Can a 17 year old runaway be forced to go back home in Texas?
The cops probably won't go looking for her, specifically, but if they do happen to find her your parents will be charged with harboring a runaway and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Getting emancipated is very nearly impossible, and takes a long time. She would have to be capable of completely supporting herself, without help from anyone, and that means she can't just crash at someone's house. She does need to go to the cops, even if her stepdad is the sole breadwinner in the family. Her mom can work, you know. And if her stepdad molested her, there is absolutely no guarantee that he will keep his hands off her little brothers, so she's not really protecting them, she is enabling him.
My husband got orders to korea will they move me back home?
You will be able to stay on the base you currently live on, since spouses can't go to Korea they usually just stay behind at the base they are at stateside wherever that is. I was under the impression Korea is not a PCS (permanent change of station) Korea is considered a TDY (Temp Duty) and so the wife stays behind at the current post while the hubby deploys. Now i have seen alot of wives go home to stay with family while the hubby is gone so they don't have to stay at the current post alone where they dont know anyone. I personally think this is dumb, if you make friends, get a job and emerge yourself in the life at the base your current at then theres no reason to run home to mom and dad because your afraid of being alone. I have survived 3 deployments and have never moved home while my hubby was gone. I sucked it up got a job and kept the home fires burning for my man. I have seen wives stay behind at there current base while hubby's go to Korea. I would ask the RFG or family support and see what they say. EDIT: But staying at your current base is an option which is what i meant, everyone i know at my base that has had a spouse go to Korea has chosen to stay at the current base. I was assuming she was wanting to be moved back to where her family lives just so she wouldnt be alone while her husband is gone. And i think personally that is dumb just my opinion. But thank you for the info about the other 2 options i didnt know those were choices we had.
How can I force someone to pay me the money that they owe me?
There certainly are ways and means of forcing repayment however you will have to use the county courts, and ONLY if that person has realisable assets and/our disposable income. You might need to do some detective work to establish this. Assuming he has you should start with either a county court claim. Assuming you win which you should you can then enforce the judgment by several means should he fail to comply with the order of the court by making either full payment (default judgment) or failing to comply with an instalment order. These are, 1. Apply for a Charging order on equity he has in any property, when the property is sold you get paid from the equity automatically. He cannot prevent this. 2. Attachment of earnings order, (assuming he has disposable income) 3. Apply for a 3rd party debt order which if he has any savings or investments held in a bank or building society will order the bank to freeze his account and pay you. 4. Apply for the court bailiff to enforce the debt by seizing any vehicles he has (which are not exempt) I.e. he needs the vehicle for work and no suitable alternative is available, or tools of his trade, basic living amenities are all exempt. SThe most effective enforcement by far if he has assets is to serve a statutory demand under the insolvency act. If it's served correctly and he does not apply to set aside the demand within 21 days by securing the debt with you, then you can apply for his bankruptcy using a creditors bankruptcy petition. This will cost you well over £1000 but if he has the money and assets it will prompt repayment trust me and this will not involve going to court. Anyone can serve a stat demand it doesn't involve a court. It will frighten the life out of anyone with assets and debts.but it MUST be served on the debtor correctly, and preferably witnessed. I would recommend doing this. If he has nothing then unless his circumstances change fir the better within the next 6 years then I suspect you won't see a penny. You can't get blood out of a stone. Good luck. I
How can I get my ex back when they won't talk to me or text me?
Well, you can get your ex back even he or she has refused to talk to you. In fact, you can get them to talk to you again. It isn’t really that hard. However, first, you need to figure out why your ex has stopped talking to you. Usually, people don’t really cut off communication with their partners lest they have a pretty solid reason for it such as infidelity or trying to move on.If you belong to the first category, then it would be really tough for you get your ex back. But, if the person is using ‘No Contact Rule’ so he or she can move on, then there is a high probability you two can unite again. But you need to realize and respect the fact that your ex needs some time and space for him or herself.So for starters, stop contacting your ex and start following the No Contact rule. Stay away from your ex for at least 30 days and then send them a text. This will give your ex ample amount of time to think about you and your relationship. Allow your ex to come to his/her own conclusion whether they should get back with you. And one will never know they may decide to get back with you. Even if they doesn’t, it’s their loss.So if your ex doesn’t respond it means he/she doesn’t respond to your message there is no harm in giving them another 15 days before connecting with them again. If you still don’t get any response, then you can either try again after two weeks or seriously consider to move on. I would suggest you to move on, but I have a feeling that you won’t.I am saying this because there is literally nothing you can do about it if your ex has decided to move on during the period of No Contact.
