How long did you wait to revisit a place that brings back bad memories?
It took 12 years to park in the lot of a store where I'd been assaulted getting out of my car.During the decade following, shopping became a horrible task. My anxiety over it increased as my behavior changed to accomodate the fear. I parked in specific areas without other cars around so I didn't have to worry about someone being in between cars. My limit was two small bags of groceries at a time, so I could get them into my car quickly. I became almost ritualustic about it, incredibly hypervigilent and preoccupied.When the incident initially happened, because I wasn't actually raped, I didn't think it was a huge deal. I only told two people. They didn't think so either because ‘it could have been worse'. I chanted that like a mantra as I tucked it away in the back of my head. It sat, but my behaviors changed and the anxiety grew.Eventually, after opening up in therapy, I processed it and felt validated. I cried. At the same time, I'd been working up to getting something I've always wanted --a tattoo. After a session one day, just suddenly, I was ready. I got my tattoo on the way home and felt empowered by the new expression of myself I displayed. I drove right to that store, parked in the same place I did 12 years before and sat in the car for 30 mins.. I was able to breathe. I didn't cry.After that, I was able to load my trunk with groceries. If some fear creeped back on me, I'd just look at the tattoo on my wrist. I don't have to look at it anymore.
How do you stop thinking about a person you've lost when visiting a place you often went with them or doing something you often did together?
More you stop, more it comes. Accept it that ,you have lost the person. But you are complete without anybody.It's attachment which makes you depressed. It's a choice that after loosing anybody or anything how we react.We loose people . They can ditch. They can die.Everybody has to die. We are mortal. Life is short to being sad.It's the golden time when you can say,that you want to focus on some great things. There is lot to do things in improving self health,wealth,happiness.. education for others, food for needy and a long listYou can change your focus and you will see,you are happier in creativity.tTruth is,these farewells are part of life. You can be sad,depressed,cry. It'd your life. ButI know,hidden question is ,how should I deal? Or How should I be happy?Changing the focus helps. Focus on your priorities. We feel guilt now and then . Avoid that . Keeping your self in creative things which are useful for others,help.I hope it helps you, Be happy. Make new friends. I don't know who left and why. But you deserve to be good.
If you vowed to revisit this exact time place and date if time machines were invented, would you appear in front of yourself?
No, you would not.The question asked “if time machines were invented”.Let’s not get into the impossibility of such a thing according to physics. Let’s first assume that at the ultimate end of physics we will discover a GUT (Grand Unified Theory), and it will tell us how to warp time and travel through it in the opposite direction.First, we are not anywhere close to discovering the end of physics. For example, current models of physics indicate that the electromagnetic force and the two nuclear forces will become equal in strength at 1 * 10^25 electron volts. To prove this, we must build a particle accelerator that surrounds the entire solar system in order to have enough power.Other similar projects to prove theories are also likely to take an incredible amount of time. There will likely be a lot of theories disproven, and we will realize that there is much more laws to discover.Even if, along the way, we discover ways to prolong human life, most of us probably will not live to the day that time travelling machines are invented.Not to mention, time-travel is likely impossible, because it would break causality, and the universe, and everything.Therefore, if you vowed to revisit the place and time you were at if time machines were invented, and you did see your (older) self appear in front of you, you know bad things will happen.The light cone of your new, broken, physics-less world will expand and the speed of light and destroy the universe from end to end.Everyone Dies™
Seniors, do you often think back in your past, the good things that happened with you?
Sure, that's what our memory is for right? I had a wonderful childhood because of all the people in my life who loved me and cared for me. It would be a shame if I didn't reflect back to those times and remember what a blessing those good times were and the people who made them great. Unfortunately, my memory doesn't just remember the good times ... sometimes I am taken back to the bad times too. I'd like to delete the bad time memories but, if I could, I don't know that I would, because I've learned a lot from the bad times too and can use that knowledge as a tool to do better. But yes, I do look back at times because I never want to forget my loved ones who are no longer with me. I can't imagine what it would be like if I didn't have the ability to revisit the past once in awhile. The good times were a learning experience that I try to give back to others ... why would I not want to revisit those days?
How does one feel when revisiting a bad memory?
It had been 5 years , since they met . Both of them happy at their own places . He was studying Mechanical engineering and the girl Bachler of Commerce . The last thing she remembered , before split of 14years of friendship and their one year relationship , was his statement ,”You like Commerce graduate girls end up marrying us like Mechanical engineers “.And then post a 3 year blockade from each other , destiny happened. She received a call letter(For MBA ) from the same university where he was studying. Her brother who accompanied her during the visit happened to be a good friend of the same guy she had dated . They met , and when the girl finished off her interview session she looks upto her brother standing beside the same guy she thought she’d never meet .Because formalities and not making a scene in front of the brother was important .She: HI , Lavanya here !He : (laughs) HI, pleasure meeting you !(Till then her brother came to know about the blockade and the reason . So he leaves both of them in the cafeteria)He: So how have you been , I have heard a lot about you , happy pretty life eh?She : Atleast trying to make one , so that one day I prove you wrong and one of my To-do list item gets waived off .He: Wrong ? I didn’t get you?She: Remember the last statement you gave , before we departed ?“You like Commerce graduates…..”He: Hey , you are still stuck there , move on, also look I’m sorry but it was just the short temper and slip of tongue , (and blah blah reasoning )And then they talked for an hour long , he apologised , he stated he never meant that and later she left .So how bad it was ?It was bad when he stated the statement . It was also bad when she felt about it and grieved for long . It was good when she made her career strong and better when she cleared the interview . It was the best when they were back to talking terms , where due respect was given and where revisiting wasn’t bad but motivating .
How do i know when to revisit worlds on kingdom hearts 2?
Hiya, Its been a while since I played but I do seem to remember that in the world map, the worlds that you needed to go back to, had a sort of gold star circling them (almost like a tiny tinkerbell), I dont think it matters what order you go to the them in. You can always look at http://www.gamefaqs.com/console/ps2/game/915410.html if you get really stuck. Great game though, enjoy!