"Sorry, you've reached your daily asking limit.", but this is the only question I've asked in the last 24 hours!?
"Sorry, you've reached your daily asking limit.", but this is the only question I've asked in the last 24 hours! "Sorry, you've reached your daily asking limit. Earn more points or come back tomorrow to ask more.", but I haven't asked anything in the last 24 hours (I've done <= 5 total over my whole time at YahooAnswers.com), and I've even answered less than 10 in the last 24 hours. I'm at level 2 as of this question posting. Level Points Questions Answers Follows 3 1000-2499 15 120 100 2 250-999 10 80 100 1 1-249 5 20 100 https://answers.yahoo.com/info/scoring_s...
I asked a girl out and she said, sorry but I can't. Is she saying try harder or go away?
No means no. Any variation of the word no, may be a way of her trying to let you down easy, or maybe she’s just trying to be polite. But it’s all the same - anything but a yes, means no.“Maybe another time” = no“Try me again in the new year” = means no, for now at least“I wish I could…” = you got it, means noI know that some responses seem like a “grey area”, but for your sanity, for your ego, and because consent is sexy you should consider anything that is not an overwhelming YES!, to be a no.You will be happier in the long run if the girl you are asking out is as excited to be with you as you are with her.EDIT: I have never said no or given a negative response when I secretly wanted him too. Any girl who does that is not a girl you need in your life, avoid women who play head games.
What was the last thing you said to your ex?
Thursday, August 29 at 7:30 PMMy phone rang, it was my ex calling me after two months. I knew the purpose of the call instantly.Me: Hey ! . . .been a while.She: How are you? Any luck with the job?Me: Well …, the search is still on; I have two leads though, mostly it will work out.She: Okay.Me: So . . . How are thi…She: My marriage is fixed.Me: Wow . . . that’s great news! I am so happy for you. (I had been practicing this for a while)Me: So, who is the lucky guy ?She: I can’t tell you.Smiling forcefully even though she couldn't see meMe: Ohkay …. What’s his name?She: I can’t . . .I wasn't prepared for such a responseMe: So, when is the big day? Are you engaged? (My heart skipped so many beats when I asked her this; yet, I was surprised uttering such words without blacking out)She: It’s not decided yet. (Gloomily)Me: I want to tell you something . . .I am sorry for all the times I have hurt you.She: (Sobbing)Me: I just want you to do everything in your wedding, how you always imagined it to be, go all the way out and invite all our friends.She: I am sorry, I can’t invite you.Like i'd come if you did invite, I thoughtMe: I know . . . that’s OK.She: (Sobbing)Me: It’s Okay (Smiling widely , I was hoping that'd reflect in my voice). The worse is over, it’s done. I wish you all the happiness in the world, I have nothing against you. Go ahead with your life and live it fully, and may be someday when we are way ahead in the future, I hope we run into each other. Remember this, you are a beautiful person, you deserve to be happy. (I ended my speech)She: I am sorry. (Sobbing)My mum called for me from downstairsShe: Goodbye, Sujath.Me: Goodbye,*her name*.Her last word was my name and my last was hers.She got engaged after two days and married month and a half later.That was the last time we spoke.
What was the last thing you said to someone before they died?
“I hate you”I was married at a very young age. I was only seventeen and marrying to escape a very dysfunctional relationship with my mother. I knew it was wrong and tried to stop the marriage 2 weeks before but he wanted to be married. He was a very sweet guy and I didn’t have the heart to say no.We had been married over 2 years and he went with my father for one trip in a big rig. He fell completely in love with it and went on to be a long haul driver. I was so upset.My mother was a truckers wife and I did not want that life. I wanted to share everyday with a partner. Tracy was a good guy and he was doing something he loved and was proud of. It caused a lot of issues and I turned into an angry and resentful wife.We were having some arguments and I was so very young. We spoke on a Thursday night on the phone. Back in those days there were no cell phones. As we were speaking I became angry and in the heat of the moment I said those fateful words. I didn’t mean them.He was on his way home on an early Saturday morning. At 5:15 am I sat straight up in bed from a deep sleep and gasp. It felt strange. I laid back down and tried to sleep. The next thing I knew it was 6:15 and my husbands boss and my daddy’s best friend were standing in my bedroom. It was surreal. I could hear screaming and wailing in the background.Although my mother and father was on a road trip in his big rig, I knew instantly who it was.I looked at them and said I know. It’s Tracy, he’s dead. It is still unsolved to this day. He was on the CB at the moment it happened and he said “oh my god, I blew a tire” he turned over and rammed into a bridge crushing him. The truck had no blown tires and during the investigation the whole truck was removed from the yard it was taken to. I was told they thought a steering column broke but without evidence it could never be certain. I wonder to this day. I need the closure.Lesson learned. I have never used the word hate ever again. Nor any rude word. I even taught my children, who are now grown, to never use hurtful words. And as far as I know it made an impact on them. I never heard disparaging or hateful words from either of them.The only thing is. I can’t take it back. That happened over 38 years ago and I have never forgiven myself.SO PLEASE THINK BEFORE YOU SAY HURTFUL THINGS!!!! SOMETIMES YOU DONT HAVE THE CHANCE TO SAY “I AM SORRY”
Sorry if I sound stupid but, my boyfriend beat me up last night. I know this is a long story, but I need help.?