Can you force a spouse to help pay the bills?
My S-I-L is having some major issues with her husband. He didn't have a job for 8 months in 2008. He just started working a few weeks ago. While he was at home all he did was sit on his butt and play games on the internet. . . he refused to help clean, take care of the children (one his, one hers), cook . . . anything because it's "the woman's job". She is working at a fast food restaurant, maybe 15 hours/week. Over the months that he wasn't working they slowly fell behind on bills--> electric gets paid only when they get a shut off notice, their phone got shut off, they are 6 months behind on rent--to the point where the only thing her paycheck did was bring the checking account positive just to return to the red a few days later. Now that he's working, he is refusing to deposit his paycheck into the account because of her lack of financial responsibility and her "not" paying the bills. Altogether he has around $600 in paychecks that he is stashing, according to her, and he won't even put gas in their vehicle. In fact, instead of cashing a check, he borrowed money from his 11 year old daughter to buy cigarettes. She was told that he HAS to help pay the bills but I'm not sure if that is true?? I don't know all the details, like if his name is on the bills (I would assume). We live in MO. *She has talked about leaving him several times the past few weeks but seems to lack the conviction to follow thru. He is emotionally and verbally abusive to both her and her son (I've witnessed it), she wanted to start taking classes to further her education to be able to get a better job, and he flat out said that if she did, he would divorce her b/c then she wouldn't be able to work (heaven forbid he would have to pull his own weight). That was said barely a year after he finished his college education during which time (2 years) he flat out refused to work because he was taking classes. The said part is that he hasn't even done anything with the education he received. Anyway, she is wondering if there is any way that she can make him help pay the bills. Any help here is greatly appreciated. **She has asked me to go to the public legal aid office with her on Friday to talk to them because she won't understand the legalities, which I know nada about.
How do I get my GF to give me a back rub?
*This is more of a rant than question* I give this girl massages all the time. She gets them when she's feeling bad and even when she's not. Usually at least once a week and they're pretty good ones too. Whenever I ask for one though it's like I'm asking for her right eye. Often I get a quick "no" even after having to plead my case or her asking for something in return and then not doing it anyway. When I bring it up to her she gets all defensive or just gets mad and ignores me. Annoys the sh*t out of me that she can't be bothered to give me a simple massage most day. Why does she do this??
How can I get her to love me back?
Give the girl some space;-This doesn't mean that you should cut off communication completely unless you think that's best. But you shouldn't text her every five minutes or ask her to hang out with you all the time, unless you want to scare her off.If you give her space, she'll also be more likely to think about you. She'll think, "I haven't heard from [insert your name here] in a while. That must mean that he's just fine without me..." This will intrigue her and make her wonder what you're up to.If she initiates a hang out early on, fine. But don't come on too strong when you do get together.Giving her space is also a sign of maturity. This will make her want you even more.2.Think about what went wrong;-If she was the one who ended things, then you will have more of a challenge on your hands. Think about all of the reasons she ended it; if she ended it abruptly, look through old emails or texts to see if you can pinpoint the problem.If you're the one that ended it, then you may have a different challenge on your hands. You have to convince her that you won't break her heart -- again.3. Make a game plan for addressing the problem;-Part of fixing the problem will mean working on yourself. There's no way that you were blameless in the relationship.Another part of the game plan will mean that you'll have to work on how you perceive her; if her obsession with horses drove you nuts, find a way for it to not annoy you before you move on.If you have to work out some major issues, then make a long-term plan for how you'll do it, whether it's going to therapy, dropping an addiction, or giving yourself a major personality overhaul in some regard.4. Work on yourself;-Devote more time to your favorite hobbies, whether it's biking or mechanics. Being more excited about your interests will make you a more fun person to talk to.Work on developing a more positive attitude toward life. If she feels happier just from being around you, then she'll be more likely to keep wanting to see you.I Think this will help You . Also if want to know more about this go through this link LoveForYou
Should I force my daughter to go to college if she refuses to go?
