My crush didn't text me for four days?
Sweetie, break up with him. If a guy wants to truly be with a girl, he will make it happen no matter what. He won't waste your time, because he would only want your attention to be on him. If he is treating you like he doesn't give a rat, he genuinely doesn't give a rat. Yes, break up and move on. Enjoy your youth and your freedom. Your Prince Charming will show up someday, don't kiss a bunch of frogs just because you haven't met him yet. Be patient, the best things in life are worth waiting for. You are beautiful, smart, and unique. Let no one tell you otherwise. You have to learn to love and respect yourself, once you do that, then others will love and respect you too. Stay true to yourself, and never ever settle or compromise for less than what you deserve. Don't give up on yourself ever. Okay girl, I'm talking to you like I'd talk to my little sister or a young friend. Watch some Disney Princess movies with some gal pals, and just have fun being Free. Best Advice I can give. I am almost 26, and I have never had a boyfriend, because I choose to not settle. Guys is High School are cheap and selfish, and you deserve more than that. You deserve a guy that is mature, kind, sweet, compassionate, and will fight to make you happy and keep you safe. A guy that will respect you and appreciate you for exactly who you are. Wait for that guy. Aim for a Prince Charming not a Prince Moron or Prince Jerk. Best Wishes!
He ignored my message?
The only reason your friend "A" is sticking around and being your bestie is he his hoping that you will eventually be more than friends with him. He probably told your crush to back off and not respond. Drop A 100% and make it clear he will never be more than a friend and is 110% in the friends zone and you want to try your luck with your crush and hope he understands. As long as A is in the picture will not get to your crush Edit: Yes drop A 100%. A dumped his last girlfriend for you. He is really really into you. Tell him he is a brother to you an nothing more and never will be nothing more. Also you can ask him who was the girl he dumped his gf for, he might say it was you and at that point you just tell him nothing will ever happen between us. Reach out to the crush and say things smoothed over. If you are still friends with A you will likely know of a party to bump into the crush at and then talk him and being like So that was crazy. I really want to explore things with you maybe look at your fish tank in your room and then make your move. If he ask what about A tell him that A and you will never be together. If A still has a problem its his problem and if he pulls that BS again tell A this is another reason you would never be with him.
He hasn't texted in 4 days?
I met a guy a few weeks ago and we went out on one date.. Everything went well and he said he wanted to see me again. He kept texting me and would send me a text almost every day, even if it was just a "good morning" or "hope you're having a good day" type of thing. Last week, he kept saying he wanted to see me but his family came in to town. So we never went out, and I honestly didn't mind because I knew he was spending time with them. Anyway, he sent me a text 4 nights ago, but I was sleeping. I texted him back the next day but no response. Then I texted him yesterday and again.. no response. I don't get it! He was so consistent with texting me at least every few days, and now I'm going crazy wondering what happened. I keep saying maybe he's busy with work and his family, but at the same time.. why can't he respond or send a simple text saying 'hey i'm sorry, i've been busy..' or SOMETHING so i'm not left wondering. I'm trying not to let it bother me and I keep saying I don't care..but it's hard. I hate not knowing .. Anyone been in a similar situation and give me some advice?
I haven't talked to my boyfriend in four days :/ ?
Yeah, I would not call this dating. And I do not think he cares about you or loves you. I would never go that long without talking to my girlfriend. No one would go that long if they cared about somebody. You need to have some self respect and move on with your life.
If a guy always waits days to text after our first few dates, is he not into me, looking for anything serious or is he trying to not appear so eager?
Generally it depends on the type of guy he is.Most men don't text back because he doesn't want to come across as eager because he doesn't want to scare you away.On the other hand he may be very busy and doesn't want to constantly text or call unless it is to meet up again.Then there is the trick to make you think about him which you're doing now! Which allows him go have a grasp on you.However you know the person more than me, what he is like, his dating history and what he wants.I'll give you a story though of a family member.Me: I've felt very lost like I don't know what to do anymore since we broke up.Uncle: you'll feel like that Mikey, it's normal you're learning.Me: it's weird. We spoke everyday, shared some much, loved one another and I just cannot believe it.Uncle: when things end people change, you'll find someone who is right for you. It won't happened all of a sudden but it will happen.Me: I don't know…Uncle: I'll tell you a story. When I met your aunty for the first time I though “wow…she is gorgeous. I am way out of my league with this woman.” we got on and had an amazing date. Anyway after the date we both said bye and headed home. I wanted to text her so badly, but didn't want to come across to strong!Me: so what happened?Uncle: your aunt texted me the very next day “I didn't know whether to text or not, but I wanted to say that the date was really good and I enjoyed being in your company!” I felt completely the same way and that's when I knew she was the right woman for me.They've been married for over 12 years now and they love and fight but that's life but that little story sprung to my mind.
GUY Question: If a guy doesn't text you back for a few days a does that mean he's not into you?
So this guy I've been talking to has been texting me and he usually would text me every second day, now it's been four days and he just texted me. Is he not interested? It seems like he is when were texting, but sometimes he won't answer me back. But he also gives me like paragraph text messages. I'm really confused, is he just trying to get rid of me by not texting as much?