My best friend is dating my crush behind my back?
The lie is the problem, not accepting the date. Because as we guys say, until a ring is on the finger, the girl is in play! Frequently girls and their friends will casually date the same boys. In fact this is really a good idea. Some girls, perhaps you, say they like a certain boy and he is therefore off limits to any of her friends. Guys generally don't care about a girl 'reserving' him among her friends. He asks out girls who interest him. We quickly learn we have to listen to the girl drama of boys being reserved, but we don't care! We learn you have to work your way through the nos to get to the yes! That;s how we think after we get a little experience and learn we have to put up with some rejection in life. As to your friend, you should talk with her. Tell her what really hurts is the lying. This is bad precedent for a young girl to start, because the trend will continue into adulthood when the stakes are much higher with marriages and children.
My best friend backstabbed me and dated my crush right behind my back while she never told me how she felt. How do I get over it?
Honestly, you need to decide how much you value her friendship. What is it about her that makes her a good friend? Do you value those things more than a random crush? The likelihood is this fellow isn’t going to be around long. However, a good friend could be there for you forever.I know a lot of people feel they have first dibs on someone they are interested in. Life doesn’t work that way though. She made the first move and he reciprocated. There are two peoole involved in that relationship. It was his decision too. Next time, step up to the plate.
I think my best friend and my crush like each other. what do I do?
What really CAN you do without ruining things between you and your friend or you and your crush?I would let things travel their natural course, be kind and understanding if the chance presents itself to discuss weather or not he likes her, but you can also make your intentions known at the same time and let him choose.Do you believe he knows your friend well enough to know weather they would realistically make a good match or not? should the chance to talk about this come up, and you can ask him what he thinks hes looking for in a relationship and then maybe let him know weather or not your friend is capable of that or if shes the type thats totally opposite and he might end up getting hurt.You can still do this and give the person a heads up about her without “talking behind her back” if you really are just stating facts and your not doing it to be hurtful. If YOU are really interested in the same type of relationship this person is, then you can make that known. This will give him (assuming its a him) a chance to think about it, and choose.If he goes with her knowing that you warned him, then thats a warning sign that he maybe just looking to have fun and not trying to have an actual long term relationship.
My friend's crush doesn't like her back?
Well, we're 17 before you say anything silly. Anyways, my friend has had horrible acne since freshmen year. I love her with all my heart but sometimes it would be frightening to look at her because it was even fungus-like. She also has bells palsy. Anyways, her acne is somewhat better now. She started talking to this guy at school and she really really likes him. She thinks that he likes her back because they've been talking often. BUT, he told me he only likes her as a friend. He doesn't like her as a girlfriend because although he's emotionally attached to her (in a friendly way), he's not attracted to her physically at all. What do I do? My friend really thinks he likes her back. How am I suppose to tell her that he doesn't like her back? It frustrates me sometimes, because she's actually a gorgeous girl with a rockin' body but guys don't like her because of her face. :( And it's permanent because she'll still be left with the scars. ughh should i tell her the truth about the guy she likes?
Is my crush talking crap behind my back or not?
my crush)well everytime i pass him in the hallway he just smiles really big and it looks like he's about to start laughing first he sees me and then he looks up in the corner of his eye..(i dont know what he's trying to pull but its getting on my nerves.) its really weird because he's walking alone i mean he's my crush and all but omg i never told anyone that i liked him not a soul so i don't know what he's laughing about... I mean we use to hang out all the time after school like 2months ago but he just stopped showing up after this one girl saw us and wanted to hang out(and she gave him a box of chocolates on valentines day)once he found out it was her he never came back again. because she started staying after school waiting for him to come..when i was there because my parents picked me up late. I don't say hey to him anymore because he like never says hey to me so i don't see the point in bothering i think the fact he doesn't say hi to me anymore is a hint he hates me but i am not sure.because he's reallly shy(a little more outgoing around me though:i feel like one of his guy friends .because he acts alot more outgoing around guys than girls.. D: i was walking in the cafeteria and getting a snack and he was with all his guy friends and when he looked my way they all loooked back and looked at me.. now his friends all smile at me and crap D: like one of his friends is at my locker and he saw me today and started smiling at me i was just like wtf..(did i do something wrong) and the same thing in the library he was sitting with his friends and i was in there texting (because i get good signal in there)and reading a book and he was just like looking at me and then all his friends turned around basically at the same time... what does it mean when guys do this?!it happens so much to me i'm about to die..its not just him its other guys to..its like so weird.its like they all have to look behind them at the same time and see whos behind them...my god so annoying ... I just can't tell if they're talking crap about me or not..idk..what do you think..? lol sry if this doesn't make much sense.. I've posted this like 9 times and no one answered lol..
