Can we be friends again?
What you think is a stupid mistake, may not really be that stupid a mistake. However, if it has changed the dynamics of your relationship with her - as in, you expressed your love/affection for her instead of just being friends - then she will not be able to let that go. She either has a commitment problem or as you say, she is not serious about you at all.You cannot push the issue - you cannot be the one trying to be friends with her again. Wait it out and see what happens. If she reaches out to you in time, then that's good for you. Either way, just forget about her and continue on with her life.(Sometimes ignoring them piques their interest again)
Should we ever be friends again?
Both of you are not teenagers, are you? If you're not, maybe you both need to become a little mature in your mindset and thoughts. :D Seriously, dude!Okay first of all, while I appreciate and encourage the fact that you've expressed your feelings about her, you should've made the effort to know if she's already in a relationship or not. In this case, she is. So she got stumped and scared by your proposal. Did you even bother to think before you blurted out? And then you play a 'tragic Bollywood hero' by saying you don't want an answer because that might ruin your friendship. If you were concerned about the friendship so much, why the hell did you even express your feelings in the first place? :D Hence, your immaturity is evident.On the part of the girl, there is also immaturity evident from the fact that she got scared and hence is avoiding you. Also I don't see a trust issue here; you're friends. I don't blame her much though. She is right about the fact that you shouldn't have said that to her if you knew she was already in a relationship. So it was your stupid move on the first place that led to this. Still, if she values you as a friend, then she should've made you understand the point and still be around.So to conclude, if she has been avoiding you for some time, you also should do the same, not to boost your ego but to let things take their time. Let her calm down about it. You probably can get your friend back but you also gotta apologize after lets say, an absence of a few months. First do the pleasantries and then apologize for being immature and state that while you can't take back what you had said, you wish to be friends again. Do this in a mature way and she'll come around.All the best... :)
How can we become friends again?
Well.. You can smile or say hi to her each time you see her.. You can call her and ask how she's doing.. Just start slow.. Then if she wants to talk to you.. She'll be happy to reply.. HINT: Call her house and leave a missed call.. To find out if she wants to talk to you again.. See if she calls you back to know why you called her.. Alls Well That Ends Well
CAN YOU BE BEST FRIENDS AGAIN WITH YOUR Ex?????
I WAS best friends with my gf b4 we went out. Now we broke up and its abousolate hell. Angry, arguing all the time. She broke up with me btw. She did let me touch her up oince about 3 weeks ago but now we just shout constantly and argue. Ive asked some friends is it possible to be best friends again without like having any sexual feelings or tension and they said no. So wot do you think can you be best friends with you ex without sexual feelings or tension???
Can we become friends again?
The question has been edited and changed to make this answer irrelevant.If she was interested in being friends she would have contacted you. So I wouldn't start contacting her. Instead, leave it alone.She knows you got feelings for her.She already said no to being a friend as it will make it awkward. If you contact her it will only show you're desperate, haven't moved on and really, haven't got much options in your life. It also shows you haven't listened to what she is saying.It's why I don't confess feelings to women who are friends. Plenty of women on the planet for me to not touch my social circle.Best you don't contact her even if it's been a year.If she wants to - she will contact you. Leave it that way and move on to build a solid foundation in your life, approach other girls, and try not to fall over heels with girls who are friends.
Will I ever be friends with her again??????????
There was this amazing girl I met and we became friends. I started to develop feeling for her. We started to talk more and flrit more. We had amazing chemistry. I started to come on too strong and she started to feel pressured. She didn't talk to me as much as she used too. One day I asked to talk to her in private. When I was talking to her in private, I appoligized for coming on too stong and told her how I felt towards her. When I finished all she said was "I'm happy you told me that".I'm 15 and she's 14. We don't go to the same school, but we see eachother 1 or 2 times a week. I told her how i felt about her 2 weeks ago, and we've only said stuff llike hi and bye since. Next week I'm going on a retreat with some friends and she'll be there. I trully love her as a friend and I belive there will never be another girl like her in my life. It hurts my heart. Will we ever be friends again? How can I start the relasionship over again? What do I do on the weekend trip when she's around?