I went on Facebook to see that my boyfriend had been flirting with his ex, and he changed his relationship status from 'in a relationship' to 'in an open relationship'. I was so troubled by this that I couldn't even study for the exam I had the next day. He was acting very strangely and didn't even say hello to me when he came home (we share an apartment). I went to talk to him about what might be wrong and why he made those posts on facebook, and he just ignored me n kept typing on his computer. Then when I asked him, why he put that he is in an open relationship he said 'so what its open isn't it its not a secret!' Then he started laughing hysterically i asked him to please stop laughing at n he woldnt stop(I was on the verge of crying and he didn't even care) so I took his lap top and put it on the chair and asked him to stop laughing at me... He just kept laughing and demanding that I give his laptop back... I was asking him if he cares about me, and he just laughed even harder and said 'hmmm' so i lost it and slapped him and shouted 'stop laughing at me, this isn't funny' i was crying and he picked me up and body slammed me and started punching me all over my body and slapped me in the face and choked me all the while calling me a b*tch! He wouldn't let me use the internet or my cell phone after and he wouldn't let me go in the bathroom n close the door and he followed me whereever i went in the apartment all night...And he locked the front door of the apartment with the key so I couldn't leave... He is a really quiet and shy guy so it is very surprising. He beat the sh*t out of me for a good 10-15 minutes and my whole body hurts. Is this my fault since I hit him first and took his laptop while he was using it? Today he was crying and begging me to forgive him and not leave him... I don't know what to do...Please help me out
He said he's sorry we couldn't work things out & be more than friends...what does he want?
Long story short, I've known this guy for 2 years and have always liked him. We started dating about 3 months ago. 3 weeks ago I broke it off because I felt like I had way stronger feelings than him and I could tell he had commitment issues. He was fine with the decision, but texted me that night saying he wished it didnt have to happen and that he wanted to talk again. Over the next 3 weeks, we talked every few days, and HE told ME that he thought we were better off as just friends. Tonight he asked if we could meet to talk. We talked for about 45 minutes just catching up, and he asked twice if we are just friends now. I said yes, because thats what we decided before. I'd LOVE to date him again, but only if he can get over his commitment issues. 20 minutes after our talk, he texted me saying that he was glad we talked and that he was sorry that we couldn't work things out for us to be more than friends. So...it feels like he's back and forth between "we're better off as just friends" and "I'm sorry it didnt work out/we need to talk things through". What do you think he wants?
Is it rude or polite to say: "I am sorry for many questions. Of course you can answer whenever you have a time”?
I find it toady and annoying. Presumably you’ve written me a bunch of messages with questions already. So I have to make time to read and answer them. Then you waste my time by apologizing and making me read another message for no reason?It’s obvious I can answer whenever. No need to say that.When I ask someone questions I put “important” in the subject line if it needs immediate attention, and “unimportant” if I mean she can answer when and if she feels like it.
Girl cancelled first date, says she's really sorry and wants to reschedule?
People get busy, and it sounds like she truly is busy and not just BSing you. She wouldn't be texting you so much if she was trying to get out of it. You should just occupy yourself with something else (have the phone handy in case she messages). That way you are focused on something other than her availability and will relax. Watch some TV, read a book, something like that. Don't just sit there staring at the phone. And be a bit more understanding of people's schedules. If she really is this busy, you should be flattered she is setting aside time for you. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't bother. You'll be fine. Just stop waiting for the phone to buzz and do something else instead. When you finally hear back from her, it should be with a "Oh look at that" instead of a "OMG I have been waiting for this message for HOURS!!!"
Girl cancelled first date, says she's really sorry and wants to reschedule?
Last week, I told this girl i like her and she said she likes me too. I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime and she said yes. Over the past few days we've had a few multi-hour-long texting sessions and it seems like she's really interested. We had made plans for Saturday night, but she texted me yesterday saying just found out she has something to go to and is really sorry. She asked if we could possibly reschedule, but then said she wasn't sure when she's free. I then told her I felt like this date might never actually happen, and she said she's just been really busy and it will happen. We talked today and she suggested Sunday night, but she said she might have to visit her grandparents, she doesn't know yet. She said she'll text me tonight. I'm starting to get really paranoid because I really like her and want to go out with her.
My ex-boyfriend said he was sorry that he hurt me. Why did he say this after 2 years apart and why did he even bother?
This is actually quite common after someone goes through emotional-focused therapy (EFT). Perhaps they just went through that?Some background: men in particular are not in-tune with their emotions very well, partly because most cultures don’t push us to develop those skills. Nothing gets passed down from father to son; men are taught to “toughen up” in our society, not express themselves constructively.The unfortunate effect of this is they often act like “bulls-in-a-China-shop” when it comes dealing with relationships. They may end up being overly critical, getting angry, and saying mean things, and not understanding the consequences or damage they might be having.EFT is a type of therapy that turns on the emotional switch, and it allows one to finally see their life and world in a different light. At the risk of sounding overly-dramatic, it’s like finally being able to see and FEEL emotions at a deep level. Like suddenly allowing a blind person to see.As you can imagine, feeling all these emotions at once can be quite shocking to someone who has lived their life shutting out their emotions. They end up running through a near lifetime of emotional moments in their head, and all of a sudden connecting the dots as to what they did wrong in those precious relationships that failed. And perhaps feeling badly they may have treated someone so harshly or without love or care at a certain point.This then ends up causing him to feel a wave of shame and guilt. It can be overwhelming, particularly because it’s all coming at once in a tidal-wave fashion. As a response, they will reach out and apologize, because they are good people whom perhaps were not given all the tools to adequately deal with what they were dealing with.If you sense he is just apologizing, and he wasn’t abusive, and you sense they are not looking for anything more, then I would consider just accepting the apology, and thanking him for making the effort. This will help bring closure to the pain he may be feeling for making you feel bad.At the end of the day, he probably is just doing his best to be a good person, and now that he can “see”, he’s hoping to get some closure.As others here point out, it’s possible he may want to rekindle the relationship. That’s more difficult to judge just from this.