No. That’s ridiculous. She is not going to apply herself. She obviously doesn’t have a major or career plan. There is no point in her taking on that debt. It’s practically impossible to pay off student debt, so please do not set her up for failure. She can always go back in a few years when she figures out what she wants to do.Working different jobs and industries is the best way to figure out what you are good at, what you enjoy, and it helps identify career paths you would not otherwise understand. I think it’s good to work your way through college as much as possible to keep your debt down and build a more regimented schedule.I personally am more organized when I have a lot on my plate to juggle verses just one task. I tend to procrastinate on one task, but I’m extremely organized when I have a lot on my plate. I become very productive with high expectations on attention to detail because I only have time to do it once. Thi should is great training to manage career, home life, and social life.I divorced my ex-husband. I had a 4 month old and a 1.5 year old when I filed for divorce. I worked full-time, went to school full-time, and I still made family time and doctor appointments a priority. I have an autistic son, so we had therapy everyday before work. It was a crazy schedule, but I worked hard and I got my degrees.We do not know what we are capable of until we face those life challenges. We become our better selves in the face of struggle. My bond with my boys is immense and I wouldn’t change a thing.
How does it feel to die and then come back to life?
I was a child (as I remember, about 4 or 5, given the timeline of events in my life) staying with my grandmother at the time. I just remember being woken up by my grandmother. For some reason she was frantic, but I was so tired. I just wanted to get back to sleep. Why can’t I do that, grandma?She forced me to get out of bed and have some soup. The Wild Thornberries was playing in the background and I almost fell asleep in my soup. A couple of times. My mother walked through the front door and though I was happy to see her, I wasn’t sure why she was there. She wasn’t supposed to be there. Not until the end of the weekend. And why had she gone shopping for clothes? And most importantly, why did I have to change into them? None of these women understood I just wanted to get some damned sleep! I’d been woken up from one of the best naps I can remember.When the front door opened again, it was a couple of EMTs. They were very friendly. Especially to my mother and grandmother because I think they really needed a friend at that moment. They led me and my mother outside and into the back of an ambulance. I was friends with the EMTs but they talked too much. I don’t remember anything they were saying, but I do vividly remember the brief moment in time when I was suddenly watching them talk to me. Actually, I lied. They were talking to my mother. Telling her to back up and give them space. I was finally asleep, I could see it, but they didn’t like it very much. I don’t remember waking up, but I obviously did at some point. And my next memory is being in a hospital with an oxygen mask on. I was told I couldn’t leave until.. geez, I can’t even remember that. Until I’d breathed in all the oxygen? Until I’d been breathing normally for a set amount of time? I just wanted to be home.I later learnt that my grandmother had been calling me to eat, checking on me when I didn’t respond after a while, and discovered I was in bed, not breathing. She called my mother and an ambulance. My mother hadn’t gone shopping, she just brought some clothes from home. And I’d flatlined in the ambulance.The best way I can describe the experience is dreamlike. I didn’t understand anything that was going on and when I finally went, I felt comfortable.All of that said, I’m still terrified to ever go again. Mostly because I know I most likely won’t get to come back next time.
If someone kicks me out of their home suddenly while many of my belongings are inside, what is my legal right to go in to retrieve my belongings and make sure s/he hasn't kept or damaged any of them?
I am not familiar with Virginia state law so I will speak from my experience in Illinois law. If you have been allowed to live in a house and call it home for a long enough period of time then you have the right to continue to live there until such time as you are legally evicted. Basically this means if all else fails you may have the right to enter the residence by force even, because that is your home. It was extremely rare in my experience in which someone would change the locks while another household member would be gone somewhere. When that person got home they had the right to enter the house by whatever means were needed. But it did happen. Usually we would get a call from the person inside the house saying someone is breaking into the house. We would arrive, sort things out and explain to the occupant they cannot deny the other occupant’s use of the residence. In the most extreme case I remember there was a husband who left for work. An hour later he gets a call saying there are people at his house moving stuff outside. He gets there and finds his wife had been chatting with a guy from out of state and was in the process of moving this guy into the house while setting her husband’s stuff on the curb. Long story short, this was now allowed. The wife could take her stuff out of the house and go away with the guy, but she could not set her husband’s stuff on the curb and move this guy in.