What does it mean when you lose interest in someone very fast?
Well hypothetically speaking people lose interest in others for a couple reasons. They are looking for something particular and do not see it in the other person. Or maybe they Are afraid of getting hurt.... first dates are pretty casual, no commitments. But the second date, third, they start to get more serious. Some people are afraid of getting their heart broken that they would rather break it off before it gets serious so they cannot get hurt. It is a strange thing too because a lot of people dont even know they are doing it. Maybe they have been through a really really bad break up and gotten their heart broken so their mind switches into a state where it makes the person get over someone else very quickly. It is all very interesting. I dont know if this makes sense or not but I hope I helped!
Why do i lose interest in people so fast?
Im 21 years old and never had a real relationship with anyone, i was even dating this girl for a whole year and never felt that in love feeling people talk about...even though we were dating for a year i dont miss her, dont want to be with her or none of the above she was more of something to do, is that bad?...but recently i was dating this girl for only a month we just broke it off yesterday, i did like her and i wanted to be different with her because i felt like we were compatible and was on the same page mentally as far as maturity and how we view certain things, so i tried to do something for her that i never did for anyone by having flowers delivered to her house....then one day she makes a comment and says "i got you exactly where i want you" she said she was just joking when she said it but for some reason that comment stood out too me and made me lose interest in her...idk what my problem is i dont know if its me or is it them or am i robot or do i think too logically because i never care if im not talking to these girls...i dont understand if i liked the girl then why was it so easy for me too let her go
How can I lose interest in someone?
You love who you love, and are attracted to who you feel attracted to.If you feel it is inappropriate to have feelings for the person you are interested in, take a step back and look at yourself. Is there something this person provides, whether it is real or imagined, that satisfies a need, a craving, or longing in your life? If so, reflect upon that so you are fully conscious of what that is. This will provide some guidance on how to handle the situation and move forward.If it is time to end another relationship in your life, end it. If moving forward with your feelings would cause a great deal of emotional pain for someone, rather than act on your interest, it may be time to have a very deep conversation with the person in your life in which the relationship is lacking.You deserve to be happy, and should not stay in a relationship where you feel unsatisfied and unfulfilled. Being at a crossroad like this can be very difficult.
Can someone just suddenly lose interest?
I’m guessing you’re a guy because you don’t know how PMS acts on some women. It’s unlikely that that is the cause of her change in behavior. PMS doesn’t make you do things you don’t want to do, it’s more like it makes you hyper-reactive. If she was a little upset with you, she might be very upset with you, but not to where she does a 180º on you.Or are you saying this sort of thing always happens around her period? It’s unclear to me from what you’ve told us. If this is the first time this has happened to you, it’s unlikely that the change was overnight. It was probably something that was simmering beneath the surface before that finally boiled over. Or maybe someone is spreading rumors about you. I don’t know, but the change would not actually be overnight unless you can point to something that happened.Are you interested in this girl? Maybe she met someone else. I don’t think she should just stop talking to you, but she may not know how to handle it. She may know it would hurt you and not want to do that.There are too many maybes here. With so little information, this is the best I can do.
Girls; How fast can you lose interest?
Depends on a lot of factors. Girls can be interested in more than just one guy at a time, just like guys can be with girls. Often if you play hard to get too much it turns a girl off. You have to let her get you sometimes lol. She could regain interest again if you find a way to spark her interest, but this time don't play hard to get so often, or else she'll feel like you never want to actually settle down with a girl. Hope that helps!
What does it mean if you lose interest to fast?
maybe your not meeting interesting guys. like in my highschool, all the popular guys act the same, are into the same things, blah blah blah. and there just boring. thats y i go for the "weirdos" or the "nerdy" guys. they arnt weird or nerdy, the are just given those labels cuz there different and more interesting than those bland popular guys. maybe try giving one of them a chance
Why do i lose interest in guys so fast?
Sounds as though you have some lofty dreams for your life! Because you're aiming high, and have some definite plans for what you want, you subconsciously push these guys away after the initial attraction because you're afraid that they'll occupy so much of your life that the hopes and dreams you silently have will only get lost along the way. Don't know your age, but life goes by so quickly that if you don't at least go for the gold, you'll end up kicking yourself in the end. When I say going for the gold, it's not for a man...it's going to make your dreams come true. When the right man comes along, you'll be ready for him so don't waste time wondering...just go for the gold!
Can guys loose interest in a girl fast?
Dear Rachel: The feelings you described about your man are normal. You are feeling the growing pains known as love. Yes this reader believes you are falling in love with your man. To answer the other part of the question, men can lose interest in a girl. The one thing some men do not like is for a female to act like she is macho. To do so can cause the male to feel threatened. Some men feel intimidated when the female acts like the alfa-member in a relationship. Within both genders there must be trust. Both of you need to go somewhere and talk alone. Let each other know how you feel, and try to work out your differences. There is the possibility that the male does not know how to approach you. As an example, when this reader met his wife, fear set in so bad that I barely talked to her. After finding a place and time to be alone with my wife we were able to work things out, and the relationship grew into a 22 year marriage.
Why do I lose interest in things so fast?
For the life of me I cant keep interest in things I find intriguing at first. My attention span is very short, even with people. I currently don't have any real close friends. A lot of that is due to paranoia and the fact that 2 of my so called friends were using me (at least I felt like they were). So I cut them off and after being in the army I just really like dealing with people on a personal level. Its more business, almost like I am forcing myself to cooperate, when deep down, I really don't give a damn about them. From what my mother told me even as a child, my teacher said to her that my attention span was very short. I don't know why. Even know, I am about to start community college in the spring and I already feel like I am losing interest. I think that really I am going is because I am paid to sit in a classroom and learn. Honestly, I enjoy learning new things all the time. I just cant see my self inside one solid career for the rest of my life because of short attention span. Its really bad, I don't hold on to hobbies very long and to be honest I don't think twice about it. Once I have made up in my mind I don't want to do it, I completely revert my attention to something else in seconds. I thought it would have stopped when I was a child or even when I joined the army. I think the army made me far worst than what it was. When you are in there you are not in control and it was literally driving me crazy. Now I am 22 and nothing has changed. Anybody have the same problem, keeping interest into something worth your wild? This has controlled every aspect of my life.
Why do I lose interest in people so fast as if they are not worthy of my company?
What would you define as "so fast"? You probably concluded that within 5 minutes of conversation, that person is not similar to your interests and values. It also helps to know why you would want to have interest in this person.Losing interest in people happened a lot for me in the last year. I lived in a huge frat house of 60 people, and people were moving in and out all the time. I'm more of an introverted person, so I would go to the ground floor, talk to someone for five minutes, and then already conclude that they weren't what I was about. I already have lots of friends, why do I need more people as friends who I can't immediately connect to?Now there was a time 6 years ago when I wasn't at all interested in someone, where it later turned out that my friendship with him was worth the patience. The center director introduced someone to me, when I was working on a student organization. He seemed really abrasive, critical, and quiet. I, on the other hand, was passive, friendly, and a little louder. We didn't match at all at the time. But over a year of weekly meetings, he warmed up to me as I learned to become more critical. We both knew we were trying to close the gap between us, and we both cared so much about the cause. Soon, we connected on our experiences of being outcasts and the passions we have for helping people.It was through time and energy that I've developed my closest friends, but again, there was a reason why I cared to take that effort. Maybe you just need to know the reason why you would want to connect.