My father masturbates while I'm around...?
First: your father obviously knows you're around when he's jerking off and wants you to know -- which is why he's not being even remotely discreet about it. Second: given your history of date rape, his behavior is the height of insensitivity and in a sense, he's re-abusing you. Third: this is a form of exhibitionistic behavior. The fact that he knows that you know what he's doing is a turn-on for him. (Your father, by the way, is quite likely a sex addict.) I would have a talk with your mother AND your brother, clue them in on what's happening, and see if they've observed this behavior from your father, as well. I don't know where you live, but if you leave in or close to a big city, check out CoSA (Codependents of Sex Addicts). It will help you a *lot* knowing that you're not the only person who has gone through something like this, and that you're NOT crazy, and you'll learn some techniques for coping with sex addicts (especially when they're acting out). This will probably require an intervention, which usually requires professional help. Hopefully, your mother and brother will be supportive and willing to help you with this. [You're probably a nicer person than I am: under the circumstances, I could see myself videotaping the SOB during one of his sessions, and then playing the videotape for all the family and relatives when the everybody is gathered for Thanksgiving dinner!]
How can I help an ADHD child with her homework?
You said she is your "younger sister" but then used the term "her father" meaning that he is not your father so she is a step sister. OK, I have it now. Sounds like you are having to be "Mom" here too as you didn't invoke her stance in this matter. Her Dad needs to know that it is abnormal for kids to need to go to the principal office everyday. She has had to see a psychologist at some point and that is a big sign that extra steps need to be taken to help this girl. You have two missions that need to take equal footing. #1 is to help the girl. You asked this question and that is a good start. Read up on ADHD. We need new things and to move a lot so try 15 minutes of active play and 25 minutes of tutoring. Read up on "diet" helpers and make sure she isn't working against herself. See if you can't get the school to test her on dyslexia since it is in the family. Write letters and then write some more letters. #2 is to keep working on Dad. Find out why he won't help his daugther. Ask him how easy it was to grow up with Dyslexia and how he got help and if wants it to be that way for his little girl. Just some suggestions but you get the idea. To turn some stuff around on TV, parents can be talked to (not at) if you come and talk to them like parents. Write down arguments and counterpoints and visualize where you need the conversation to go. Us in sales do this when we are trying to persuade adults to make a decision our way. Good Luck
9 people are to be seated in a row. Two of them, A and B, must sit next to each other, and another two, C and D, are not to be seated next to each other. How many different sitting arrangements are possible?
See, I use a simple trick to solve the problems of some persons sitting together and not together as per conditions given that is the bundle method (I call it so).If A and B are to be seated together, we consider them as a bundle tied together as one unit and not two separate units.So, the number of ways in which A and B can sit together in the arrangement of 9 people is 8! as there are 7 indivisuals and one bundle of A and B and they can be arranged in 7 + 1 = 8! ways, also they can interchange position between themselves and hence the number of ways become 2 x 8! ways.Now, numbers of arrangements in which C and D are not together = total number of ways - numbers of arrangements in which C and D are together.So, numbers of ways in which A and B are together and also C and D are together is7! x 2 x 2 as there are 5 indivisuals, 2 bundles and each of them can rearrange in 2 ways within bundle.So, our required answer becomes 2 x 8! - 7! x 2 x 2 = 7! x 2(8 - 2) = 7! x 12.The answer may seem lengthy because I am trying to explain but its the easiest method I know and I suggest to understand it and its going to make u solve questions very fast and easily.Hope it helps…
What is the best revenge against a cheating husband and his mistress?
A friend of mine told me this story years ago, not sure how true it is though.Anyway this couple is married, the lady has a corporate job and is always travelling. The husband is nice and supportive of his wife but has a young mistress on the side he see’s when wifey is away. Wifey suspects nothing.One day she has to travel outside the country to sort out a crisis. She’s expected back on a Monday. Husband uses this opportunity to bring his mistress home. Unfortunately for both of them wifey manages to sort out the crisis early and gets back home a day earlier, on the Sunday.She walks into the house to find a strange woman wearing her bathrobe and washing the dishes. Hubby is on the couch watching the tv with a towel wrapped around his waist. Doesn’t take a genius to figure out what’s been happening. She greets her husband warmly, even hugs him, greets the mistress warmly and rebukes her husband for not introducing them. Hubby is tongue-tied in shock. She then goes to the bedroom, unpacks her suitcase and comes back to the lounge to find the mistress has quickly dressed up and disappeared.Hubby is waiting for the worst but wifey behaves like nothing has happened. She chats merrily about her trip, asks him how he’s week has been, even makes dinner. After dinner they go to bed like nothing has happened.This continues for two straight days, wife behaves like nothing happened, isn’t moody or angry, is in fact very chirpy and cheerful. On the third day the husband broke down and confessed to everything. The torture of silence was too much to bear. He couldn’t even sleep because he thought she was plotting some nefarious scheme against him. He confesses to everything and promises never to do it again and he never does. Wife eventually forgives him and they live happily ever after. Sometimes psychological warfare really does work.
Ideas to play with my 3 year old boy?
i have the joy of being with my 3 year old son today for the whole night i am a single mom and i usually just clean make him food take him to the park i would like an activity and something new to do with him today money is limited i may be able to spend 5 bucks or so if anything thanks. hes a spitfire and tons of energy