How can I report abuse in WhatsApp?
i think you want to report abuse that happens in the group more often rather than in private chats. Whatsapp has to come up with some solution still coz it hasnt yet and it requires some better laws for cyberbullying and trolling.Yes whatsapp u should have better upgrades than simply adding a “voice calling” option or a “”video calling”” option. Needless to say both are crap in India anyway!!My friend if you are getting bullied or trolled u need to speak up to every single person around u. Include ur parents. To ppl who think no well those are the same ppl who are afraid of their parents . They are the ones in the wrong place and they dont have that courage inside them to speak anything to their parents.If its your friends who are harassing you then lets be honest they are not your friends. They are the same people who will complain for every single thing they cant do. They dont have etiquette. They thrive on negativity. On the other hand think first….did u ever try to annoy them? No? Then you have to get over the fact and start ignoring them. Be rude and ruthless. They just want you to feel low.You know what? If you are in school or college you will be the one ahead in the coming years. Show it to them after a couple of years when you become the boss.And its quite true that the bosses have to be rude and ruthless. Let them beg to you for their salary. Dont lose your mental strength buddy. Let the whole world think you are a coward ……deep inside you , you have that flame in you that you are growing and growing. In the next few years show it to them and keep on working hard.Add an extra flavouring by asking them to be the sweeper of your office when you are the boss. BY THE WAY bosses also get trolled but hey we all know who were Steve Jobs and Bill Gates. Atleast one employee will have to have a complaint against them but who cares? They are the ones swimming in the success ocean bro. Good Luck! spread positivity around you
What will happen if all us us stop drinking alcohol in any form from tomorrow ?
Personally speaking, I think the world would be a better place except for the business aspect of alcohol which is mind boggling huge to say the least. It would absolutely cripple the country economically. That aside, it's like a child asking, "Why can't we all just get along? or I want world peace all over the world." It's not very realistic at all. It's nice to imagine these things, but they will never happen. Prohibition has been proven a total failure as history has shown. If people can't get their alcohol legally, then they simply make their own. Even prisoners locked up find a way to make booze. It's a nice thought, and I agree with you, but that's all it is, a thought. It doesn't hurt to dream though, does it? Consumption of alcohol does get out of control for some people, but the majority of people are responsibile enough to not drink without any problems and just enjoy themselves. I don't think it is more out of control now any more than it was at any other time. None of my family are drinkers even though no one ever told us we could not drink or even that we were lectured not to drink as children. None of us ever really liked it and don't bother with it other than an occasional cold beer every now and then in the summer. In my circle of friends of family, it is not an issue.
Is it child abuse if a parent hits you when angry?
Hitting a child is child abuse, whatever the motivation the parent has. Having a “reason” for a behavior does not make it okay, does not justify it.So, whether a parent it angry or not, or whether the child “did anything to deserve it” or not, there is no excuse for hitting a child.I include spanking here, as well as slapping or punching or shoving.I call this abuse, but what the law may judge as abuse in one jurisdiction or another may vary. The last time I checked spanking was legal in all states but Minnesota, and I think that one or two Scandinavian countries outlawed it. However, it would be up to local authorities to judge whether the line had been crossed, even in spanking, to a point that intervention by the State was required.I once had a teacher say that he defines “abuse” as anything short of adequate nurturing. Also it is important to understand that the parent does not need to intend to be abusive. A parent who makes a mistake about parenting that harms a child, may have been abusive, such as a parent who is too harsh, etc. And again, intent is not an excuse. Anger is not an excuse. Custom and tradition is not an excuse. A child being particularly “naughty” is not an excuse.There is just no excuse for hitting another person.While saying that, most likely every parent has been guilty of child abuse or child neglect, without meaning to now or then. All parents make mistakes, lose their tempers. Most parents yell, and many parents may spank or hit their children even though it was something they said they would never do.Whether this is an isolated incident that can be mended to created a better parent/child dynamic or whether this is part of a pattern of escalating battery can’t be figured out from the question. Any child who has been hit can confide in a teacher or school counselor for further help.
What Happens to kids that get taken by Child Protective Services?
