How do I get my name off of my ex-girlfriend’s car loans?
Let me guess, you’re a co-signer?Sorry my friend, but there isn’t much you can do if she is keeping up with the payments.What you can do (If you are on speaking terms) is ask your ex to get a co-signer release. Usually the bank requires two years of on-time payments before they will allow this. You can also ask her to to refinance the loan in her own name.Now, if she is not making the payments, its a whole other story. You should be able to sell the car and pay off the loan.No matter what, make sure that the payments are being made on time because this situation can ruin your credit.I hope this is a lesson learned.
My girlfriend has a tattoo of her ex's name on her shoulder. How should I deal with it when she is naked?
Oh baby... Seeing her ex's name every time you make love(just to be polite in language).Communication is the only answer. Because you don't want to keep it limited to only a few positions.Besides you would know that the name is there.Talk your feelings out with your girl, tell her it bothers you.Ask her if it's permanent?If yes, would she be willing to modify it?If no, can you remember that though the name of her ex is there, the girl is still with you.Why Why Why can't she modify it?????Don't ask her this question.Modifying the name is very difficult. Most of the times it gets ugly.And besides would you be able to forget that there was the name of her Ex in that new tattoo???But if you still find it hard, simply ask her to call out your name when she is climaxing and also during sex. That should give you confidence, if she isn't calling your name already during orgasm, but some girls don't have the habit to say anything during orgasm, so be polite it might take some time.
My girlfriend wants to get my name tattooed on her...Should I try to stop her?
My girlfriend and I are a great couple. We love eachother very much and have been with each other for quite some time now. She recently told me what my Valentines Day gift from her was going to be (apparently she couldn't wait til the 14th.) She told me that her and her sister are going to get tattoos of each other's significant other's names. For whatever reason, I'm completely disturbed by this, and really don't want her to go through with this. Am I in any way justified in being concerned? It has nothing to do with our current relationship, in fact, our relationship is great and I don't see any reason why we would break up or seperate. But statistics see another side to the story. I just really would be uncomfortable with her getting the tattoo, and its hard to express that to her without her thinking I'm intending to break up, or to make her think that I don't love her enough because I absolutely refuse to ever consider having her or any other girl's name tattooed on me.
If I remove my girlfriends name from "in a relationship with.." on facebook, will it remove me from hers also?
i want to delete my girlfriends name off my in a relationship with part on facebook. when i added her, she had to confirm we were in a relationship and it added my name to hers. so if i delete her name will it delete me from hers?
I really want to tattoo my girlfriend's name on my body, but she says it's bad luck. How can I change her mind?
I'm a strongly pro-tattoo person, but I have to agree with your girlfriend here. You should not tattoo her name anywhere on your body, for several reasons:It's too strong of a romantic gesture, especially for someone you're only dating. Getting someone's name tattooed on your skin is only appropriate for couples that have been married for a long time, since there already is a real sense of permanence and commitment to the relationship. She doesn't want you to do it. That should be the end of the conversation right there. I'm sure that she appreciates the gesture, but if she doesn't want her name on your body, you should let it go and move on. It puts a crushing amount of pressure on her. When you make an enormous and permanent sign of devotion, like a tattoo, she will feel like you're obligating her to do the same thing. That is unfair, and may cause her to want to break up with you. Trying to change her mind on an issue like this will most likely make you seem unreasonable. As applies to many aspects of a relationship, this is one place where no means no. Respect her decision. Pressuring her to change her mind will lead to resentment.If you two break up, you will regret getting that tattoo. You'll be stuck with a memory of someone that you can't easily rid yourself of. If you two break up, it could damage your romantic prospects in the future. Some women simply won't date a guy with another woman's name on him, unless he's a widow. Some will not date a guy who tattoos women's names on himself while dating. It'll make you seem like you fall in love too easily and quickly. You'll seem reckless. If you two break up, you will either have to get it removed (costly) or get it covered with another tattoo (costly). Unless you have a lot of money lying around, that's just wasteful.Does she even like tattoos? If someday you marry this girl and you two share a few anniversaries together, then you can consider getting her name on your skin. Maybe she'll even want to join you for a couple's tattoo session. But anytime before then is a recipe for disaster.
My girlfriend co-signed on a car loan for her son and his girlfriend. They are behind on payments. What can she do?
Is she a cosigner or a co-owner? How does the title read? She has every right to make payments on it. If it's in her name she can go take it. If the title reads John Or Jane, she can take it and sell it. If it reads John AND Jane, she can take it and keep it but can't sell it without the other parties signed permission. She may be able to get the lender to repo it and then remove her son & girlfriend and then get the car in only her name. She would have to pay the repo fee, obviously and the back payments. Her credit is being hurt so she needs to do something. Calling the lender would be the first step. I knew of a couple that bought a car together...and later broke up. They pretty much had to work between themselves to pay for it and share usage because they were both on the title, they could and did steal it back & forth from each other occasionally. And its not really theft because both have a right to the car. No matter who paid what. Now she knows why cosigning is a bad deal.
My ex husbands new girlfriend tattooed my children's name on her leg....am I wrong to be upset by this?
They've been dating a few months...he left us for her. I put their names on my back after each labor to celebrate their birth.....its always been special and private to me...... BUT SHE PUT THEIR NAMES ON HER! I've always been an advocate of being rational/calm....but really, I'm so distressed by this! Only human. Am I wrong to feel this way? Or do I need to calm down? I'm having trouble sleeping over it. THEY ARE MY KIDS!! She may love them, but I feel she's crossed the line. Am I being oversensitive? Am I over-analyzing my emotions........am I wrong or over- reacting? Because this hurts and angers me equally. Please help....I feel like a sad whack job over this bs.
Why can't I link to my girlfriend’s name on Facebook when in a “relationship” status?
If it is what I am thinking, where it shows you two are in a relationship… BOTH of you have to switch that you are in a relationship with the other person. She might still have “single” listed, or have no relationship info listed at all. She may have no clue how to make the changes, or she might know exactly how and his hesitating because she is unsure as of yet. Like, “Why add him as a status before I know it’s going to last more than a month?”
Facebook: if you remove somebody from your siblings list do they get notified or does it come up on your wall?
No. When you add a sibling, it just creates a link from your page to theirs. So when you remove them as a sibling, it is removed from your page and their page still has your name--it is just no longer a link and will appear black instead of blue. So they will be able to see that you removed them, but they won't actually be notified of it.