Can U Tell About My Marriage Life

“You think you are attending my marriage. What will you tell my life partner about me?” How would you answer this type of question asked by a girl?

Oh Gosh! It seems you decepe me and finally you decided not to marry me. Don't you remember the days when I proposed you ist time in Zoology class infront of all compeers. You smiled and I was using all adjectives to impress you. Now what I got, nothing! Indeed you're a perfidious lover. How would I live without you? I shall commit suicide.Haha haha! Don't mind plz, I am kidding. It was just for amusement.I will approach to your fiance before marriage or else at nuptial wedding and will tell him about all the promises you made with me. I shall accompany with a gang of some 10–20 people and will violate wedding ceremony in order to teach you a lesson for deception. I will beat one and all who would try to stop or abuse me there. If possible I will make full arrangements in advance to lift you from the marriage Hall(bhaga k le Jaonga, Like in South Indian movies). I deem now you got it!Haha haha! Again it was for enjoyment and nothing anything else. Instead I will come there to give you blessings for beautiful and joyous post marriage life. I will not do any brawl there instead I will forward my hand towards your hubby for friendship. I will dance there though I will be agonised from the inner side but that doesn't matter, if you feel jolly thn I am obviously delighted. . “Kyun ki tumhari Khushi me hi Meri Khushi hai”.My statement to your fiance:- She is like a delicate fairy and bewitching beauty cum exquisite princess. Don't ever hurt her, otherwise I will not pardon you.Moreover I will give you a task to search a bride for me. After all you're my bestie and undoubtedly close to my heart. You will not think anything bad to me.

Imagine you are attending my marriage. What will you tell my life partner about me?

I don’t know him (let’s assume it is a “him” though it need not be). I don’t even know you. I was just passing by here, walking down the Internet, when he stepped out and invited me in to join you on your special day. But now that I am here, maybe I actually can tell you a few things about him, just based on deduction.He cares about your good opinion of him. Enough to ask this question. That’s a good thing.But he does not care so much that he wants to control the answers. He is willing to have people answer without knowing in advance what they are going to say. That’s also a good thing.People will say he is stupid for asking such a question of strangers. He evidently doesn’t mind their judgment. He is asking what amounts to a fanciful and rhetorical question and doesn’t mind being laughed at for it. That’s a good sign.To do all this, he came to Quora. Another good sign. We have some people who think differently here, and he not only accepts this—he went looking for it with this question.Open-mindedness, respect for the value of thinking differently, caring for your good opinion, and not being controlling—these are all good signs. All in all—I think the two of you have a better-than-average chance of making a good life together.

Can you tell me about my married life after reading my palm? I am 26 years old unmarried girl.

Major traitsTypical Indian girl !Very irrational and spontaneous in thinking or living life .Love the person who loves u !! Would walk extra mile to avoid fights !Very superstitious but don't acknowledge it !!Gud in art related field , broad minded thinking !Health crises may come later so take care of ur health !U would definitely settle only for one dream guy !!Very demanding , don't demand much, guys get bugged due to this trait of women's !Love material stuffs , vacation , shopping etc too much !Ping me if have written right !If any error kindly mention it also !

What should I do if I am not happy with my marriage?

You know..people make mistakes all the time (hey, ask me! I made this huge mistake not once, but twice!). You are being too hard on yourself, my dear. Believe me when I tell you that it is all a matter of perspective. How you see the world is how it will reflect back on you in turn. Positive energy attracts positive energy. If you’re confident and exude positivity, you will garner respect and silence those few who’d have dared to say anything to you.You are somewhat catastrophising your situation. This is also a common thing with us Asian women - not the catastrophe part..well, maybe that too, lol..but the whole ‘OMG, what will people say?’You know, I was near suicidal before I finally left a very cruel and emotionally-verbally abusive man? Me - a highly educated, qualified individual, well liked and respected by others - was a high strung mess full of self-doubt. Because I am Muslim, I’d even consulted Imams (4–5, I think..), and save for one (guess which one: the Desi Imam, lol) their opinion was unanimous: to leave him and file for divorce (‘khula’).Despite the support from my own parents, I thought I was doing the ‘noble thing’ by sticking around and ‘fighting for the marriage’ (little did I know, it came at a heavy price: the slow and steady decline of my mental health; I’m healthy and happy now, don't worry).My point is this: By continuing to be in this marriage, you are going to end up doing a disservice to the both of you. If you’re unhappy, chances are slim to none that he is happy and/or content.It is people’s own sad, sorry lives that propel them to indulge in gossip. They’ll talk about you for a few days, some weeks, a year perhaps, then they’ll move on to the next juicer thing.I asked myself this: Are these people paying my bills, my utilities, putting bread on the table? No. So am I going to allow some idiotic views that a handful of people hold on to from the dark ages in 2017, to affect-dictate ‘my’ life?! Hell no!My parents were typical South Asian parents with the ‘what will people-society say?’ mentality. They’ve since grown out of it, and as a family, a unit, we are so much the stronger for it.Divorces in the subcontinent have also become more common, be it within the Hindu or Muslim communities. The world is progressing.Please, I do hope you’ll seriously consider moving forward with your life. After all, we only have the one, and it is precious.If you have any questions, feel free to ask.Best of luck!