If CPS feels there is reason to investigate they will. If the investigation determines the child or children need to be removed from the care of the parents CPS will place them in a certified and approved foster home. Sometimes it's possible for relatives and family members to interceed at this point and not have children placed with strangers. The Important part is that the family is there at the moment the state decides the remove the children and willing to take them into care the first night they need to be cared for. If the child is placed into a foster home, the biological parents will be given a Case Plan with the things they must do in order to regain custody of the child. If they work their plan the child is returned to the parents. If the parents do not work their plan the state has to make Permanent Plans for a child who spends 16 out of 23 months in foster care. At this point the state Must look for relatives or kin willing and able to adopt the family members. The relatives will have to have an approved relative or kinship home study. If the parents fail to work the case plan and the state has made a permanancy plan it will be for either placement with an approved and home studied relative or with the foster parents who are caring for the child and as a last resort with complete strangers. If there is abuse happening you Need to report it to CPS you can do this without giving them your information. However, they have less reason to respond to anon reports and no way to follow up. If you feel your sibling needs to be removed from your parent... I would get an attorney to represent you and see if this can be accomplished without the sibling going into Foster Care. If you want to parent your sibling I would sign up and take the Foster Parent and Foster Adopt classes to learn how to help and parent abused children who are seperated from their parents...And get a Foster Adopt home study started so you have every legal advantage in the event something happens and you can step in ready and above board about everything.
My best friend is being abused by her dad?
TELL YOUR DAD.
Does verbal abuse tend to turn into physical abuse?
Yes, but the process starts much earlier. Also, verbal abuse is a means to an end. It is not just hurtful things people say to each other in anger.In fact verbal abuse is not always even the first warning sign of physical abuse. In every situation of physical abuse dependency followed by isolation occurs. Then the verbal abuse happens and finally the abuser feels free to attack the abused with impunity.Now many people are dependent on their significant other or parent for emotional and financial support. There is nothing wrong with this. In fact it is rather normal. People seek this and when it is mutual, live happier lives. Unfortunately, abusers take advantage of this fact and twist it to their own sick perversion. The isolation is the biggest sign that the relationship is going to get violent. Abusers do this by ridiculing or disapproving of the victim's family and friends. They keep the abused at home as much as possible and sabotage any effort the abused uses to better themselves. The abuser will even move them to a different location just to separate the abused from any support system they may still be clinging on to. The only one that they are allowed to be close to is the abuser. They fear that if the abused ever becomes self sufficient that they will leave them. The verbal abuse is just a method that the abuser uses to facilitate further dependence on them. It also helps them isolate the abused by making them believe that no one would love or care about a pathetic person such as themselves. It helps with the illusion that the abuser is caring and loving and that the abused is the problem. The abuser also uses this to convince the abused that it is their fault why none of their former friends or family comes around any more. The abuser uses verbal abuse to make the abused identify themselves as the abused property to do with what they will.When the physical abuse finally happens, the abuser feels that they now have control over the abused. They enjoy the power from the control they wield over the abused. While the physical abuse does manifest when the abuser is displeased with the abused, more often than not the abuse has nothing to do with the abused. They will get progressively more violent using the same rational as a 2 year old testing the boundaries set by their parents. The abuser enjoys hurting the abused regardless of their future apologies.
How do I stand up to my brother after years of abuse (first physical and now verbal)?
It depends how old you are. If you’re still living with your parents, and are under 18, please let them know what’s happening and ask them to intervene. If that doesn’t work for whatever reason, please speak with a trusted adult- a teacher or counsellor at school would be a good choice as they should have training in this area.If you’re now and adult you need to set some very clear boundaries and insist that he abides by them. If it were me, I’d either sit him down and let him know how I felt with concrete examples or write him an email. I’d explain that I would no longer put up with his behaviour for any reason. I’d give him one more go and if he crossed the lines again, I’d distance myself from him. I probably wouldn’t see him for a while. I’d probably also suggest that he gets help - ideally psychotherapy.You do not deserve to be abused.
What will happen to the US when non-Hispanic whites become the racial minority?
I was just wondering will the US follow a path of decline when white people become the racial minority in 2040? Will this impact politics and the social landscape of the country. Because almost everywhere I go, I see more minorities than whites. Like my neighborhood. 7 years back it was almost all white. Now almost everyone is Hispanic. And some of them are very violent and aggressive.