How do you look more feminine and flattering if you have wide shoulders?
I also have wide shoulders, I feel your pain. Like the commentors before me stated: don't take pictures straight on if you have any forewarning. Angle one shoulder toward the camera, one away, like so: It can also help to put your hand on your hip or waist, in your pocket, etc. The length you add there might sound counter-intuitive, but when viewed, you can no longer tell the breadth, and the interesting angle takes on visual interest. See here:Straight arms: Angled arms: You can also round your upper back and shoulder forward, which enhances the collarbones, cleavage, and neck, while taking width off the shoulders. You see this pose in many fashion shoots: As far as clothing goes, stay away from halter tops, bikinis or other tops that tie, or otherwise finish at the neck. That style creates an inverse triangle - while it's very flattering to the waistline and bust, the widest point ends at the shoulders, adding even more bulk.Likewise, stay away from shirts and tops with very structured shoulders; distinct seams, ruffles, stripes, buttons and other nonsense. Off the shoulder, especially off one shoulder, can draw the focus to other areas, i.e. a highlighted collarbone, the top curve of one breast, etc.Hair can be a great way to physically mask wide shoulders - provided your hair is long enough and has enough body. Don't be afraid of shorter hair either though. A blunt or angled bob cut - one that ends somewhere between the jawline and above the shoulders can be very beautiful with wide shoulders. This frames you face with angles and body, elongates your neck, and takes the visual interest upward. Look at this woman - pretty wide shoulders, but all we notice when we look at her are her eyes, neck, and face: Lastly, pay attention to your chest. If you are also small breasted, the lack of depth, visually, can make shoulders seem wider than they are. If that's you (it's me!) invest in a good push up bra. The added dimension takes focus (ahem) elsewhere.Hope you found this helpful! Good Luck!
How can you see your real face; is the picture in the mirror the real you or the picture on the camera?
From my perspective, the You in the mirror is the image through your eyes and directly process by your brain. The You in the camera is after the fine software adjustment of you in color, shape, perspective, distortion and lights. But if you dig a little deeper, the image of you in the Mirror is merely a reflection of yourself. The glass layer of the mirror tends to be a bit green. You can stand in front of the mirror and put a white piece of paper horizontally against it then you can tell the difference. Now, if we come back to your question, the real question is more you in reality. I’d say the mirror is almost what people see you. I hope I answered your question.