Why do some white women like black men?
OK. As a black man - I'm going to answer this honestly.Most white women don’t want black men. Black men are not as popular sexually as the myths claim us to be. There are many who believe that most white women have a secret fetish for black men. A discreet preference that they hide only because of widespread shaming and racismThis isn’t completely untrue.Yeah we all know there is a small % of white women who have a thing for black men.However, the truth is that the typical black male is not that hot of a ticket as far as white women are concerned.There are a substantial number of white women who will eliminate a black male from contention on sight and have no interest in dating a black man. And often even the ones that would do so, would only do so under ideal circumstances (very handsome, super tight game, money style, budget)The fact is that for the most part, the bulk of white (or in fact) non-black women just are not that obsessed with black men as a whole.The stigma of dating a black man for a white woman is enough to put them off and if a white women is with a black man and this results in kids ? She is vastly reducing her options for a future partner. White guys won't let her back in.So here you have a WW with bi-racial kids. Those kids don't go away. They have to carry their bi-racial kids around white society. So that means their parents have to suffer. The kids suffer. The women suffers.Now I have never met one WW with bi-racial kids who would change it. And even if a white women is just with a black man many white men (And non black men) instinctively recoil when they see a non-black girl with a black man.Girls understand this and feel this, and so many, who may be attracted, shy away from dating one, or else try to keep any former black boyfriends from being known about by later, non-black boyfriends.Many white and Asian men that I've known have been quite repulsed by an otherwise attractive girl if they find out she has dated black men.I’m just given you the cold hard truth.Questions ?"White men date outside there race. They have access to all races of women"True.The parents of non-white women generally find it at minimum acceptable for their daughters to bring a white guy home. If it were a black guy, doubters and haters of all kinds would make their opinions known IMMEDIATELY before they even met the guy.I have rarely, if ever have witnessed a woman of another race threatened to be cut off entirely just for being with a white guy.
Do white women fantasize about black men?
Do a lot of them secretly have a fantasy to be with someone of another race? Reason I'm asking is because it seems like none do around here whereas I see it all the time in California, seems odd.
How come black men want white women?
This is a generalization, as not all do. That said, an increasing number of black men are choosing to date outside their race, and many white women open to dating interracially as well. That is a big reason you see as many black man / white woman couples as you do. This is not just thug black men as many would like you to think. It is also not "fat trailer trash" white women either. Many of the couples you are beginning to see are educated and successful. Likely, it will continue to grow.
Do black women resent black men or white women for dating each other?
I'm a black woman, and, to be honest, I really had to work through this issue. I live in an upper middle class community where the average income is over $100,000 a year. The first several years I lived here, I would really resent seeing a black man with a white woman. It made me feel that the man thought all that wealth was too good to share with a black woman. I finally realized though, that that's what happens when you see people only as a race instead of seeing people as individuals. You just get tripped up. A black man is more than just a black man - he is an individual. A white woman is more than just a white woman - she is an individual. We all have a story. Every couple has a story. When we see an interracial couple, we don't know their story. We don't know what brought them together. We don't know what they've gone through in life before and since they first met. We don't know the love for each other that they may or may not share. All I know is that it's not my place to judge them, nor to make snap judgements about them based on what I (think) I see. When I finally got all that straight in my mind and heart, I felt much better about things. Great question! : )
Why do black men seem to like large white women?
You know what, you're absolutely right. Many black men who date white women date heavyset white women, and they always seem to be happy. Maybe large white women are easy going and are not as problematic as other women.
Do black men have lower standards in white women than white men do?
I know that this question will probably draw some fire, but I'm going to be brave and ask anyway. I noticed that often times when I see a black guy with a white woman, it's not a pretty white woman, but a fat, ugly, disgusting white woman. Anyone else notice this?