Can my parents kick me out if I pay rent and I don't have any money to move out?
I’m confused here. You have money to pay rent, but you don’t have money to move out?If you pay rent, you have the rights a renter has, which pretty much means you have the right to notice before being thrown out, and you can’t be thrown out until the next rent is due. But that’s not very helpful. If you have an actual lease, they can’t toss you until the lease is up. But that’s not a typical situation between parent and child.If your parents follow the legal requirements for notice, yeah, they can throw you out. And there’s nothing you can do about it.It’s time to ask why they want to throw you out. Are you a pain to live with? Are you disrespectful to your parents? Do you sit around smoking dope and playing video games instead of going to work or going to college? You could remedy any of these things, so that maybe they would be more comfortable with your continuing to live with them.
Can my parents kick me out if I have nowhere to go?
I'm 19, and my parents are getting progressively worse with me, calling me harsh names and telling me I'm not going anywhere with my life, today I finally stood up for myself and they beat me took all my belongings and threatened to kick me out. I have nowhere to go, and I couldn't get a job because they lost my birth certificate. Can they kick me out immediately?
What may happen to a child when her to narcissistic parents get divorced from one another?
This actually happened to me. My father is a malignant and my mother is a covert. When I was 4, my mother claimed my father nearly beat her to death, and I may never know the real story behind that. My dad was looking at five years in prison, but she tried to drop the charges, and failed. He still spent a year in prison. While in jail, she filed for divorce. When he got out, custody court battles were the norm. I lived with my mother full time and saw my father every other weekend. They had fights through me, since I would repeat what they said. If I stood up to him about anything, my father used my mom's name as a derogatory term, and vice versa. They could never be in the same room together, even just to sign paperwork. I remember once, when I was 9, we needed both their signatures on a form for something, and my dad was about to explode, while my mom was being condescending to him. If the environment wasn't quiet and peaceful, they would probably have been yelling at each other. My mother has always been obsessed with the image she portrays, and once my father was out of my life, she began making arrangements to get me out too. For my 18th birthday, she gave me an eviction notice. As we speak, I'm packing my things to move out of her house. A girl being born to a pair of narcissists is bad enough fortune as it is, but when they start to see her as the other parent, in this way or that, they might take out their anger for the other on her. And that is bad for any kid.
What happens to you when your parents don't love each other but put up with each other?
Family is the most important thing. When everything else goes wrong, it's our family whom we turn to. So, home should be a place of warmth and love. When one lacks this foundation of hope and togetherness, life can get difficult.I'm a 29 year old girl and I have an elder sister who is 34. Our parents don't love each other. It was difficult to grow up seeing our parents fighting all the time. They also have separate professions. So, my mom wasn't at home all day. Our granma took care of us while my parents were away during the day. So there was very less time that we had our parents at home. Even the very less time they spent together was filled with nasty fights and unnecessary arguments. While my sister and I eagerly waited for our parents to get back home from work to spend some happy time with them, all we got was an earful for how things are unpleasant. Whilst all our friends and cousins had a nourishing childhood, me and my sister were left to ourselves to grow up as good individuals. Our parents did realize the importance of education because of which my sister and I shaped our lives for the better. My sister is a research scientist at an environmental firm, and I'm employed in the IT industry.Here comes the drawback of the early childhood days spent with parents who don't love each other.First of all, my sister and I don't stay with our parents anymore, we moved out for higher education and found jobs elsewhere. We dread going home. We are dependent on others for emotional strength. Because we lack the emotional stability and strength from family, we face several odds everyday.Second, I am unable to trust another person when it comes to marriage. I feel that my marriage would end up in a bad way. Although I feel that I can turn things around for myself and learn from my parents mistakes, it's difficult to surpass the childhood unpleasant incidents. My sister faces the same problem too. Although we both are educated and employed and have found our ways for our life, we are unhappy constantly. We don't find love at home, we aren't able to find love for ourselves for fear of it going wrong.I hope to find love that I can trust and hope for it to be true so I can have a better family some day. Guess I'll have to wait and watch.
Will I be in trouble if I move out of county/state while I have an open CPS case,or will they just transfer it?
This depends on the type of case you have. If you have been to court, then your child is a 'dependent' and the county of LA has legal custody - regardless of who the child lives with. If that is the situation, then you could be criminally charged with kidnapping for taking the child out of state. If you have not been to court, then you likely have a voluntary case. In which you agreed to allow your daughter to live with your mother and have never been to court. If that is the case, you are free to leave. You can notify the social worker you are leaving. They won't transfer the case but will make a referral to CPS where you are moving and they will come out and check up on you to see that everything is fine. Also, some counties in CA do court-ordered voluntary cases, where the child is a dependent (custody with the county) but the child continues to live with a parent. This could give you trouble if you leave without permission. If I were you, I'd call your social worker and schedule a meeting with her at her office and maybe ask for her supervisor to be there. Ask what type of case you have so you know your rights. Inform them of why you want to move and how this will help with whatever the original concerns were. If you have a court case, your attorney would need to petition the court for permission to move. I know this probably sounds like a lot to do...but the last thing you want to do is accidently break the law. Something like fleeing with a child that is a dependent will guarentee her removal from you and affect every aspect of your case. Make sure you know who has legal custody of your child first and then make a decision. If you do move...tell the social worker you want your address kept confidential and they will not be able to legally tell your mother where you have gone.
How do I move out of state with a child who I share custody with?
You will need the written notarized permission of the other parent, or a Court Order, which would be very hard to get if the other party objects. If you share custody of a minor child you are pretty much stuck in the same area as the other parent until the child turns 18. I personally knew of a woman who took her 2 small daughters out of state to marry her boyfriend and tried to circumvent the whole legality of it, but the father requested and received an emergency hearing to contest the moving of his daughters without his permission. The very pissed-off Judge ordered the mother to return the children to the city of the father IMMEDIATELY or face Contempt charges. The mother attempted to ignore this Order and was then arrested and jailed and this same Judge then granted the father FULL custody of the children. The mother was given only supervised visitation because she showed willful non-compliance and could not be trusted to keep the children in the designated area.
Single Parents-Have you ever lost a job due to childcare issues?
I am curious to know how many single parents have ever lost a job because they could not find qualified childcare? Or, the childcare you had made your child constantly sick so you had to miss work (daycares)? I am finding it to be the hardest thing in my life as a new parent and especially being single with no living family as a back-up plan. Though I am excellent at what I do, College educated, and considered a valuable employee, the childcare issue is always at the forefront. Now it may even cause me to lose my job. Any personal experiences with this would be much appreciated. Thank you.
What is the Alabama law that states I cannot move more than 60 miles from the other parent in a divorce?
I'm from a different city than where I live now and have bought a house and raise my kids. I'm getting a divorce and I have no help with childcare what so ever here. I feel I have no choice but to go back to the town I'm from and have family and friends help me with my kids while I work to support them. On the other hand all my husbands family lives by us and have said they( mother-in-law) would help me, until I pissed them (her) off and now they will never help me so on and so forth (all over this divorce) . So i'm still jobless and going nowhere. My husband has a cousin that is a lawyer and told him there is a law, where I cannot move no more than 60 mile from him. I have talked to someone myself that states I have to write him a certified letter before I move, How do I go about this letter to make it la-git to cover myself and if I move will I have to move back to this town after divorce court? HELP! I cannot pay $125.00 in lawyer fees now, i'm trying to save my money.