What should I do about my boyfriend’s best friend that keeps trying to break us up?
This is an incredibly difficult situation.What I think you should do is really examine your relationship, and the other relationships you share with your bf. It’s entirely possible to love a bf, and realize that you don’t get along with anybody else in his sphere. So look carefully. How about his other friends? How about his family? How about your family? Do your family and friend care for and embrace your bf as your partner?You may realize that it’s you and your bf, and everybody else doesn’t really fit. This situation doesn’t bode well for long term relationship happiness. Life is impossible to live in a bubble, especially once you’re living together. Not getting along with family and friends is a red flag, not to be ignored.The other problem is that your bf isn’t telling his friend to knock it off. He isn’t standing up for you and the relationship. This is also problematicIf I’ve analyzed the situation correctly, it looks like you have two red flags to figure out.
My boyfriend admitted to masturbating to celebrities?
My boyfriend and I were watching the movie Black Swan a few weeks ago, I knew before watching the movie that he had always thought Mila Kunis and Natalie Portman were hot because hes told me so before but I never really cared or thought about it.. until now.. (because I asked) he admitted to me because of a certain Scene in the movie he thought about the two women with him wile Masturbating. Let me also state that we have a long distance relationship and we found ways to spend time together by watching movies over the phone on the internet.. also because we live so far apart and hardly get to see each other because of his school we have used the phone to be intimate with each other yet lately in the last couple months he has turned me down or not instigated "phone sex"... and come to find out he's been doing it on his own..(Not only to these to but other women as well) I know masturbation is normal I myself do it on my own now because of his lack of interest. (I can only think of him because sex is more to me then just "getting off" even if I try to think of someone else it just becomes him because I am emotionally connected to him it turns me on more).. But I feel really hurt inside knowing that not only is he doing it on his own and rather not hear me doing it with him but that he now is thinking of having sex with other women to turn him on.. I understand men think about other women and its not an emotional connection.. for most cases.. and I honestly believe if he and I had a more intimate connection more often, (even over the phone till we can be together again.) This wouldn't bother me as much.. Now for the past few days its all I can think about, worrying who he is thinking about when I'm not talking to him. It has made me anxious, paranoid, very sad and not only that rejected because his lack of our intimate conversations. Should I feel like this or try to find away to get over it? I have spoken to him about how it makes me feel and he told me hes sorry but he docent enjoy being that way with me over the phone anymore, yet it will be a while till we see each other again and even longer till he is out of school and we can live together. I might add he docent help now by making jokes about it for example: He didn't know Natalie Portman was having a baby and he said "No she isn't, please tell me you're lying.. I used a condom.. Thinking its funny, knowing how much it bothers me..
My ex boyfriend and I hung out and ended up having sex, what does this mean?
Heres what happened... He broke up with me about a month ago because he "wanted to be single for a while" and insisted we stay "best friends" or whatever and has talked to me almost every day, like we always do. We hung out yesterday and it was weird cause like the sparks were flying haha. We ended up "wrestling" and when I pinned him to the ground he kissed me it was so cute. But then the kiss got more heated and it pretty much led to sex haha. Except for the first time it was really romantic and he held my hand the whole time and told me he loved me so much afterward. After that we wrestled again and were talking and he wrapped his arms around me from behind and kissed me on the cheek. THEN he started tickling me and it was like we had a moment again cause he looked into my eyes and smiled then kissed me.. long and like passionate haha. except in the middle of that kiss i started to tickle him and he walked away for a second and laughed and was like "you ruined the moment" and i said come back let me fix it and he kissed me more and it was like perfect. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!? does he really still love me? I thought he broke up with me so what does this mean????
How to kiss my best guy friend for the first time!?
Ok so me and my friend B hav been super close we r both freshman in hs, and have gone to the same scool for 9 years, our class was super close he went to a different hs then me but this weekend us and some friends went to a football game together. the whole time he was talking to me a ton and we were hugging and being kinda touchy (definatly more then usual) during the game i was tired so i kinda layed my head on his shoulder.. but just slighty.. and he put his arm around me (this happened like 4times) another time we were in like a box, and me and B were waiting in the hallway for some ppl to come out of the room so we cud walk downstairs and we were just waiting there and he was like "do you want your hug now" and i was like "awww sure" and he hugged me super tight and wudnt let go and we always sat nxt to eacother, linked arms..etc... and when it was time to go i gave him a hug.. but then everyone was still kinda there so i gave him another hug and was like "im gonna miss u" and he wudnt let go.. legit like my friend was like "you guys.." and i tried pulling away. but he wudnt <3 ok well anyways we txt all the time and he told me he liked me a little.. a couple times over the summer and the begining of the scool year, he always calls me pretty and hot and when we were sitting (me, b, and my friend) my friend was like " do u like her" and he was like " i love her" and then she was like "u think shes hot" and he was just like " I love her" ok so wut im getting to is i kinda rly wanna kiss him and the nxt time we see eachother is gonna b at this halloween party.. wit a ton of friends were gonna be going trick or treating so i guess here are my questions 1. do u think he likes me 2. should i kiss him 3. how, when, where, wut shud i say (when/if i kiss him) thanks :)
Boyfriend Lost A Fist Fight:(?
OK from the tone of your question, I'm glad to see you don't think any less of him because he lost (some girls would, so points to you in my book). Because of that, there are a number of things you can do - but they ALL involve going round to see him. He's miserable because he lost a fight and was made to look like he can't handle himself, in front of someone who he really cares about and wants to be able to protect, but his thinking is "if I can't even take care of myself, how can I protect her?" You need to show how concerned you are about him, hold him, hug him, kiss him, tell him how much you love his maturity in trying to avoid the fight first thing. Then play this card: say how lucky you feel to have him in your life because if he hadn't been there, the guy could have raped you. Thank him for protecting you. Then give him a massive hug. While you're telling him all of this, keep a firm but gentle hold of both of his hands and again gently but firmly press him to look at you. Assure him that you don't think any less of him because of what happened. It won't be an instant reversal back to his old self, but this will definitely be a step in the right direction and then if you keep up your support and affection, he'll get there eventually. x
My bf's guy friends keep asking him to be their "wingman"?
not really... it just means that he will go with them while they try to pick up girls. The wingman can occupy a girls friends, it doesn't mean that he has to engage in anything other than conversation. I think it's a fairly innocent role to play.