Why do some parents hate their children?
There are a number of reasons. Hate is a big word that encompasses a list of emotions. It could be envy, jealousy, distrust, dissatisfaction, personal discovery and shock, resentment and more. We could unpack these:Envy and jealousy - children seem to have more these days. Parents could remember their own youth and childhood and figure they did not have the same money, belongings, attention, schooling, freedom.Distrust - when parents suddenly find themselves caring for teens, they distrust them if they themselves lack the wherewithal to cope. Will the kids prove too much? Will they let them down, be troublesome? Will they be prevented from having a life of their own?Dissatisfaction - Sometimes children can negate everything parents hold to be true. Everything they've based their lives on. When personal tenets are negated, people can feel their whole life means nothing, after all that! So dissatisfaction moves in.Personal discovery and shock - it can be a shock to find out who you are through your children. They make angry statements (I hate you! You're cruel.); happy statements (Love this! Sick!) about stuff parents barely understand or approve of. Some parents believe their children, because they think they've brought them up to tell the truth. So this must be the truth about themselves: they are cruel. They don't understand. They have brought up their kids the wrong way. Ouch.Resentment - when parents have hardly had freedom, joy, love, positive discovery, adventure, happiness... but especially freedom, they resent their children's comparative liberty when it comes to relationships, schooling, belongings, friends, communication ... kids can seem so free, so flooded with stuff. Look at it all - it's possible for all these emotions, or a few of them, to turn into contempt for all the kids represent, rather than the kids themselves, who fade into a representation of what's true, and disappear as people. Parents are really just a package of "grown-up kid", with unresolved problems and issues. And kids make it all worse. Realisation of all this is difficult - and if parents fall in the trap of discussing things with like-minded resentful parents and friends, it's almost un-solvable. They need counselling, with someone who knows what they are talking about.
Don't you hate parents that think their child is perfect?
i had a women tell me her daughter was too smart to be in my sons public school, she couldn`t relate to the children there. Hehehe, it turned out her daughter was ADHD, and kept interrupting everyone. No one wanted to be this child`s friend and the child was arrogant just like the mother.It`s not the parent`s that think their child is perfect that annoy me, it`s the parents that think their child has exceptional skills, or talents, ( when the child doesn`t)......the mother usually can`t see and she makes a fool of herself.." My child needs to be put in a private school because she`s gifted and she can`t relate to normal kids, there`s sooo many kids in public schools with issues", that`s what this women said. Of course her daughter had severe ADHD and behaviour issues and she got rejected by the private school.The private school won`t except behavioural kids. She got egg in her face. I almost felt sorry for her, but it was a serious lesson about arrogance.
Who hates parents who spoil their children rotten?
I can't stand parents who allow their kids to be rude and spoiled in public (geez, even in private) Why doesn't anybody expect kids to behave properly anymore? Why don't today's parents feel that manners and respect are important. I am a parent and my child is not rude and disrespectful.
Can parents actually hate their children...?
I don't think so. Parents can be disappointed in their children, when their choices are bad, but hate? No. Sometimes young people think their parents hate them because the parents don't give in to everything the kid wants, or because they are grounded for one reason or another. In reality, the parents love the kids, and only want what is best for them.
Parents hates black veil brides?
I'm not a fan of theirs. Mostly because I was a teenager in the 80's and it seems BVB are a Motley Crue wanna be rip off band. (jmo). My kids don't care for them, either. But if they did, it wouldn't bother me. Kids are supposed to listen to music their parents hate.