How to respond to a girl that insults you?
Sad to hear about this but you see even my lovely girls who are half Swiss- half Asian are being made fun of in school yet they are very smart in the class. First and foremost there is nothing to be ashamed of being or having a mixed race. At times you can get the best from both features and both strong characters from both blood. Just ignore her/them completely. Avoid her/them completely by not being in the same hang-out place or location Replying to her/them is just downgrading yourself level. Boost your self-confidence and self-esteem that you are a unique, blessed and gifted person that you have talents that others don't have And remember too... ladies with big mouth scathing catty tongue and who expose their bodies have not much anything in their head and brain nor a good heart with good moral values in life... Focus on your studies instead of hanging around near such "slut cheap ladies" because you're still young and when you're successful in your life one day... you'll meet much worthier ladies to care for life. you know what.... at times that many would make fool out of you.. you'd better shine academically and in other good things in life! (don't let height nor colour nor whatever put you down) good luck!
I insulted a girl and she blames me for hurting her feelings. Why does she blame me for hurting her feelings when nobody can make a person feel inferior with their consent?
How is this even a question?Hypothetical scenario: That’s like me going out on a killing spree and then asking you why you feel bad that I killed your entire family. You shouldn’t feel bad, since I made you feel inferior with your consent. I saw you yelling at your family, and I did you a favour and killed them all. Why would you feel bad about it or cry? You should feel happy that I did that.See my point?I saw your other question by the way, If I call a girl ugly and then she starts crying am I responsible for hurting her feelings?Why the hell would she blame herself for your actions? It was your insult. You deserve the blame. Would she blame anyone else? Can she blame her mom for what you did to her? No. You did it.You seem to be deflecting the blame off yourself and blaming her for having emotions which are perfectly natural. I would say that I’m surprised at your low level of empathy, but I’ve seen incidents where people preach about having empathy and never demonstrate it. That’s what you did when you called her ugly. You didn’t see her as a person with her own feelings.That’s low. I’m clinically diagnosed with NPD, which to the people of the internet, essentially means an asshole, and I would never do that. That’s low even for me, and that’s saying something about you.
Is it better to respond to someone who is humiliating/insulting you by saying something nice or rude back? I don’t want to seem passive, but I don’t want them to see me angry.
THERE ARE FEW THINGS I FOLLOWED IN MY LIFE AND TRUST ME IT MAKES ME A BETTER PERSON DAY BY DAY :1) If someone insults you, do not insult them back out of the anger, this would be one your weakest self-defense power you will be manifesting to that person.It shows that you take their words seriously and you are ready to fall to their low standard level..2) If the person weighs or holds a little value in your life then try to communicate with them in a humble way to stop this obnoxious behavior else you are not going to be in touch with them.3) In case person is not important to you then ignoring them is the best you can do . For instance , you can change the topic or move out of the room.4) If its done by your so called friends, which is often termed as playful teasing then try adding humor to it.5) Keep your circle a quality one and try avoiding negative people because good people will always support and aid for your over all development.Once you start taking baby steps towards improving your overall personality then remember those who mock you for your weakness are the one who have the fear of being intimidated by you.(what if you converted your weakest point to to your strongest one!)Hence, no one in this world has the right to suppress you.BE CONFIDENT !BE BOLD!AND RISE UP TO TAKE A STAND FOR YOUR SELF NOW!SO , WILL YOU STAND UP FOR YOUR SELF AGAINST THE WORLD?P.S : ( MAKE SURE TO AVOID BEING INSULTED, WE NEED TO STOP INSULTING OTHER PEOPLE TOO!)For getting better insights of the psychology of the people who insult you , I have written a blog on it .Go through the link given below:http://03inspiration.blogspot.co...Hope this will help you!
Is a strong jaw line attractive on a girl?
I'm a girl and my jaw and chin is probably my most strong feature I'm always complaining but people I complain to say it's a very good feature to have but I don't know if this is for me too feel better
How do you respond if someone says something derogatory, insulting, or just plain rude to you or your loved ones?
In my experience, people who are rude or mean, are hurting souls. They’re trapped by their own fear of others or fears of the world. Those people are just taking their fear, and smearing it all over other people. So when someone is derogatory, insulting or rude, it really has nothing to do with you. It’s all them and their “stuff” (their fears).When I have the misfortune of engaging with someone who makes me feel degraded, I practice separating that human from their fears (which assumedly are showing up in their action/behavior), and I exit the conversation/engagement as quickly as possible.In the circumstances when someone is willing to hear feedback (a friend, a colleague, etc.), I give the feedback. It might be something like, “It occurs that you’re angry, and I have it that this doesn’t have to do with me.” Or, “Hey, you seem worked up, is something going on? Do you need anything?”If the person gives me LOTS of agency, I’ll actually call what I’m hearing/seeing. That looks something more like, “I’m hearing a lot of complaining, and I’m wondering what you actually need underneath that complaint. I’d prefer not to talk in circles about what you’re upset about, so what do you need to move this conversation forward to be productive? And if that’s to go complain at someone else, that’s totally cool with me, I’m just not interested in being part of this complaint-fest any longer.”If you have specific examples you want to work through, shoot me a response and I’d be happy to help you craft your response.
Is "babi" a strong insult in malay.......................?
Strong racial insult.
What are some good disses or insults i can say to someone who is bullying me?
Please no swears or your momma disses! I wanna leave any one who i diss or insult feel stunned and feel salted so bad and they wont dare mess with me ever again? Please help! :)