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Can You Forgive Someone That Spit In Your Face

What does it mean when someone spits in your face?

I can only tell you what it means to me, but I do think the meaning is pretty universal.Some people in Atlanta, Ga. took my luggage outside the hotel while I was waiting for a cab. They put it in their cab along with their luggage, but I didn’t notice until they’d pulled away from the curb.Luckily, I managed to hop in the next available taxi and I told them to “follow the cab” some distance up ahead. It took a while and some detective work at the airport (long, interesting story for another time) but I found them at their gate, just innocently sitting there, middle-aged husband and wife, waiting to board.I went immediately to the ticket counter and pointing at the suitcase thieves, I explained the situation and demanded I get my luggage back from the bowels of the plane. Well, you’d think that I was the offender. Airport took the suitcase and me into a small room and locked the door. They unzipped my suitcase and spilled all the contents onto the floor. My diamond ring rolled around and ended up under a radiator thing and had to be fished out.No “contraband” was found so they left me in the room to repack, feeling like I’d been violated. When I left the interrogation room, I saw the husband outside a glass door talking and laughing with the captain, probably giving him some long-winded bullshit story about an “honest mistake”. The two Good Ol’ Boys were having a yuk-yuk at my expense and that was the last straw. ..I opened that glass door and spat right in the guys fat face. The laughter stopped PDQ and I haughtily walked off with my suitcase to my departure gate.What did that spit in the face from me to him mean? It meant, “This slimy scum juice from my throat is too good for you, you low-life, ass-sucking, pus licking douche bag, shit eating suitcase thief.”

Why is it a felony to spit in someone's face?

because there are diseases that are spread through spit including but not limited to HIV and aids. Many people have blood cells in their spit and thus it can be assault with a deadly weapon.

If your spouse spit in your face would you forgive them and give them a second chance or would it be the end?

That's pretty f'ing low... so he would have to seriously kiss my azz for a while before I would truly forgive him... but if he did it again after that, I wouldn't even have to think twice...I'd just kick his sorry azz out!

Would you forgive someone that spit in your face?

I ask because last year me and one of my sisters got into a fight. I put my hand in her face, she grabbed my wrist and wouldn't let go so I spit in her face.
She attacked me (which I would do if someone did that to me) and we fought. Well, it really wasn't a fight because we just pulled each others hair. I don't like fighting with my siblings and I still can't believe we fought and that I spit in her face. I apologized and we've moved on but I still feel bad for what I did.
We aren't teens we're both grown women.

When you accidentally spit in someone's face while talking, do you say sorry, or do you just carry on and hope they play along as nothing happened?

As I wrote in 5 Things EVERY "Socially Awkward" Person Should Know:Address the elephant in the room.I’m all about addressing the elephant. ​Addressing the elephant is something that is inherently awkward. It is an intentional decision to be awkward, which kind of contradicts what I just said about not being awkward on purpose.EXCEPT!The way I see it, if something’s awkward, it’s awkward. Saying so… makes it way less awkward. Or, at the very least, it helps avoid social confusion and misinterpretation. Read more >If you address that you just spat in my face, I no longer feel obligated to stand there with your spit on my face, afraid to wipe it away because I don’t want to embarrass you.Why not just cover your mouth in shock and say, “Whoa! Sorry!” or something?Moreover, as I wrote in These Specific Behaviors Will Make You More Charismatic - Starting Right Now:​When you're with someone, but you're distracted by other thoughts or emotions, people notice. Maybe your eyes glaze over, or your reactions are a little off or delayed. (It only takes 17 milliseconds to register someone's emotions.) Or maybe you're being super obvious about it and using a mobile device while "listening" to them.This makes people feel... bad. Like they're not important. Or like you're not being authentic. And they're right -- you're not. You're thinking about something else -- whether it's an upcoming deadline, a personal insecurity, or a new crush. They do not have your undivided attention.So the first step to being "charismatic" -- and also happy, healthy, etc. -- is being present.Read more >Addressing the elephant helps people correctly attribute discomfort, shyness, or whatever other negative emotion you may be experiencing.

How do I forgive my boyfriend for spitting in my face?

Why would you want to stay with someone with such little self esteem that he has to bolster it by making someone else feel bad?Forgive him, by all means (that is, after all, just a decision you make to be able to let go of the situation), but walk away now. While you still can. Men who behave that way do not improve their behaviour over time. Don't become a statistic.

What is the best way to handle a situation where someone spits in your face intentionally?

Well firstly you need to ask yourself or that person WHY? A spit in the face, as daunting and upsetting as it may be, isn’t the end of the world as such. If you are strong willed and able enough, just walk away and be grateful that you would not do this to someone. We need to sometimes experience other people’s negativeness to appreciate who we are and to learn not to be ourselves or become. In other words, feeling hurt (within reason) is less of a burden than creating hurt. Quite often, being on the receiving end of wrongdoings allows us to expiate our bad karma to make room for something better to come forth. On the other hand, creating a bad cause is only a motivation provoked by existing bad karma that allows the bad karma to grow even stronger in our lives.

What would you do if your husband spit in your face?

My husband has a bad temper and during a disagreement. He lost it and pushed me and spit in my face. I didn't know what to say or do. I was in shock I still don't know what to say to him about the situation. I don't know who to talk to about his temper. I don't want to tell my family I know that it would upset them.

My father spit on my face. What should I do?

So many questions unanswered within your question.Before I ask those, let me say it’s never, ever okay. Anyone spitting on anyone is disgusting and illegal in many places as it’s considered battery, when an assailant is intentionally touching someone, where the touching is done without consent of the victim, and where the touching is considered to be harmful,potentially exposing them to a contagious disease.How old are you? Do you live at home? Do you have supportive family members? I would consider this abuse, under any and all circumstances. It may not physically hurt as much as being hit, but it’s basically the same thing. And the emotional/spiritual side of being spit on is even worse in some ways.I would gather your supportive family members together and talk about this situation. Has it happened before? Could your father have emotional/mental health problems? Can you go live in a safe place away from him? Could or has this action led into or been a part of other violence?This may require professional intervention from a doctor, counselor, clergy member, psychiatrist and maybe even law enforcement. This is not okay. Try not to be in the position that this will happen again. That’s hard with family, I know.Good luck. You are worth so much more than this action belies.

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