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What do guys really think about inexperienced women?

A2A.It essentially depends on the guy.There are some who find it highly attractive because they like the idea that they can teach you a thing or two. Others find it attractive because they like to delude themselves that they can dominate such an "inexperienced" girl. Others have strange notions about "virginity".Then there are guys who would rather not deal with an inexperienced woman because they simply prefer women with experience. They think it's easier to deal with them because they think that such women already know their preferences (the women's I mean) and know what a man likes. That makes things less complicated and the risk of being misunderstood is reduced.That bit about you coming off as "intimidating" is a different matter altogether. Since I have no idea how you appear to the males in your vicinity I can hardly say anything to that. That "some guys" have said that to you simply means that those guys have had this impression of you. But that is a subjective view and doesn't mean that you are indeed "intimidating" to everybody. Let me assure you of this: YOU appear different to different people. When you meet a person that doesn't know you then that person doesn't know ANYTHING about you at first. There are very observant individuals out there (not too many really I can assure you) who can deduce a lot of information about you because they are being very attentive and they listen closely to what you say. The way you dress, the way you walk, talk and move in this world can give information about yourself to observant individuals. You can learn to do this too -in case you haven't been aware of this. Read here if you're curious: 5 Ways to Read Body Language. (And while you're at it you might want to get rid of some of the myths about body language: 7 Body Language Myths Leaders Can't Believe.) Apart from that: You can make up for some of your inexperience by making yourself knowledgeable. You can do a bit of research and find out about how people get to know each other and interact with one another. You don't really seem to be in a hurry to rush things. That's good. You just take your time and hone your communicative skills. (Read here for some inspiration: Effective Communication: Improving Communication Skills in Your Work and Personal Relationships.) There will always be times when you need those. When the moment comes for romance you'll be well prepared...Good luck! ;)

Do you think women would have more success in dating if they approached the men they liked instead of waiting for a guy to approach them first?

Dear Steve,If a woman were to make the first move then it would certainly increase her odds, particularly when a guy is hesitant, because he's shy/intimidated by her.One of my friends is the complete opposite of me, she's confident and a natural flirt, she's never had to resort to online dating. I'd watch her be able to recognise a guy's subtle interest, and then be happy to initiate things. I'd often watch in awe, no way, would I ever imagine asking a guy out. That's because I have a different personality type. I'm also old fashioned, preferring a man to ask me out, and if I'm brutally honest, why most women don't make the first move is fear of rejection.I remember years ago, the building porter telling me that the guy that lived opposite me had a secret crush, he would tell him he thought I was beautiful, and ask questions about me. I'd known him for a number of years, we'd sometimes stop to exchange pleasantries, but our conversations were restricted to 'good morning/evening', he never asked me out. No way would I have thought he liked me. The funny thing was, I secretly fancied him too for ages, but by the time I found out he moved away! That still hasn't changed me - typical ;) but kudos to any woman that's not afraid to make the first move, I envy you!Kind regards,Abi

What don't they tell you about dating an attractive man?

I’ve briefly been with someone who was fairly attractive. A tall stature, lean body, almond eyes and pastel complexion. He also had a professional degree and worked in an MNC. So, this is my take.Just like beautiful girls get hit on frequently, attractive men too get more than their fair share of attention. Compliments, unnecessary favors, more ears to listen to and gestures/ words/ signs showing the opposite person is making a move. The more attractive he looks, the higher the chances are he will have difficulty deciding on an honest person he can date.The good thing about them is, in most of the cases, the better they look the less they care about outer beauty. They actually understand that there is a lot more to a woman than perfect curves and flawless skin. In fact, the thing/ quality that draws them first is mostly smartness, intelligence, humor, tact, humility, confidence. And not the outer beauty.They are just as insecure from the inside as any other less attractive person. This insecurity could be about their background, choice of career or expectation from oneself. Turns out finer skin tone and delicate features don’t come with more courage or sensibility.If anyone thinks that they have an envious dating life and might have had some decent partners in past then you couldn’t be more wrong. Yes, they do have a better chance/ luck with women they are interested into but there comes a stage where respect, mutual understanding and empathy matter more. So many of them are unable to find an understanding partner to be with.One negative point to all the other positive points is some attractive men are so vain, immersed into keeping themselves perfect by standards of beauty that it just feels stupid and pointless being with them. After all we need a working brain fixed inside that handsome face and a good companion beneath that picture-perfect body.Overall, it’s more about how a person is from the inside. So, if you look closely and try honestly, you’ll find that everyone is a different shade of beautiful.