She wants to be friends AGAIN?
she ditched me at least 5 times & we fought a lot because of her.Yet i'm soft hearted & he hav a history together as friends (14 years) but i dont trust her & she wants to hang out & i dont know either to trust her or not?? she might turn her back again? i dont know what to do.....
Will we ever be friends again?
I am going through a very similar situation. I no longer talk to my (ex) best friend. We were best friends for almost five years, and we were absolutely inseparable. We were like twins! I seriously can't believe we let it get to this. I see her all the time at school, and we never speak a word to each other. It's very stupid, actually. I would suggest taking a break from each other. That's what I'm doing with my friend. I think we're just both growing up and changing, and we need our own space for a little while. It's almost been a full month since we last spoke, and I'm thinking about waiting it out for another month or two. After we've had time to cool down and think about the situation, I'm either going to text her, or write her a letter and just tell her how I feel. I'll talk about how she hurt me, how I might have hurt her, how sorry I am, and that I don't think we should throw away our friendship over something stupid. The key factor here is time. You both need your space & you need time to grow up, cool off, and think about what's happening. Just wait it out for a little while, and then approach her. Be calm, gentle, caring, and respectful with her if you do talk again. Remember... "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, then you know it was meant to be."
How to become friends with someone again?
I've had a similar situation. You should just call her up or something and tell her that you haven't talked to her in while, just seeing whats up, and that you miss talking/hanging out. Bring up some of the good times you had, or any inside jokes casually in the conversation if can. If she was really a good friend of yours, she'll meet you half way and want to talk more to you too. Remember, you can't do it all by yourself either. But just keep talking to her (but not so much that it gets annoying) call her now and then and wait. She should respond the same way, even if it takes a little time. If she doesn't, well at least you tried. Hope this helped. Good luck!
Will she ever be my friend again :( ?
me and this girl (im a guy) have been like really best friends since like novembor, we have been talking everyday and such over phone/skype/facebook and she helped me with my relationship issues and visa versa. Basiacally when i needed someone she was there. Im a junior, and shes a freshman in highschool. Last time she had a bf she kinda ignored me but i forgave her eventually because she started to talk to me wen they broke up. Now theris this other guy who i guess likes her and she likes him, but whenever i write on her wall like we always used to he would stay stuff like ur such a ****** and ur gay. So i absolutley hate wen people do this over facebook, as they think there so cool, but would never say it to my face. So we argued over her status i cussed him out and basically he said i didnt have the balls to fight him unless its behind a computer. Well i do, so i called him out to fight and hes a freshman and im a junior and i'm much bigger. So he just said ur such a pusssy u dont mean it. and i said i did. and my friend got mad at me and said that im really mean (even though he started it) and she deleted half my comments and gave me limited accsess to her wall. Like we have been besties for a long time and now she favors this guy who started a fight with me that she just met. I threatened to defriend her if she kept deleting my comments, and she said she didnt care so i told her to stop writing on my wall, and shes like whatever. So i defriended her out of anger but instantly regret it so i added her in like a day and she accepted and i read her recent posts and her status was : I miss the friend you used to be... my best friend" like an 1hr after i defriended her..... i feel so bad and i tried to apologize over message but she kinda was just like w/e its fine, and i said i was sorry at school but she ignored me........ i miss her alot and feel sooo bad for my actions i just want her back. I also asked her to chat and she was like i cant, so we eventually chatted and i explained to her and it was like 1 or 2 word answers and she said she had to go after a while, and she claims she hasent been ignoring me..... i just cant stop thinking of her and im so anxious that we may never be friends again.... what are the chances of her taking me back.... also wat are some things i can say to make her not mad at me anymore..... please im really depressed