My dad touches my private parts?
As soon as he is gone out of the house for a bit, call the police. If you want it to stop you have to do this. Otherwise he will keep doing it. He tells you that he'll kill you or your mom if you tell, but he only says that because he wants you to be too afraid to get any help. If you call the police they will get the evidence they need and he will be put in jail, and they will make sure you are safe. Unfortunately this happens to lots of children and it isn't right. But fortunately there are lots of programs out where to help you and put an end to it. You just have to take the first step, pick up the phone and call 911. If you don't feel you can do this yourself, then you need to talk to an adult you can trust, one who will trust you as well and ask them to make the call. If your dad abuses your mom then she might not be the best choice. But there is likely some other trustworthy adult you know. You can even just go to the neighbors house and tell them your dad is molesting you and you want them to call the cops for you since you are too scared to do it yourself. I see that you've posted this message before, so I'm wondering why you are still asking what to do. It is very simple, call the police. Please do so immediately. If you don't want to call the police, call these people, they are there to help victims of child abuse: Childhelp® USA National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-CHILD® (1-800-422-4453)
Can I get my dad arrested for touching my private things?
Franky, you worry too much about what other people might think. Unicorns, dragons, and hobbits are fantasy, and that is a 14 year old genre of literature. Now there are drawings that you can print off the internet that are for teenagers and adults. Wal-mart had coloring books for middle school kids and I saw Amazon has them, but you can get a lot of the same stuff off the internet for free. My nephew who designs video games got into drawing around middle school with a graphic design software program he picked up for $99. He won contests with his space ships that looked better than the one for the Babylon 5 tv show. Then he won a national contest in his junior year of high school and got a new computer for graphic design and all this equipment. Every day for two years he came home to boxes of stuff. He said it was better than Christmas. I got to skip geography in ninth grade. I would have driven the teacher nuts since I am horrible at folding maps. That was a pet peeve of the teacher. I did have to take it to get teacher certification in KY for teaching Social Studies. It was 2 times a week for 6 or 8 weeks. We had to fill the rivers and cities on maps. I used memory techniques. Some are described www.ehow.com/list-7791573-tricks-remembe... Then google "Wow" then "how to memorize geography" in the search. Hope this has helped. There are also tools to help with landforms. Google. Make it into a game like you are planning a military invasion, or going on a vacation.
Can I get my dad arrested for beating me up?
Franky, what did he ask you to do? Be home on time. That was the crux of his request. Why do they want you to come home on time. So they don't have to worry where you are, you are there for meals that have been prepared thus they won't go cold or get yucky from sitting there. So in order to make him happy, you come home on time. Real simple. Franky, you think you are master of your own destiny. That you don't have to answer to your parents anymore. Look at your own family. Don't your parents answer to their parents? He is also trying to teach you that you can not punch people without them reacting and getting you back. Hit someone like you did in a pub and see what happens. The pub keeper will be mopping up blood. He also is teaching you that you have to think before you do things. You need to have plans, and to think about consequences. It is all part of growing up. So other than that did you have a decent birthday. A nice chocolate cake? I was in in Louisville yesterday, and they were having an air show as part of the preparation for the KY Derby ( the big horse race). There is construction work going on on the Ohio River riverfront with huge cranes . Well, one group of airplanes was scheduled, and were almost cancelled due to lack of lights being on the cranes so the planes didn't hit them during the flyover. The construction guys didn't want to go out on the end of them to put the lights on. So the high rise fire rescue people did it. A firefighter went out and put the lights on the cranes. I love the picture of the Queen with the 2 year old picking up the Queen's purse. 2 year girls do that. As for not liking babies, then don't make any. Use protection. So did you do anything
Can i get my dad arrested for taking away my beer and cigarette?
I like a cigarette after I eat and I ate a lot at the BBQ. everyone went inside so I took a bottle of beer and had a smoke. and he came out to bring the salad inside then see me and start yelling. saying how old am I. he knows how old I am. and he take them from me. he let me have a bottle like an hour before so why'd he overreact? And my uncle was laughing at me and his friend was too. and my uncle took the cigarette and beer from my dad and drunk and smoked them. they were mine!! he was acting like what I was doing was illegal, but its not. I know the law. were in the UK at the moment and the law is this - its legal for a child aged five and over to drink alcohol at home or on other private premises. I was at home. kids smoking isn't illegal either. its only illegal for under 18s to BUY them. I explain the law to him and he said shut up you blah blah, you need parents permission blab blah, and im your parent blah blah. he embarrassed me, there was like 8 people listening. I toad him that and he said he didn't care. and he I should stop providing everybody with entertainment then, and said I do it all the time. I wouldn't if he would just shut up. he's the one who argues with me about things in public places. he could just get me what I want. and he's grounded me for 2 days. For nothing. I wanted to go out somewhere with my friend tomorrow when he gets out of school. its not fair
Can I get my dad arrested for calling me crybaby?
