What do I do if I'm scared of my mom?
Whatever happens, don't take it to your heart. Your mom might have gone through some rough experiences in life that might have scarred her. You should not let the same happen to you.You might be hoping that someone will save you. That someone is you. You have to make yourself strong. Let her scold you. Let her shout at you. You have two ears for a reason. Hear nice things twice as loud. Discard things that make you unhappy.Whatever she wants you to do, do so with a smile. Even if it is a forced smile. With time, she will become confused by the change in you. She'll struggle to find faults in you.Break from the monotony. Take your family out on a small trip or even a movie. It will help take your mind off things.There must be someone who she listens to. Call them and explain your problem to them. Note - Won't work if they have a tendency to favour her. They might be able to convince her.Be patient.Gradually, things will change for the better.I believe in you :)Go and make things better.All the best :)
I'm scared my dentist will find out I'm bulimic?
I'm fourteen years old, and I am bulimic. I have a dentists appointment tomorrow, and I'm scared he or she will see that I have a disorder. Can they see this? Also, if they can tell, will they tell my parents? What will they do about it?
I'm scared my parents are going to find out?
Okay so just as a heads up I'm good girl, but i just made a sort of mistake. So my parents had to go out of town, and i didn't have anyone i could stay with, so my parents allowed me to stay with my boyfriend and his parents for 2 nights (I'm 15). They totally trust me, and i have NEVER done anything bad before. I've never cursed, had alcohol, and i wanted to stay a virgin till i was married. Well any ways, so my boyfriend's parents weren't home and after his basketball game he was really sweaty and needed to take a shower. He somehow convinced me to get in with him. So we were fooling around in the shower (Never done anything this before) and my bf's dad came home cause he left something important in the bathroom (idk what...) and had to come in there. He saw us and started screaming at us. His mom came home and they just treated me as if i were their daughter and they just yelled at me so much cause i guess they thought they could trust us. Well after they cooled down they made us promise we wouldn't do anything when they went back out and i truly thought i wouldn't. Well that night we started making out and things did go further than i wanted them to and we had sex. We thought we were in the clear since his parents weren't home, but apparently they have video camera's in most of their house (basically a mansion so they need protection) and they saw it. They were even angrier and they made us break up. I started crying and his mom said she was gonna tell my parents what happened. My parents are extremely strict and if they found out i would be grounded till i'm like 30. I mean to me this really isn't a big deal, cause i mean its just sex, but for some reason my parents take it really seriously. So anyway do you have any ideas of how to stop his mom from telling my parents, or how to get out if this mess? Thanks... ik this isn't really an interesting question but i need your help.
Cheated on my girlfriend, I'm scared she will find out?
I know cheating is wrong but I was drunk and she was all over me and I gave it, its my fault but its not like I went looking for it nor was I in a sober state. Anyway my friends girlfriend knows and she just split up with him and she's friends with my girlfriend and I'm scared she will tell because girls are twisted like that, if she finds out what should I do, it was like 3 months ago. Help! I asked this in another section and all the answers were mean as hell.
Cheated on my girlfriend, I'm scared she will find out?
I know cheating is wrong but I was drunk and she was all over me and I gave it, its my fault but its not like I went looking for it nor was I in a sober state. Anyway my friends girlfriend knows and she just split up with him and she's friends with my girlfriend and I'm scared she will tell because girls are twisted like that, if she finds out what should I do, it was like 3 months ago. Help!
I'M SCARED! my dr. told me a few hrs ago, that she could not locate a heart beat. I'm 8 months prego.?
I was at the store today, returning a grocery cart i had dropped my car keys. as i was trying to stand up 2 boys were horsing around( one running w/ a cart & the other was chasing him) the boy w/ the cart slammed into my belly, the impact was so hard that i fell to the ground while hitting my head on the metal rail. I was told by my dr. to go to the hospital tomorrow afternoon to be induced. any info on what to expect would really be appreciated! THANK YOU
I'm scared of driving. How can I overcome this fear?
First, a little fear when operating 2 tons of metal at 60 mph is probably wise. However, if you find your fear is keeping you from performing necessary tasks then you may need some help.Have you taken driving training from a private company? You might feel less anxious if you have an instructor in the car with you. This will also give you practice time in a less stressful environment. Going to a driving school also will lead to your desensitization as you gain safe experience time behind the wheel.Finding a therapist is another option. Be aware, they're probably going to assign homework, doing specific tactics to lower your stress level. It might start as innocuously as sitting in the driver's seat for fifteen minutes parked in your driveway. Then the next step would be to start the engine and get used to the sounds of the running car, practice the way the pedals feel, and so on; take it step by step. Eventually, you will be ready to put the car in gear,practice driving around the block. Then, when you feel it's time drive to the nearest store or drive-in, buy yourself a treat--you deserve it. That's one scenario that your therapist might suggest. I'm sure you and he/she can work out other ways to approach your anxiety.I certainly hope these ideas help. I can't drive anymore because of medication and I miss the freedom. Don't let anxiety deprive you of that liberty.Jeff
Im scared my parents will disown me?
please dont get an abortion. its not you baby's fault that you made a mistake. make sure he/she has a chance at life. he/she is just as much a person as you are. plus abortions have the nastiest side effects. they cause severe depression, possible damage to your insides, guilt, increased risk of breast cancer, and most importantly, the death of a human being. if you cannot take care of it, you can always give it up for adoption. sorry for the lecture. i just feel really strongly about that. just tell your parents, i know its going to be hard but its important that they know soon so that you can get the proper prenatal care. its the most important to make sure that you baby is taken care of in its earliest stages of development. chances are your parents will freak out at first but then they will come around to accept it and will be supportive. trust me, ive seen this happen a million times. you will be okay.