What should I do if my crush has a crush on my best friend?
HiI have read almost all the answers given over here for this question...But actually I am not here to give an answer to this one.” Just to make myself relaxed” I think u got it....Even if I give an answer I am sure that no one will agree to it. (there may be exceptions..) . As the answer will be as usual ‘forget him /her and be happy for ur friend' The real truth is that we will be not able to do so.. Forgetting a person is not that easy as others think. It becomes even more difficult if that's the one we like..There is no answer to this question which can bring a smile in ur face.. Everyone will be saying or advising us the same as I mentioned above.. But the real pain behind, that can be felt by one who has gone through the situation..So one thing on which we can rely is Hope... And that's the only hope...I am pretty sure that everyone will not be able to relate to this article...One thing which is to be made sure is our approach.. Don't be rude... Be calm as usual and treat them nicely. This matters..The only thing I can say is don't loose hope. May be these all are the part of our life which can lead to something else which can be much more interesting....
What do you do if someone talked behind your best friend's back and you tell your best friend?
If he/she who talked behind your best friend's back was talking to you and was trusting you not to say a thing, you should think about why did you do this. You wanted to protect your best friend or to make her feel embarrassed. If you wanted to protect her, you should think you the person who talked to you trusts you. Then you have to choose between your friends. Who is more important to you? Your best friend or the other person? If you choose the other person maybe you are not so good friends. Think about your relationship. Is it truth relationship? If the other person is more important, it means that you are not so good friends with your best friend. In this case, talk to your best friend you may be able to save this relationship and then go apologize to your other friend.If you overheard him/her speaking about your best friend and you are not friends with that person, no need to worry. You acted just the way you should. Congratulations!!!
I Slept with My Best Friend's Crush ?
3 years ago when I was 14 I slept with the guy my best friend had a major crush on. And since then our friendship has been horrible. We've been in so many in huge fights. My sister believes it all links back to what I did when I was 14. What kind of makes me upset out of all this is that my best friend says she forgives them she goes back and brings stuff up of how I made her upset in the past. I know she talks about me behind my back. Anyway, I kind of feel like because the incident she felt was always in the right during our confrontations. She was shut me up everytime we fought. I was always wrong and she was always right. She's probably told a lot of people about what I did. What makes me is that I feel she does things to purposely intimidate me because she knows everyone has her back. it's really annoying. I keep apologizing. I don't say anything when she yells at me. I don't think I should put up with her B.S. because of what happened 3 years ago. My sister and everyone else always sides her. It really hurts. What's your best advice and DON'T BE biased?
How do I tell my best friend I've been dating her crush for a year behind her back? I know this is really bad. I love both of them too much to hurt anyone, and I don't know what to do.
There’s nothing wrong with dating someone that someone else has a crush on. Life works in weird ways sometimes and you can’t help who you enjoy spending your time in a relationship with. However, there are definitely some things you should have considered before doing so.First of all, I personally wouldve let her know as soon as it occurred, or even before yous started dating. When I had feelings for that other person, if my best friend was really my best friend, I would’ve told them immediately. It’s not that you owe her an explanation or that she deserves to even know. It’s just that as a friend, honesty is something I personally value and would hope for in return from my other friend.The fact that it’s been a year would make me wonder if you were more worried about losing your friend over the situation and thus decided you would prefer the relationship and the friendship. Which, although preferable, is not your decision to make. If you can lie to someone you care about for a year, that would hurt me more than the relationship you have with my crush (if I were your friend). That in itself would make me question your loyalty in the friendship tbh (sorry if that’s a bit harsh).When you tell her, (I’m assuming you will), be prepared to take whatever comes your way because it was your decision to date her crush but it is ultimately her decision whether she wants to continue being your friend afterwards.Btw for future instances, when you’re honest upfront, the situation doesn’t become so significant. My guess is she would’ve gotten over it pretty quickly. However with how much time has passed, it’s all become more hurtful and complicated than it needed to be!Despite this crappy situation you seem to be in, I wish you luck anyways! Hope it all goes well.