted to kno who else did good too! i wasnt going to mention what i got and i barely finished when my BFF yelled "OMG! WE ALL KNOW YOU DID GOOD! STOP BRAGGING!!" and she just flipps out like that over nothing and i wasnt even talking to her at all!! im trying to make new friends but its haard because my school is small.and recently ive been feeling very left. any suggestions on how to deal with this?
What would you do if your best friend found another best friend for themselves?
I’m not really sure about what I would do but that would definitely hurt my heart and soul. It would be like seeing an ex lover being happy with somebody else or not getting the promotion at work because someone got it. It would feel like losing someone so important even when they didn’t die. You just lost them.I would simply self reflect. I would try to figure it out when and where things went wrong. Was it my fault? Did I do something? I would blame myself I guess. But then, I would realize that somewhere along the way, our connection was lost and we didn’t do anything to get it back. Maybe our dreams and goals are not the same anymore. Maybe our habits change. Maybe we both changed and grew apart. Reasons may vary but at the end of the day, you knew you lost each other.Just like breaking up with an ex lover, I need to move. At first, I would feel miserable and jealous of the new bestfriend. I would resent her for replacing me with someone else. But eventually, I’ll accept it. I’ll be moving on. The scar she left me would cause me not to trust people again. I just hope time really heals.
What should I do? My best friend found a new good friend who is not my friend.
It's evident that you are quite insecure about losing your friend, that's why you’ve asked this question. In my opinion, you should not do anything. There's no need of it. Now you'd ask, “Why?” because, just like you, your best friend also considers you his best friend, isn't it? He would never let that friend come in between your friendship (if he truly considers you his best friend). True relationships are strong enough to handle every hardship and this is nothing in comparison to that. But, in spite of that, if your friend does say that you are not his best friend anymore, at some point, you can't do anything to change his perspective because a relationship requires the willingness of both persons to survive. Yes, there are problems, misconceptions, etc., but both persons need to row the paddles of a boat in order to reach the shore. In the end, the conclusion is that you don't need to fret just because of the addition of a new friend in his life because if he values you as much as you value him, nothing will come in between you two. But if he thinks that you are his best friend for quite a while and he needs a new best friend, you can do nothing to prevent that.
I miss my ex-best friend :(?
I and my best friend are mad on each other for about 6 months and we still don't talk.I got mad on her for real reason and she got mad on me because of that..Now she has a new 'best friend',and everywhere she is writing that she loves her very much or something like that..They do stuffs together,go out,go shopping,the same thing I did with her when we were friends..It hurts me because it seems that she forget me and all things we do...Also when we are alone,she try to talk to me,she found something just to be close to me...I don't know what she is thinking,does she miss me like I did or she just don't bother??heelp
What would you do if you found out your best friend is gay?
Why do I have to do anything? They're gay, so what?
My best friend has a NEW bestfriend...?
well my bestfriend (lets just call her hannah) has found a totally new best friend and it rrly peevs me off bc we were the closest two best friends ever! and everyone knew tht... we were like two peas in a pod i guess.. we told each other EVERYTHING!!!! literally.. if we had a prob, we would go to each other and we knew everything about each other... and hannah is rrly dramatic so she rrly had probs and she always came to me for advice.. all the time!!!!! a few months ago, hannah and i had a feud about a lil thing and we both have talked about it and have agreed to go past it and move forward... and we have talked about this alot too. hannah was the one who came forward to me about moving on and being bffs again so we have! so lately, hannah has gone off w/ another one of my friends (lets call her julie)... hannah and julie have started to become rrly close... soooooo close tht they leave me out... on everything... hannah never tells me anything, always invites julie everywhere but not me, they have inside jokes now (which hannah and i used to have), and they r unseperable.. and julie is my friend too so its kinda weird when they both talk about stuff and i have no clue wht they r talking about... julie is now like my clone for hannah.. and its rrly annoying considering tht used to b me who she went to advice for and everything? and wht peevs me off the most is tht hannah now ASKS julie if she shud tell me about a secret of HER OWN INFRONT OF ME!!! she did this recently and i wanted to say "well if you have to ask julie then its ok. i dont want to know." but i never said tht... and she never ended up telling me neways... another thing is tht im the most trusted person out of many of my friends bc ive been told so as well and i never tell ANY secrets no matter how bad pple bug me to spill... so its not tht she doesnt trust me? i just dont get y hannah is acting tht way... ive tried to ignore it and move on to other friends as well but it still bugs me? we were bestfriends.. practically sisters. help!!!!
Is it wrong that I am feeling bad because my best friend found a new best friend that they treat better?
Awh, ouch.They’ve hit it off, and you’re feeling left out.Because you are left out.And you want to be treated well.And the new friend is getting treated better than you’ve been treated.That was your best friend.Ouch.It’s not wrong to feel hurt.It does hurt.It may also feel good seeing your friend happy.So that’s confusing!Hate to say it, but your best friend doesn’t feel as strongly about the friendship as you did.You can improve your friendship by letting go, respect your friend’s shift.Make yourself new friends. Stay upbeat and your old friend may circle back into your life more. When that happens, greet them warmly. When they do something that feels like you’re being treated well , tell them that you love it when they _________. (Fill in the blank.)If they start not treating you well, tell them it doesn’t feel good and you’re going home. You’ll see them around.People know what we like only by us telling them. And they’re more likely to repeat those things to see us smile.We’re friends with people because it feels good to be around them.Right now it’s not feeling good for you to be around your former bestie. So find people it does feel good to be around!Best!
How to get over losing your best friend?
We'd been best friends since we were 7 or 8. We always did everything together. We were so close. When we were 15 something really bad happened to me, and I tried to talk to her about it, but she just turned her back on me and called me a liar. She was so selfish and kept hurting me from that day on. I'm now 18 and I still can't 'get over it'. She's moved on, very clearly. She has a new best friend, who I know and she's a good friend of mine too. I've got a new best friend and he's amazing, far more than she ever was. Is it normal that I'm still not over it?
My best friend is making new friends which is making me jealous. Is it normal? Am I wrong in getting jealous?
Your best friend getting to know more people is called Networking.Networking is a skill which not every one has and doesn't come into us naturally in most of the cases. We need to carefully look into the aspects of things and develop that, provided we find a serious need for that. It is surely good and 'civilized' human nature to be networked and continuously keeping all the relationships active.So, you feeling jealous - is actually pointing you to an area you can improve. Now, feeling jealous by itself cannot be removed from you, but what you can to do either reason out - as "that is ok, I dont need those friends" OR as "that is good for me to also learn. Let me ask my friend to introduce them also to me, to learn more networking" is purely your call !Good luck :)!