My best friend is having boy problems?
ok so here's the thing, im a guy and my best friend who is a girl is having problems with her ex boyfriend and im trying to be as helpful as possible but i don't know what to do/say to make her feel important, and some other things i dont know if they'll help or anything so i also like her and she was dating him then broke up then like 2months afterward they met at the carival then they made out and then dated and now she just broke up with him after dating him for about 12 hours and she just doesnt feel important please help
Best-friend problems.?
I'm honestly so hurt rn. Basically, there's this girl (let's just call her Cam) I've been friends with for about 3 years so far. We care a lot for eachother. Anyways, turns out she had another bestfriend she's basically known for almost her whole life. The thing is, her best-friend hurt her multiple times, she's really bossy (no offense), and sometimes really annoying. Cam complains a lot about her, and usually I just joke a little and listen to her little rants. But, that's not really the point... I would actually die for my best-friend. I'll do anything. Like, anything (besides anything involving my family, of course. but I include my best-friend as family too.) I always try super hard not to get jealous when I see her with her other best-friend, because I want her to be happy. She still wants to be best-friends with the other. I don't see why though, but again, I want her to be happy. Before all of this happened, I had another bff (let's just call her Ume) who hurt me alot, and i had lots of family problems. I was pretty much depressed, and I still am. Then I met Cam. We talked to eachother 24/7. Eventually we became BFF's. I was there for her through thick and thin. When she was hurt, I did everything I can so karma bounces back on the person who hurt her. I defended her with all my heart. The thing is, I don't think she would do the same... It's just that I feel like she doesn't care for me as much as I do. i'd do anything for her, and she might just do little.
Boy problems....HELP!!! 10 pts best answer?
I'm a girl and hes a guy. We're both 15. we were best friends last year and just randomly he stopped talking to me. he thinks nothing has changed! we have gone like 2 months without talking or having any contact, which is a LOT going from talking every day. part of me hates him, and part of me loves him. i was talking to my om one day and i was sobbing uncontrollably explaining it to my mom and i told her i heard multiple times from ppl he thinks i like him and my mom said thats prob it. i feel like i need to forget about him. hes become so rude to me and even my mom. we saw him and we made an attempt to say hi and wave to him and he completely ignored us. i just don't want to be around him anymore. my heart hurts so bad though :( how do I forget him and move on??? i just don't know what to do. i don't think i can talk to him about anything:p
Boy problems?? my best friend tried to kiss me...?
Leave him alone! If he's gay and you know that he has had boyfriends and/or sex with other guys in the past, save yourself the trouble and remain friends. It's hard enough wondering if your mate is cheating with another girl, but to constantly be on alert of both guys and girls.... Too much trouble!!! Are you sure he's gay???
What do i say to him!!!! Help me BOY PROBLEMS GUYS WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
Ok so my best friend has this brother. And hes soo hot. Hes 16 and im 13. He has a girl friend and stuff like that. Hes pretty cool, He told his sister "im cute for a kid"... Now my delema is that i want to tlak to him but i dont wanna seem like the little girl who is anoying. Ya know. Help me plz http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff258/brau123/mjhv-1.jpg ^^^^^ Me http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff258/brau123/l_1774583c86c8446c8052e12da2c3005a.jpg ^^^^^ Him
Why does my guy best friend rarely talk about his problem?
Many guys always try to avoid sharing their problems and views over any topic there are many factors involved in it. If we try to find reasons behind this phenomena then psychologically it states that many boys have ego problems and ofcourse the attitude of being men.....well this is not a complete truth....the medical science says that the boys tends to think very practically rather than being emotional.. This nature of being practical make their mindset that they have no use of telling this all stuffs but the reality is they try to pretend themselves emotionally strong person ultimately which leads them to be quiet on their problems.theres another point which says that boys are tend to be more interested in making new friends especially girls and they like to support them but they dont want to establish any kind of emotional attachments with them so they also try to avoid telling their problems may the same case is happening with you also and you best buddy is not telling you about his problems...!! in such cases boys takes too much time they first try to find themselves more comfortable with you once they are good to go they tell the story and it happens in very rare cases not all boys talk about their problems...!!
How can I help my best guy friend open up to me? He tells me sometimes that he wants to tell me stuff/his problems, but he’s scared (and he says I’m the person he trusts the most).
Why do you care if/when he opens up to you unless there is something you’re not revealing? Perhaps that you like him as more than friends? Even if he has a gf/wife you can still have feelings like that, it’s not wrong, it’s normal. Acting on them is a different mess entirely.But let’s say you don’t, that’s something you can’t really control. I for one have had different gf’s/friend girls over the years and never really opened up to any of them. IDK if this is typical a guy thing or what. He will open up when he chooses, perhaps he doesn’t trust you as much as he says or he’s just distrustful of people in general.
What are the problems of having a best friend of the opposite gender?
OMG! this is the question I was looking for.Thanks for A2A.There's many problem but will explain only a few of them.We're in standard 5 but not in same school ND we became friends as she was my neighbor.We're celebrating 7th anniversary of our friendship and somewhat I noticed that many of my friends have crush on her (boys obviously). She is beautiful, intelligent, sports girl and social too. So, from my experience, I have had theseProblems list:Everyone will assume that she is your girl friend, though there’s nothing like that in between us.If you are in college, you’ll have to face A-Z complements like “your friend is beautiful, could you intro me to her,from when you both are in relationship etc.You both spend a lot of time together, go to night out, new places and some times share bed (No lovemaking) but there could be a situation of unconsciousness.Like in same gender, we share everything with our best friend but in case of apposite gender, there could be odd in sharing internal manners like ‘how often you masturbate in a week’, ‘have you ever been in sexual intercourse’ etc.her boyfriend could feel insecure and sometimes he may questions her about you and same conditions applied to boys too.these are the common problems that mostly happens in best friend of apposite gender.Days, weeks, months and years will pass and you both will see many changes in between both of you and there will be a day of your turning point when you will have to make a priority, like best friend or your life’s goal (could be anything).I’m not saying final cut, but naturally you choose which one should be prioritize. I’m not criticizing anyone, friendship is really beautiful, great experience.She got married and have a baby of 2 years and still she is my best friend but as I said, priorities has been changed for me as well for her too.
How can I help my friend who's going through boyfriend troubles?
One of my best friends is going through a problem. She began going out with this guy who we'd both known/been friends with for years and they'd had one of those brief playground relationships with when they were like 13-14 (they're both 19 now, started going out seriously nine months ago). Before that, we all used to hang out in this big group and I went out with one of her best friends (they've known each other since they were really little) and her current boyfriend got to know him quite well. Now though, her boyfriend has decided that he has a problem with her talking to her best friend because he is male. This is really getting her down and is even worse because he still hangs around with his best friend- who is female. My friend says she doesn't care who he hangs around with and she's not going to stoop to his level and ask him to stop hanging with her just to prove a point (good on her!) Now for the difficult bit. I'm moving in with her best friend soon and I would love for her to come to the housewarming, but her boyfriend has set the condition that she can't see this guy unless he's there. However, every time she tries to arrange something where everyone can hang out, he backs out at the last minute. I think he doesn't like him, but I don't know why, they've always been ok with each other. What can I do? I want to be there for her because she's been there for me a lot and I don't like to see her sad like this. My boyfriend is sad as well because he doesn't understand why they've suddenly lost contact and I can't even tell him what the situation is (it's not my business and it would just make him feel even worse/guilty). All this stuff seems so childish, but we're all 19-20 years old! What can I do to be a good friend to her?