he was in the kitchen talking to his friend about needing some kids to come to his office cuz something to do with a radio show. he asked my dad about me, if I'm busy Monday after 3pm. and my dad said don't ask me cuz I'm a whiner and crybaby and won't be able to concentrate and stay in a room for more than 20mintes. he said that about me!! To some person I don't even know!! so I went into the kitchen and said why do you have to embarrass me and call me names. and he didn't even deny it. just said that his friend has kids, twin 3 year olds so he knows about crybabies. Wtf, he's comparing me to 3 year olds. so I called him a w@nker and he said that I'm being a crybaby right now. I wasn't. I wast defending myself. then the man left an hour later and my dad was thinking everyinf is OK again. trying to joke by putting an icecube in my armpit. so I tell him to leave me alone and he said, this is what I mean. but I have a right to be upset. what else has he been saying about me to strangers? now I think about it, my boss knows too much about me. like how did he know about the time I threw a transformers DVD at my mom and it hit her in the mouth? its not fair that he tells what he wants about me but he gets mad when i tell people he cheated on his wife and that my mom said he should be castrated, that he texts when he's driving, that he calls pennies Jews and collects them in a Jew jar. 2 of those things are crimes you know- dangerous driving and antisesomething. I want him arrested
I can’t believe the responses, if you are asking on Quora I would have to say No! It’s not! Here are my reasons;If you were OK with this you wouldn’t be asking. Especially on line.It is likely that you are a minor. I don’t know the laws in your state, but you may want to look into that. If he’s an adult it would be a crime, if you are both minors you may be looking a legal troubles as well.What is your home life like? You don’t want to get thrown out for causing same to the family.Can you, he, or the two of you support a child?If you’er not ready for sexual activity don’t do it.Find another boyfriend. I’m not saying don’t date, but maybe someone who respects your boundaries.You don’t owe him because he kissed you, dated you for a certain amount of time, or for buying you things.
Can I get my dad arrested for saying he's not getting me the things on my christmas list?
I gave him the list. its only small. I just want the following ps4 games: alien isolation, dead island 2, far cry 4, Fifa 15, and the evil within. also iPhone 6, a telescope that can see really far into space (to investigate aliens better), Minecraft lego, a skeleton watch, a tent and a car. he just looked at my list and gave it back to me. and said, after everything bad I did today and this week, he can't believe I had the balls to come to him with a Christmas list. but I always give him my Christmas list! I'm not even expecting him to get it all. I'll be happy with getting just 90% of it. and I toad him that and he was very cruel to me. he said one of these days his temper is gonna blow and he's gonna beat me up for real, like the adult I think I am and not little kid slaps. what the hell. All this over a stupid list. maybe he don't like lists, i don't know. then I gave my list to my mom and she didn't even want to read it. and I toad her what my dad said. and she said I better be careful cuz there's only so much crap my dad can take and he's been taking it for at least 5 years from me now. again, what the hell. why are they so dramatic? I am scurred now. what if he gets me while I'm sleeping? I saw that in a movie once. I want him arrested for threatening me. for real threatening. like to actually hurt me. cuz he hit me and it don't hurt that much but these threats sound like he's gonna hit me with a crowbar or something. or attack me with an axe
Wow, dejavu all over again. When I was growing up, I had some childhood friends that I met when we were 6. When the girl, got to be your age I noticed her dad would do the same things to her when I was even in the room. She would push his hands away playfully but she clearly didn't like what I knew he was doing. I was shocked he could do this. He did it to both of his daughters. Later on in life she became extremely messed up and made a lot of very poor life choices. When I reconnected with her brother a few years ago after 45 years, I asked him if he was aware of what his dad had been doing back then. He said he was well aware and it was a real problem for them over the years.So my suggestion is report him. Before he messes you up more than he already has. I know he is your dad but this is wrong on so many levels that I cant even begin to list them. He clearly isn't thinking of how this is hurting you is he? He is thinking of his own twisted lust over of all things his own daughter. As a father I can tell you this makes my skin crawl and what I would like to do to guys like that are not legal or socially acceptable. So I am stuck with societies rules here. But please do something, do not protect him. You don't know if he is doing this to others as well. So the victims could be piling up.
I am so sorry you are experiencing this with you Dad. Parent’s including myself when I was raising my own children often do not realize the weight our words carry and stick with our children.Most often they are not meant, but once they leave his mouth the harm of them is done and while you can forgive him the pain often remains for a long time. Sometimes these words are due to a parent overworked, overtired, and frustrated or afraid. This however, while you can understand makes them no less hurtful. Also often people hurl hurtful words at other because of the pain they are in either emotionally or physically.I hope perhaps in a calm time you and your father can discuss how hurtful these things are to you and what if anything you can do to help him when he is upset or angry to deal with the issue rather than attack you with hurtful words. I have included links to two articles that I hope might give you insight and at a good time perhaps share and discuss with you Dad and find ways that a more effective way of communicating with you can be discussed and a plan that both of you can be excited about. Thoughts and Prayers are with youGet Your Kids to Talk to YouWhen Yelling Is A Pattern